It's actually all about presumptions - Page 2

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha no it's ok, I totally understand your gussa🤗😆

Tum bhi mujhe kos rahi hogi that I pulled you into the show and got you attached lekin ab yeh haal ho gaya😆

🤗 Tumhe kyon hate karoongi tum thodi na likh rahi ho ya bana rahi ho show😆

It sucks that they have suddenly changed the whole genre of sorts and are doing the character butchering and flip like this. Fpr someone who has seen the 200 episodes journey and has seen the whole progress graph and how much love care and concern HS has showed over 200 episodes it is really hard to see him being made into this evil sautela dad from pov(yes i kbow she hasn't said that but her eyes are saying that she is sewing him as someone who has fprced himself upon them and came inbetween and is stealing the nother away from daughter.bas itna hi samjhi mini madam aap hanuman uncle ko. Kahan gayi saari samjhdari. The worst is this didn't start just because of that simple question. She was in gloomy bechari mode beforehand only after kammo ki bakwaas and mini in this sacrificial mode i can't handle haise haalat ki maari ho the kid who finds her zeal her positivity is otherwise so mature can be so dumb in this matter. It is not like babita has neglected her in these past few days also. Yes she has been busy with her superficial material things but she also has been clinging to mini in her usual way too so i don't personally understand this all of a sudden risen insecurity of mini ke woh peeche choot gayi. As NB said it ke mini kahan mayke main chod ke jaa rahi hai that it is being implied. I'd understand mini ke yeh haalat and yeh gloom and yeh feeling had at any point the to be 2nd husband(not HS caz we know he'd never any other xyz suppose) of babita made this demand and then mini doubting babita and her love for mini and feeling this extra insecurity or had it been someone other then Hanuman singh marrying babita and her not knowing the person and having trust issues but somehow with hanuman all this pinches really more seeing how much he cares for them and has done for them and esp his love for mini it really really is painful seeing her just write it all off in a way and get hung up on something as HS getting hurt and asking her a question and start doubting him

By seeing HS hurt and pain we can say that he is deeply in love with the mother daughter.. But one thing o felt after reading ur analysis is did the mother daughter also feels the same how he feels... U know even Babita... In the whole marriage she was just doing the rituals for the sake of doing them... Even HS was not happy as he was in the starting but at least he was smiling when he filled sindoor but Babita expression was so cold... Kuch bhi Nani tha uske chehre pe... It was like somebody hypnotized her asked her to marry....

O seriously never felt that they married a way too early but today for the first time I Am feeling ki HS ne shaadi ka proposal bout jaldi rakhdiya...

I am going through the same thoughts which he have shown after saying sorry to Babita...

I know after 2 or 3 episodes it will sorted but what about the love he is expecting from them.... Will they ever be able to watch the love which he has for them...

Hope the my get clear soon and they first try to. Sort his place in their life....

Donno I m feeling so low....this man stoley heart yaar.. The love he carries for mother daughter is devine... Hope they realize soon and won't hurt more...

1) Were the CVs implying that Mini was consciously distancing herself (while showing how she slowly became close to HS in the FBs) from HS? And Babita?

2) The Khurana scene jarred. And it felt like Mini went behind her Babe's back to console them. And so typical of Lovely - when the tough times come, she cuts and runs.

3) Looks like the trio forgot that Mini will also do grah pravesh with Babita in the angst from the previous day.

4) Babita wiped out the genuine smile on HS when she stated that their relationship doesn't matter if Mini is not a part of it. HS knows it, then why is Babita hammering it home?

[Somehow, I don't feel like watching the show, just read the written updates. It has lost its charm. I started watching it (from the factory job episodes) because my mom used to watch it. I would give her company and got hooked. My daughter feels there's too much melodrama. Lol! She saw one of the Ashok-Mita episodes.]

I agree with each of your comments about where and how the series has come off the rails and seems to be going down hill from the time that late wife track was introduced. And I sincerely think there has been a change of the creative team. They’ve brought in someone medicore hoping to sell well for a highest trp. They have a game plan and have the money!

And they also don’t care about the audience.

