It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 6

Thoughts:

1. So we immediately jump into the wedding where Minnie is doing the ghat bandhan.
   
   Hanita did not look happy at all. It honestly looked like someone is forcing them to get through with this. I don't think I have ever seen such a grumpy dulha dulhan before.
   
   Minnie taking retreating steps while Hanita do their phere was heart breaking. It was interesting that during the phere her mind was consumed by her Hanuman Uncle. From her first meeting with him to all the times when he has given her sage advice and supported her. Less on his equation with Babita because she doesn't know their bond well, but she was definitely thinking about her relationship with him. What he has come to mean for both of them since their initial meeting. And for all of that to culminate with that atoot vishwaas being broken - heart wrenching.
   
   
2. Her stumbling without looking back is yet again another sign that if she doesn't have her friends backing her up, then she will harm herself really badly.
   
   Minnie emphasized a lot on trust because she knows that's what's gone from her rishta with HS. He no longer trusts her and that is devastating. In a way, Minnie too, doesn't trust her life anymore because she doesn't know where she stands with Hanita. But I greatly appreciated when they all came in for the group hug. It goes to show that friends can also be your family, and in a way they're even more important and special because it's your chosen family. They're going to help Minnie a LOT in the coming future.
   
   
3. A huge contrast in the mother-daughter as Minnie is preparing herself to live a life independently from her mother but Babes is constantly on the look out for her. Ek second ke liye bhi door kya chali jaati hai, Babita ki toh jaan nikal jati hai. This is going to be a huge problem for them in the future.
   
   Can we talk about how happy HS was seeing Babita with his sindoor in her maang? She was finally his WIFE. But Babita on the other hand, had no sign of happiness. It didn't even seem like she got married. 🤔
   
   
4. The Khuranas. Frankly, I think this scene went on a little long. I'm glad that they at least came to their senses and didn't start blaming Babita for all their misdeeds. Minnie wanting to keep her relationship with them alive is understandable as well. But for her to leave in the middle of Babes' wedding just to go check up on them was a bit much...
   
   
5. Again, Babita with her Minnie kahan hai. 😵 Saath mein khara dulhe ki toh kissi ko pari nahi. I really didn't like how we barely got to see HS today. Bhai shaadi hai uski, kuch toh dekhao!
   
   You know what for that matter, even the WEDDING wasn't focused on Hanita. It was all about MINNIE. 😡 They could have shown us glimpses into Hanita's minds as to how they're feeling about the shaadi, what kind of memories are they flashing back to, but noooooo, har cheez mein toh Minnie ko ghusana tha. 😡
   
   
6. The bidaai scene and the flashbacks were brutal. Minnie truly feels like her Babes is gone now. This points out to how she really doesn't consider HS to be her own. If she had accepted him whole heartedly, then I don't think this fear would have been there. If she had considered HS to be her father, then she could have seen it as her mother marrying her father. But she sees it as her mother marrying Hanuman Uncle, which are two completely different things.
   
   
7. I'm actually really disappointed with the grah pravesh. How did HS not remember Minnie? Heck, the guy didn't even look back at her even once. I guess, when he had put out his wish, he had wanted his beti to bring her mummy into the house and they come in together. But if he doesn't even have a beti, then would that wish still stand?
   
   
8. HS had eyes only for Babita. Even though he was in the background and blurry, you could the softy, loving eyes he has for her. Beti se toh rishta complicated hogaya, at least biwi tho hogi iski saath.
   
   
9. Precap: And here comes my anger for Babita!
   
   THE HELL ARE YOU HARPING ON ABOUT WOMAN!!! First priority is Minnie, - WE ALL FCKING KNOW!!! And the AUDACITY she has to say that if Minnie isn't happy then I'm not happy and this rishta holds no value for me - THE FCCKKKKKK!!!!!
   
   She seriously makes me want to cut a btch!!
   
   Bechara HS. Kitna khush lag ra tha, aur saara pani phel diya. Beti bhi gayi aur Maa bhi. BABITA GET THE HELL OUTTA HIS ROOM.
   
   The OBSESSION these two have on each other, my gosh. Hamesha, MINNIE MINNIE MINNIE. FINE, I GET IT, she's your beti but ab pati bhi hai tumhara! USKA KYAAA?????
   
   Inn dono se acha toh HS Imarti ki yaadon ke saath tha.
   
   Get the fck outta here with all this nonsense. I have no patience for Minnie or Babita anymore.

Originally posted by: shazam1

HS- Is Haveli mein koi aurat Nahi roegi!

Forumwalas- Us Haveli mein koi Mard bhi nahi rona chaheyi!!🤣

Hi5.... 🤣

Originally posted by: shazam1

HS- Is Haveli mein koi aurat Nahi roegi!

