It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 7

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

He was feeling unwanted. I think he's just ignoring everything around him so that he doesn't feel humiliated in his own eyes.

Yes, he looked like lost all his confidence and faith in their bright future.

Yes, he misunderstood her regarding the CD but even after knowing she didn't do it deliberately, he realized something else: that he just wasn't that important to her. She proved it today and was gone from the scene of the wedding.

With his loss of hope it's as if the sunshine went from his life. I couldn't stand seeing him like that.

Originally posted by: swasanlove

Babes is not happy with what HS said to Mini(any Mother will be sad) but aap agar shaadi karliye iske baad bhi, you need to confront about that matter at right time not at first night. I am not saying SR manao but atleast friends ki tarah baat karo and maybe waise aap unko samjhao . Try to bridge the gap and not widen them Babita

what i understood from the precap, HS was looking at his moms old things and was smiling. he totally forgot about mini. if that is the case then the reaction from babita is absolutely justified.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No.. he should ignore Minnie for not giving second thought to his feelings.. she wanted to console Babes.. she wanted to console her grandparents but did not once spare a thought about how he must have felt with all of this

Exactly! Why would he not be convinced that she doesn't love him? Her actions and absence proved otherwise. I know she didn't mean it but right now their misunderstanding will continue to grow because of such things.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

To Mini sambhale apne relations. Don’t expect Babita to be involved.

Have a relation with Khuranas outside of Babita sphere. Independent. Fir thik hai.

mini hi toh sambhal rahi hain. she did not question her babes once when she shouted at the khuranas. it was mini who always encouraged babes to speak up.

she can and should have an independent relation, but that doesnt mean HS will accept it. babes will for mini.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

what i understood from the precap, HS was looking at his moms old things and was smiling. he totally forgot about mini. if that is the case then the reaction from babita is absolutely justified.

I don't think he should think about Minnie 24/7 just because Babita does so. It's not healthy that Babita does it and I don't want him to be that kind of parent either! It's their wedding, they are the most important. Everyone else can wait for now. Prioritizing Minnie doesn't mean babysitting her, she's not a small child.

Babita, instead of appreciating the room or thinking about its meaning, about his mother, proabably was not the least bit interested.

Also, she did not need to fight with him, but let's see.

Bechara HS, both his wives fought with him on the wedding night.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

what i understood from the precap, HS was looking at his moms old things and was smiling. he totally forgot about mini. if that is the case then the reaction from babita is absolutely justified.

How does this make Babita's reaction justified? This is HS' MOTHER, another woman whom he loves dearly but never spoke about. What's so wrong if he wanted to share some memories of her with Babes?

For Babes to dismiss his feelings and wants in that moment and give more importance to Minnie was wrong. It's essentially her stating that only Minnie and she matter in this relationship; tum aur tumhari zarooratein jaye bhad mein.

I'm just SO MAD at Babes right now.

Originally posted by: swasanlove

Babes is not happy with what HS said to Mini(any Mother will be sad) but aap agar shaadi karliye iske baad bhi, you need to confront about that matter at right time not at first night. I am not saying SR manao but atleast friends ki tarah baat karo and maybe waise aap unko samjhao . Try to bridge the gap and not widen them Babita

Yes, she is going to shoot herself in the foot. I have a feeling that the other side of the story regarding her role to play in the breakdown of her first marriage (if there is such a thing) will slowly be revealed.

Okay... What should I say about today...

HS... He is in his hurt which he felt from his daughter...

Yes he ignored Minni bcoz he felt that she won't need him it's simple... We all know that it's not true but it's not completely false as well...for a second, even he can show his pain to his daughter I guess...why should he always keep a brave face yaar... Being a parent doesn't mean u have to cover ur emotions always... If he has ignored her it's doesn't means he don't love... So this nahi jaanta ki wo apni beti se kitna pyaar karta hai... It's just that he was hurt that even today he is a third person for Minni...

Babita... She is now the one middle of husband and daughter.... Kiska saath de...

She wanted to get marry but she again had doubt to Minni is not happy...agian it's not true but not completely false as well... Minni is happy that her mother is getting married and she is not happy as she will have to share her with HS Now... Babita so love HS but she can't give up. Minni for that... And I m proud of her for that as mother any woman will think the same... But what about an wife... Here is where Babita will. Have to balance her love... In precap she did say that Minni will be her priority first than this relationship which was quite common reaction from her... As I said she will never give up Minni for anyone or anything...

Minni... She is hurt that her her parents don't trust her...

This girl is just like her father (HS)... Very good in hiding her actual emotions... While taking photos she going back and remembering the day since she met HS shows what he is for her... Her strong pillar whom she can rely on... Her mentor...her hero... And somehow her father as well... But today when he doubted her for hurting him she would do. Such an act... She couldn't take it... And her going back shows that she freeing them up. From her but we know it won't happen and that she crashed with Bobby.. Which means ki Minni bale soche ki she will leave her parents her Frnds will never let her do that... This was the same done by Mickey earlier when she was going away from HS after she got to know about his feelings... Minni and HS have long way to go... If Minni try to go away from hanita also she can't go bcoz of she goes away the relationship will be in problem and if her parents relation is in problem bcoz of her going away she will. Never do that...

Khuranas... Still in their own la-la land ki they have helped Babita all the time... They treated her like a daughter and but even now they can't see that how painful it was for her these 17 yrs....

Hanita have a long way to go....

Yaar I Am. Numb today... The writers are seriously awesome... They did spoil. Hanita ki shaadi but the depiction today was bang on....

Donno if I made any sense but I became too emotional yaar... 😭

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Meri Babes ki shadi? Toh what about HS?

Lovely bua ke liye she has few words in her speech, but Not for HS? Kaha thi Lovely bua all this while when you faltered? Kisne sambhala? Who stood like a rock by your side? That person doesn’t get a single line in her emotional speech ?

And Babita, isn’t she the only one entering a new relationship? Not HS? Mein aur Meri Beti.. toh bhai shadi kyu ki?

These 2 have constantly been making him feel like 3rd wheel. We r in it together. So where is HS? Yesterday was last straw to his self esteem. He was once again made feel ki bich mein aa gaya. It must feel worst to be in his place. So unwanted.

He should shut off from these 2 and not even feel bad about it. They have to realize there is this 3rd person added in their equation. They can’t keep making him feel unwanted every time.

I totally agree with you. His silence roared today, and I think he will continue to back off from now on. Let them miss him and feel his importance.

Sorry but right now I feel he does really need space from them.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Now Mini's gonna notice how HS Babes are drifting apart. She will try to withdraw herself from them and that'll widen the gap.🥺

Can I get a little hope for brighter things right now?

Nope, today was just the tip of the iceberg.