I think we would be wasting our time and effort writing about this series from here on. It’s a huge shame what it was and where it has come to.... a bizarre mother-daughter duo where the mum is a girl too late and daughter is a woman too early.... apologies Rabindranath Tagore

P.S I think HS should cut his losses and exit!

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

By seeing HS hurt and pain we can say that he is deeply in love with the mother daughter.. But one thing o felt after reading ur analysis is did the mother daughter also feels the same how he feels... U know even Babita... In the whole marriage she was just doing the rituals for the sake of doing them... Even HS was not happy as he was in the starting but at least he was smiling when he filled sindoor but Babita expression was so cold... Kuch bhi Nani tha uske chehre pe... It was like somebody hypnotized her asked her to marry....

O seriously never felt that they married a way too early but today for the first time I Am feeling ki HS ne shaadi ka proposal bout jaldi rakhdiya...

I am going through the same thoughts which he have shown after saying sorry to Babita...

I know after 2 or 3 episodes it will sorted but what about the love he is expecting from them.... Will they ever be able to watch the love which he has for them...

Hope the my get clear soon and they first try to. Sort his place in their life....

Donno I m feeling so low....this man stoley heart yaar.. The love he carries for mother daughter is devine... Hope they realize soon and won't hurt more...

Babita's expression in the marriage was numb....because I think by then all that she had said and done in the room was hitting home.....I'm willing to bet she was regretting what she said to the grandparents....she said she wanted to be rid of her past but flinging away her past didn't make her feel ready for the future even then....which is why she kept looking for Mini.....the only link that gives her a sense of security.....even though she's marrying HS, only Mini gives her a sense of security....she should reflect on that.

HS was trying to smile reassuringly at her during the sindoor and she did try to smile back a bit but she was too distracted by her thoughts and the whole situation.....basically whatever happened was hard to move past from cuz the blow up in the room was a big one. In such a state of mind, to do shaadi.....one really can't be expected to be able to feel emotions.....HS ka toh bada dil hai....kahin se himmat kar ke smile kar leta hai.....Babita is not like that.

As for love.....yes, HS has immense love for mother and daughter.....I can even sense Mini's love for him.....she's also hurt because of that love she has for him only.....but Babita....she still has a long way to go in being able to actually get a sense of HS's love for her....and to actually begin to have complete faith in his love.

Shaadi did happen too soon....they were all not ready for it.....but now that it's happened, they can use it as an opportunity to actually start to understand each other.

Originally posted by: hamzanuha

1) Were the CVs implying that Mini was consciously distancing herself (while showing how she slowly became close to HS in the FBs) from HS? And Babita?

Yes, that was the intended symbolism and tragic irony....that she is distancing herself just as she’s remembering all the moments that brought them close.

2) The Khurana scene jarred. And it felt like Mini went behind her Babe's back to console them. And so typical of Lovely - when the tough times come, she cuts and runs.

Yes, it did give a sense of Mini cleaning up Babita ka mess even though she doesn’t agree with her and it gave an appearance of betrayal towards the mother she otherwise staunchly defends 🤷‍♀️

3) Looks like the trio forgot that Mini will also do grah pravesh with Babita in the angst from the previous day.

Did he ever mean a literal grahpravesh? Lol Mini held Babita’s hand and brought her down the stairs toh I guess woh symbolism got addressed there of daughter bringing mother along 🤷‍♀️ Lol

4) Babita wiped out the genuine smile on HS when she stated that their relationship doesn't matter if Mini is not a part of it. HS knows it, then why is Babita hammering it home?

It’s probably the guilty mother in her speaking....she is guilt ridden about doing anything in life without Mini and now reality is hitting home ki shaadi ho gayi hai, toh pati bhi hai....and she’s terrified of failing as a mother so she’s ready to break all ties in an instant to apparently give some proof of her staunch motherhood. Again, in all this, HS’s emotions don’t seem to be any factor in her equation 🤷‍♀️

[Somehow, I don't feel like watching the show, just read the written updates. It has lost its charm. I started watching it (from the factory job episodes) because my mom used to watch it. I would give her company and got hooked. My daughter feels there's too much melodrama. Lol! She saw one of the Ashok-Mita episodes.]

