Hanuman's hurt - Page 8

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

HS was hurt the moment Mini said “Meri Babes ki shadi” are it’s his wedding too.

Yet all in all, it’s HS that my heart broke for. Mother daughter is so busy in their own web, they forget that someone else is there. They have so many times completely discarded him. It must feel worst to constantly be called 3rd wheel. And when he said socha tha tera father Banunga.. heartbreaking. Anirudh was some so brilliant. Don’t have enough words to describe it. The crumbling of that dil ka rishtaa in front of his own eyes. Reality hit his expectations in worst possible ways.

Please Babita.. please. Ab to jaago. I want HS to completely retract and not say anything. Nothing. Let mother daughter realize he is there. Let them realize he is important to them as much as they to him. Let them feel bad for hurting him. And let them make up. I am sure Mini will be in her own web for sometime which I don’t mind but I want Babita to wake up and smell the coffee.

Agree with it all. Babita has to wake up, please.

Originally posted by: naq5

you forgot HS was a underdog too during the imarti court case and she supported him too then.

So he will need to become an underdog again to get support from Mini then, that’s what I’m saying....ban jaao phir se bechara HS😆....otherwise Mini na samjhegi.....

In the interim, Babes will likely keep falling apart again toh Mini can take care of her if nothing else. Lol

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree with it all. Babita has to wake up, please.

Babita only wakes up when she gets jolts...the way things are going, she may only wake up if the shaadi is actually on the verge of breaking. Perhaps she needs her wish to be granted since she keeps asking for the shaadi to be broken off every two minutes 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Babita only wakes up when she gets jolts...the way things are going, she may only wake up if the shaadi is actually on the verge of breaking. Perhaps she needs her wish to be granted since she keeps asking for the shaadi to be broken off every two minutes 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

You know, that might just be it. She might end up having to learn the hard way. The problem is that it will either destroy HS completely or he might end up pulling a Rhett Butler, which might not be such a bad idea, considering recent events.

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, that might just be it. She might end up having to learn the hard way. The problem is that it will either destroy HS completely or he might end up pulling a Rhett Butler, which might not be such a bad idea, considering recent events.

ohh rhett butler.......😎

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, that might just be it. She might end up having to learn the hard way. The problem is that it will either destroy HS completely or he might end up pulling a Rhett Butler, which might not be such a bad idea, considering recent events.

LOL but I’m also thinking shaadi Tod ke where will Babita live?

Remember, she declared two weeks back that this is HER home 😆....toh is she intending to coolly go back to roommate renter situation after breaking the marriage? lol hadh hoti hai flippancy ki, Babes.

I sometimes feel she’s overcompensating for the 17 years when she DIDN’T manage to break off a shaadi so now she wants to keep breaking off a shaadi every chance she gets 🤷‍♀️😂😂....

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL but I’m also thinking shaadi Tod ke where will Babita live?

Remember, she declared two weeks back that this is HER home 😆....toh is she intending to coolly go back to roommate renter situation after breaking the marriage? lol hadh hoti hai flippancy ki, Babes.

I sometimes feel she’s overcompensating for the 17 years when she DIDN’T manage to break off a shaadi so now she wants to keep breaking off a shaadi every chance she gets 🤷‍♀️😂😂....

Yes she is. She did not speak up last time so now she start her new life with clarifying things openly with HS.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes she is. She did not speak up last time so now she start her new life with clarifying things openly with HS.

Errr I’m not sure if constantly offering to break off the marriage counts as openly clarifying things 😕😆

Looks more like she wants to feel she has some control over her life this time and make a decision, no matter how poorly thought out and flippant it is. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Errr I’m not sure if constantly offering to break off the marriage counts as openly clarifying things 😕😆

Looks more like she wants to feel she has some control over her life this time and make a decision, no matter how poorly thought out and flippant it is. 🤷‍♀️

In her head it is.

All of a sudden she has complete freedom and she has to learn how to handle it.

HS usse kuch nahin kahega. He seems resigned to everything, even sleeping on the charpayi.

Originally posted by: inlieu

In her head it is.

All of a sudden she has complete freedom and she has to learn how to handle it.

HS usse kuch nahin kahega. He seems resigned to everything, even sleeping on the charpayi.

Yep, he's just resigned to everything now.....Babita ko bolne ka bhi kya faayda....I think he'll just keep internalizing all the hurt he's feeling at mother-daughter misunderstanding him or treating him like an afterthought.....so if Babita is going to actually think that he would want to brush Mini aside in this rishta, he might just feel hurt enough to retreat further into a shell.....phir toh chaarpaayi ka hi sahara hoga na.....lol.....aakhir he did promise there won't be tears from the janaanis in this haveli....toh he will go into stoic mode and go through the motions to avoid conflicts or discussions.

As for Babita....yeah, in her head this is independence I guess....she still doesn't realize what true empowerment actually is.....she has a default creeper mentality...ek bel that always needs a tree or column to wrap around....kisi na kisi cheez se cling karna hai....for so long it's been Mini....she is defensive about what she perceives as any threat to that dynamic.....