Why my heart still goes out to Anurag - Page 3

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Brilliant post! ⭐️❤️

No. Anurag can't be hated. He is a sincere man. When he loves he loves, when he hates he hates. The problem is with Prerna........nautankibaaz. Plays victim all the time and uses men.

Anu rescued her when she was desperately trying to marry her Navin Babu. This is normal that he is thinking Baju is another Navin Babu. He is thinking Baju is the one who has manipulated Prerna, misguided her and now using her too. To Anu Prerna is "Pavitra" "Bholi" 🤢🤢. And Baju is a monster like Navin Babu. Did Prerna ever tried to make Baju and Anu friends? NOOOOOOOO.

Instead of bringing peace between Anu and Baju this lady is pouring ghee in between Anu and Baju. Now I don't hate Baju too. He is also a victim of Prerna , just like Anu.

When she heard about Anu's involvement she informed everything right to Baju. When she knows very well after knowing all these what Baju will do and after that what Anu will do. Is she showing her loyalty to Baju this way???🤢 Then where was her loyalty when she was having romance with Anu behind Baju. She could punish Anu and stop him from planning against Baju. Threat him or give her kasam( the way they deal in ITV) not to hurt Baju. Even make Anu go to the thana and get Baju free. THis would definitely improve Anuaj's relationship. But noooooooo. She wants war between the two men. Aag laganewali awrat. .

Thank you😃

You seem really angry on Prerna😆

Yeah it's true that the past experience wid Naveen babu has made Anu believe that Bajaj is forcing Pre into this marriage.....though it's not completely wrong but it's not completely ryt either.

About making Anu and Bajaj frnds....... honestly I don't want that. Bajaj might not be a criminal like Naveen Babu but he did destroy Anu's happiness forever and is still doing it. So I personally don't want any frndshp between d two . They can cordial but thats it. You don't hv to frnds wid the person who married the person you love .

I totally agree with you all.i just can't hate him .anupre is only alive because of anu.what he is doing can't be considered completely wrong I think he won't be much better if he was aware of prerna Bajaj marriage reason and his baby

Originally posted by: _charu_

Its not absolute right on each other. It's like we take some liberties with those who we love..like anurag was enjoying prernas act during komo's time..prerna doesnt see his actions as wrong , neither slapping nor following nor talking same thing everyday , nor him trying to harm bajaj...Will she do the same with any other guy ?...Will she take a restraining order against anurag or say that he is stalking her? Till the time prerna has given that right to him , we can't say he is man handling her or stalking her or whatever.. it's with prernas consent . Stalking molesting and man handling is at different level . But Yes. I sincerely believe that if a girl is saying no it means no. But is prerna saying no from heart? Does she really mean it ? She must first sort our her emotions before he should do it. Has she moved on ? The day she tells him the truth,he will hear the truth and believe her..

True Prerna has to sort out her emotions first before expecting and wanting Anurag to move on. But I feel somewhere she already has moved on......and Anurag should just take her word for it because searching heart for answers has damaged him enough.

You are right that Prerna should object to his stalking and madness if she finds it wrong but isn't. But my point is the old Anurag would never hv done such things.......this is the Anurag dt falling in love wid Prerna made him.

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

Anurag’s misery is heart wrenching to be precise. And, no matter what people say, I feel his pain, leaves a hole in my heart. A life that he dreamt and now a life that he has is a nightmare!

What drives a man to this verge that he changes, its love, despair and tragedy that makes you choke in grief?

We all want him to move on and give a damn but how can he?

And, that’s where the moral boundaries blur. People’s actions are always driven by motivations, his by desperation. One last chance to bring back the one whom he cannot live without.

I particularly connect his desperate action to jump in front of the car to a particular vacant resignation. -What does Mr. Bajaj have that I don’t? Mujhme Kya kami hai? To Shivi. That self-doubt happens, no? That teeny Meeny sense of loss shatters your confidence, right?

Am I not good enough? What do I lack? Maybe, maybe if I think like the other man, I might get his way.

Psychology is complex and in despair and rejection, we often try to emulate the actions of others. This is not Anurag we know? This is the Anurag who isn’t sure, who finds himself in self-doubt, swings between hope and misery, shuttles between confidence and self-doubt. Do we even get to see such vulnerabilities! Only when you lose a love so Consuming, you become self-aware or self-destructive.