Lol melodrama toh absolutely hai....but I would say it’s still not as horrible as the melodrama in other shows....haha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Babita's expression in the marriage was numb....because I think by then all that she had said and done in the room was hitting home.....I'm willing to bet she was regretting what she said to the grandparents....she said she wanted to be rid of her past but flinging away her past didn't make her feel ready for the future even then....which is why she kept looking for Mini.....the only link that gives her a sense of security.....even though she's marrying HS, only Mini gives her a sense of security....she should reflect on that.

HS was trying to smile reassuringly at her during the sindoor and she did try to smile back a bit but she was too distracted by her thoughts and the whole situation.....basically whatever happened was hard to move past from cuz the blow up in the room was a big one. In such a state of mind, to do shaadi.....one really can't be expected to be able to feel emotions.....HS ka toh bada dil hai....kahin se himmat kar ke smile kar leta hai.....Babita is not like that.

As for love.....yes, HS has immense love for mother and daughter.....I can even sense Mini's love for him.....she's also hurt because of that love she has for him only.....but Babita....she still has a long way to go in being able to actually get a sense of HS's love for her....and to actually begin to have complete faith in his love.

Shaadi did happen too soon....they were all not ready for it.....but now that it's happened, they can use it as an opportunity to actually start to understand each other.

Hope they do this instead of running away from each other.. But I don't it will happen sooner...

I’m thinking back to the shaadi proposal scene again....

Babita was the one who initiated it by asking him to become a part of a family picture with her and Mini.....a family means both husband and father...she didn’t ask him to just become Mini’s father or just her husband.

Then HS ran to Mini and asked her to ask her mother if she wants to marry him....it was implied that he too is asking the same thing as Babita....that can they all be a family together? And Babita’s Yes was what set the ball rolling....HS and Mini’s consent was a forgone conclusion by that point.

Yes, all this came at a time when he thought he was about to lose both of them since Babita wanted to leave the house....perhaps Babita initiated the proposal because she didn’t want to seperate HS and Mini....and HS completed the proposal by asking Babita to marry him through Mini.

One major missing chunk is that Mini is aware of the depth of HS ki feelings for Babita cuz of that audio clip....but Babita doesn’t know....she knows he likes her, is attracted to her....but the depth she doesn’t know I think. So maybe it’s convenient for her also to think sab sirf Mini ke liye tha? After all, HS did declare himself Mini’s father even before he proposed to Babita.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I’m thinking back to the shaadi proposal scene again....

Babita was the one who initiated it by asking him to become a part of a family picture with her and Mini.....a family means both husband and father...she didn’t ask him to just become Mini’s father or just her husband.

Then HS ran to Mini and asked her to ask her mother if she wants to marry him....it was implied that he too is asking the same thing as Babita....that can they all be a family together? And Babita’s Yes was what set the ball rolling....HS and Mini’s consent was a forgone conclusion by that point.

Yes, all this came at a time when he thought he was about to lose both of them since Babita wanted to leave the house....perhaps Babita initiated the proposal because she didn’t want to seperate HS and Mini....and HS completed the proposal by asking Babita to marry him through Mini.

One major missing chunk is that Mini is aware of the depth of HS ki feelings for Babita cuz of that audio clip....but Babita doesn’t know....she knows he likes her, is attracted to her....but the depth she doesn’t know I think. So maybe it’s convenient for her also to think sab sirf Mini ke liye tha? After all, HS did declare himself Mini’s father even before he proposed to Babita.

Point to hai... So. Do u think. This journey will from Minni he like to only for them...

I know how crucial and important is this audio. Clip... This played an very important role and now I feel. Even babes will. Listen to it in sometime....

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Hope they do this instead of running away from each other.. But I don't it will happen sooner...

Lol they can’t run away from each other for long...ek hi ghar mein rehte hain....baat toh karni padegi sooner than later. Aur koi hai bhi nahin ghar mein to distract them....yehi teen hain aapas mein 😆

But I’m also wondering if HS will take to drinking again 😕....I really hope not...he’s pretty hurt and shattered but I hope he holds to that promise he made to Mini.