Yaariyan #6 Main ro ro ke ganga nahaaonga - Page 8

Originally posted by: sanabmw

it's good k dono khud faisla le.. ye jayada sahi hai.

Yes it should be there decision without any pressure

Dear goodness!! Daily fights between husband and wife is not the same as physical, mental abuse.. it's not the same as questioning your wife's character or raping her for that matter. Islam undoubtedly places importance on husband wife relationship but in Islam, bohtan lagana is a serious, very serious gunah too.. and in Islam, it is definitely not allowed to force your wife to sleep with you.. Islam is all about respect to women.. you cannot force a woman for anything..

Kids should never ever be the reason tp stay in a marriage... That is a horrible idea since you will basically be making the kid a victim of emotional stress

Lastly, Umair kuch bhiv karle, he cannot undo the sins he did... So ya.. i can understand ppl wanting the two to be together because of chemistry or whatever but if we talk about story, these two should never ever end up together.. it's a very very wrong message which should not be encouraged .

Even in real life, a wife would never want to stay with a husband who do her to prove parentage of her kid.. that would be an unpardonable crime for any mother

Originally posted by: sanabmw

I dont understand jab koi sorry bolta hai genuinely to koi kyu na maaf kare.. is me burai kya hai?

husband wife koi bhi aise nahi hoge jin k beach kabhi koi problems ya fights nahi hue hoge.. har baar sab agar divorced lene lag gaye to koi bhi shadi nahi chalegi.

jaha tak baat rahi ahmer zobi ki to ha us case me maafi nahi honk chahiye b/c zobi ne koi bhi kaam mistakenly nahi kiye.. sab plan banakar kiye. usne sadia k baby k baare me bhi nahi socha. kya ye Crime nahi hai k aap apne selfishness me itne bure ban jao k ek bacche k liye bhi na socho.. rape murder, kidnapping crimes hai but kisi ki image kharaab kar k uska ghar todna bhi crime hai.. kisi bacche k maa baap ko alag karna bhi crime hai.

and ahmer sacchayi ka pujari banta raha pure show me.. clean image wala insaan bankar raha.. so ab bhi usko maintain rakhna chahiye.. ab maafi nahi zobi ko.. b/c sadia arsh par and zobi farsh par.. jab arsh wali ko divorce diya to farsh wali ka murder kare.

umair ne rape kiya but nashe me.. janbujhkar karta to usko maafi nahi milni chahiye thi.. nashe me bhi galat hi hai.. but now wo sudhrna chahta hai.. uske San doubt clear ho gaye..jis tarah wo maafi maang raha hai not even sadia but zeenat ahmer sab se.. so usko agar sadia jo uski biwi hai agar maaf kar de to koi galat nahi hai..

but zobi dobi wo to 900 chuhe khakar hajj par chal rahi hai.. usko maaf kiya ahmer ne to wo usse bhi jayada disgusting hoga.

he can be forgiven but i dont think their marriage can be mended

And another dear goodness if anyone thinks raping under influence of alcohol is pardonable.. do you even realize how many raped are done under influence of alcohol?! So you mean women should forgive their rapists if they were drunk and later repent for their actions?!! Good Lord!!

Sadia Umair have too much water under the bridge.. no way can they have a normal marital life.. can Sadia forget Umair forced himself on her/forced her for DNA/made a Tamasha out of her? Can Umair forget everything he has put Sadia through?! Nah.. their relationship is doomed.. I wonder what the writer was thinking while writing these crappy, desperate and lowlife characters with no redeeming qualities

Originally posted by: sanabmw

so tum bhi meri wali boat me sawaar ho lol.. it's good yaar ladna and phir ek ho Jana normal thing hai marriage me. bas fights small cheezo par ho.

umair se rape expect nahi hota seriously.. umair sadia se nafarat karta tha even nikaah k baad room me soya nahi.. and room me aaya next day to sadia ko bahar Jane ko kaha.. b/c usne sona tha.. than he is emotional guy jo zobi k liye pagal tha.. Rota tha uske liye wo kaise uski hi sister ka rape kar lega? and wo bhi I think nikaah k kuvh days k baad.. and us din k baad kabhi usne drink nahi kiya strange.. b/c usne zobi k rejection k baa drink kiya tha but uske baad kitna kuvh hua.. zobi ne usko phir se chod diya..ahmer se shadi ka news mili but phir kabhi drink nahi kiya.. lol

Yes he drank after zoobie rejected him,came home,looked at sadia as if she caused his zoobie to reject him,then just decided ke bus yehi meri kismat hai.....and subconsciously I think Sadia's accusation affected him,you are right,he never drank after that night.Usko to yeh sab ne sudhaar diya😆 maine socha nahi tha🤣

Sochne wali baat hai

Originally posted by: sami011

kai baar sana fights happen on big things too,parents ,children ,siblings.What I have learnt is patience is the virtue,it is sad reality of eastern upbringing,we become more patient than husbands.

Yes he drank after zoobie rejected him,came home,looked at sadia as if she caused his zoobie to reject him,then just decided ke bus yehi meri kismat hai.....and subconsciously I think Sadia's accusation affected him,you are right,he never drank after that night.Usko to yeh sab ne sudhaar diya😆 maine socha nahi tha🤣

Sochne wali baat hai

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Originally posted by: Ruby7

See may be he feels that sadia was happy with the pregnancy so the rape isn't a big issue for her so.he himself put it under the carpet. Right now he is upset that he suspected her and she isn t coming back home with him..they will need time to make peace with the past and that can come when sadia will forgive from.full heart.

Do you think he will confess some feelings to her before the end of the last episode

Sadia was saying mukar kaise sakte ho tum and also she was just angry with him but accepted that she has proper marriage with him .She told him you keeping relationship with my sister is najaez

So that is my thought process --- she does not consider it as rape and my response to your question is based on that.

I feel Umair absolutely love her truly ,he is going to confess for sure.It probably is going to happen in a very dramatic situation --either she will hear it when she is in life threatening situation during child birth or some times earlier.There is also a possibility that she overhears him may be telling zoobie or sumbul.I feel there will be a showdown between him and zoobie and she may confess to him and Sadia overhears everything.Only then she will believe it I feel.

See sadia is insecure about Umair,she thinks he has sympathy for her but not love.He will eventually say that he loves her but how that remains to be seen.....

He has to show how he feels in his actions too,his caring attitude towards Sumbul would also melt Sadia's heart.

Ruby I must confess Sumbul holding dying Aaliya was very emotional scene for me,in a way it is better to have happened with one of her kids,that woman loved her kids.....

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

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Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Sadia Umair have too much water under the bridge.. no way can they have a normal marital life.. can Sadia forget Umair forced himself on her/forced her for DNA/made a Tamasha out of her? Can Umair forget everything he has put Sadia through?! Nah.. their relationship is doomed.. I wonder what the writer was thinking while writing these crappy, desperate and lowlife characters with no redeeming qualities

But I dont think relationship is doomed despite all this ,A child between a couple changes a lot between you and time is biggest healer but realistically it can take years.It wont be a ideal relationship though,personally I feel that does not exist