When he fell across on Moloy’s Chest, he did admit, this is not him. In his heart, he knows he might be wrong but love drives him, loss drives him and hope drives him.

It’s a complex drive ranging from extreme optimism to the depths of cavernous gloom.

This instability is driving him crazy. It’s not actually about a man who loved, lost and is not ready to give up. It’s about a man who loved, lost and has become empty as a person. Emptiness is consuming like love! One leaves you punched with a hole in the heart and the other makes you giddy headed with excitement. But, both consumes.

Anurag and Prerna are like fire that consumes, when together or even without each other! Consuming and complex!

Just yesterday I was thinking why is it that I cannot dislike Anurag even though I am a RB fan! And here you come...with an answer! You are an absolute wizard with words!!

That scene with Moloy on Friday was really heartwrenching... the way he says Main bas apni zindagi maang raha hoon! He is not giving up bcoz he doesn't know what to do with his life now...he doesn't know how to live without her. He is desperate to get her back bcoz loving her is the only thing he knows.

I personally cannot identify with him, with a love like this but neither can I hate him. I pity him, and more so his family...no one should love like this or be subjected to see one's son/brother waste away like this.

Originally posted by: ifmember

Anurag during their love confession said "tum ho , tho main hoon, warna main, main nahi hoon "

And he is no more the same without her.

But, I want him to realise how wrong it is, whatever he is trying to do, and to come back with more positivity, love and affection, that's what he is by nature.

And seeing that Anurag will get out all the emotions of Prerna, a small glimpse of it was, the kitchen convo, where she saw him happy and trying to be normal and she had a major breakdown, how much she is suffered.

This was the Anurag I wish we had in this track, the one who will get back his Prerna with love.

As their name goes, Anurag needs prerna to fight for their love with positivity, and Prerna needs Anurag, as in affection from him to bring out her emotions, instead of being this indifferent to what happened with her.

@ bold : That's exactly what has become of him.

Yes we all want Anu to be back to his own self.......caring and loving self. But at this point I don't want him to win Prerna back anymore...... because this tym he hasn't lost her because of his own fault......the weight of the decision of marrying Mr Bajaj lies wid Prerna alone. Anurag should just let her be......if she comes back .....great but if she doesn't he better move ahead and away from Prerna.

I don't think Anurag is indifferent to Prerna's situation......he just doesn't understand y she is doing everything .

Originally posted by: KamikazeKinght01

Why we still love him?? Coz he's loner and our heart cries for the one who cries for others. We will hate him at times, we will call him everything we can call him, we will disapprove him for his works, for his madness but we will keep loving him... We will keep loving you Mr Anurag Basu. Because you have kept alive the eternal love of AnuPre. ^_^

True he is the one who is still burning as the oil of Anupre eternal love story.

We might not agree with all his actions but we can see from where he is coming from.

Originally posted by: Kanza_12

I totally agree with you all.i just can't hate him .anupre is only alive because of anu.what he is doing can't be considered completely wrong I think he won't be much better if he was aware of prerna Bajaj marriage reason and his baby

True .....we don't know if he will improve or deteriorate in knowing that his child will be born to Mr and Mrs Bajaj. More than that I'm scared Ekta Maata will make him distrust Pre 🥺

I am the 40th 'Like"😆

Well said. I have million issues with Anurag and Prerna but I cannot be angry at them.

But I want to see their individual journey, not together. Both are toxic for each other

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

True he is the one who is still burning as the oil of Anupre eternal love story.

We might not agree with all his actions but we can see from where he is coming from.

Exactly.. thats how it is..we don't approve of his actions but we can see from where he is coming from .

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

I am the 40th 'Like"😆

Well said. I have million issues with Anurag and Prerna but I cannot be angry at them.

But I want to see their individual journey, not together. Both are toxic for each other

40 the like is special😃

Lol when I posted dis at night I didn't even know if anyone would read it😆

Just dt I was thinking about everything Anurag is doing and I felt bad for him because he wouldn't hv been in such pain if he hadnt ever met Pre.