Originally posted by: asmaanixx
But in a way she is. Since Ashok was her only husband prior to HS, her understanding of a husband/wife relationship is based off of everything he did to / with her. This the part where I struggle to understand her. She knows there's more to marital relationships than just sex. It's not like she was the only one bound to this relationship. She has seen so many marital couples around. Beeji & Dadu, Lovely & Sukhi, Pink & Saroj, heck even her own parents. Did they all just engage in sex? No, so why is she thinking this way about marriage? Granted, that's what her first shaadi was like. But her second one doesn't have to be that way. She can choose for it to be different.
But even as a mom, she's not showing any guilt. If she was truly that concerned about Minnie, she wouldn't have booked her a ticket for Kerala as well. Also, she would have questioned her as to how she feels about HS accusing her about the CD. She's just off doing whatever she wants.
Babita lightly told Minnie that she can't tell the difference as to when Minnie is telling the truth or when she's lying. It's true. Despite being a mother, Babita is starting to become so self involved, that she's unable to see what's happening to her daughter.
@Bold 1 - her own relation and the way it ended has made her somewhat blind to all the positive things she could see in other marital relations. - shouldnt happen, but believe me it does happen in real life
@Bold 2 - she can choose, but for that she needs to understand that, moreover needs to accept that she has a choice.
@Bold 3 - she is experiencing and processing the guilt in her own ways. she thinks everything is sorted between mini and HS, and maybe believes that talking to mini will further hurt her.
@Bold 4 - again, she is perceiving eveything in her own way, partly because of her own feelings and understanding of those feelings, the quick shift in situations and people she trusts lying to her.
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