Forumwalas- Us Haveli mein koi Mard bhi nahi rona chaheyi!!🤣

Aurat ka pata nahi par mard bilkul bhi nahi rona chahiye kyun ke us ka rona dekha nahi jaata 🥺

Hats off to Aniruddh for portaying Hanuman's character so effortlessly 👏 ❤️

He's so good in emotional/crying scenes ⭐️

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

He should ignore Mini. And also ignore Babita. Dono ko royal shut off.

Jao sado apne self pity mein. Ro apne non existent dukhde pe.

I hate to say this, but in a way I agree.

He would have probably ignored Babita too if he weren't marrying her. They both hurt him a lot. He was so numb that he didn't even react when Babita was searching for Minnie out loud. Why would he look for Minnie when he thinks she doesn't want him in their lives? He doesn't even feel he can bear to look her in the eye because he would keep searching for something that he thought was there but isn't. I am afraid that he's already started internalizing everything after this dhakka.

Also, Minnie decided to step back and not be at the scene - the self-pity nonsense due to which she shot herself in the foot. She deliberately chose to act the martyr when she started picking up the rice grains in order to be one of the people her mother leaves behind. She did not do anything for HS of her own volition either. Yes, she was hurt by his words but it was his big day too, she did not think to just stand there and at least try to be normal with him the way she was doing with NB. She had it in her to go see the Khuranas who did a lot of bad things but not a single word for her HS? The reason for her mother and her happiness? Her absence did not assure either of her parents and it probably made HS feel that she did not really want to be around when they were getting married.

The fact that the episode started with the wedding rituals made me think that there was no further conversation since the previous one. Minnie had all those flashbacks of him since day one, and out of all the things that happened she chose to stay with the last thing he said to her. It really showed me that she is nowhere close to loving him the way he loves her.

The look on his face as he applied the sindoor, he barely managed a half-smile that didn't even feel genuine. I think he lost all his confidence and enthusiasm and based on what I saw in the pre-cap he's going to be hurt further. Also, for some reason, Babita's words made it look like she was insinuating that HS did not care about her daughter. It was fine for her to slap Minnie based on Ashok's words or to say whatever she wanted to her regarding the jewelry but if HS so much as expresses his hurt, he suddenly becomes an uncaring parent/spouse? Maybe the precap is misleading but I was royally ticked off. I hope he either gives them both the silent treatment or just asks Babita why she married him if Minnie is all she cares about.

He finally married the woman he loves and technically can become Minnie's father but he did not even look happy or involved during the ceremony, not even when they were entering the house. His body was there but his soul was not. I understand that Babita was worried about Minnie but she's not a kid who would get lost in the crowd. She did not even look at the man she was marrying or smile back at him. What on earth?

I know it's now ITV tradition for couples not to get intimate so quickly but this is taking it to another level. Yet again the stairs ka fasla has come up, and this time both Babita and Minnie are standing on the other side, as HS will continue to look up at something that is unattainable.

The one solace I have is NB's facial expression telling me she knew exactly what was going on and hopefully will continue to dig further. Minnie needs help, fast, before her savior complex destroys her young mind because it looks like Babita will continue to nurture it in her own indirect way.

Originally posted by: Riyarita

But in the start of episode she was only thinking of Hanuman his memories .it's not like Hanuman words does not hurt her.

I m just being optimistic now that happier times will come ND harder the time is today ,the reconcilation will be more emotional ND beautiful ND will bond them stronger.

Reconciliation will definitely happen....but not before the relations going downhill some more. We were all hoping it wont show the majboori ki shaadi like the other shows. Same husband wife avoiding each other crap- acting in front of others....separation... then realizing what they lost and then the reconciliation...ghisa pita Ekta show crap. I like the show's pace hope they haven't run out of good ideas to move forward at the same pace without the drag.

Originally posted by: swasanlove

HS is not yet in the right mood. He needs some time samjhao he is not butchered, Trust me he will be the one who will console Mini after her breakdown

I think he was just too shocked by what happened.

Aur kitna jhelega. He felt completely alone today. What a shame that the wedding seemed like a bit of a sham to me. No one was happy.

Originally posted by: shazam1

HS- Is Haveli mein koi aurat Nahi roegi!

Forumwalas- Us Haveli mein koi Mard bhi nahi rona chaheyi!!🤣

Bichara ek he to mard he use b do do jananio ka tras sahan krna pad Raha he...

Bhai HS fir karalo thane Jakar mentally torcharko🤣

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Wahi toh! By ignoring her he is only hurting his own self. Mini ke paas Babita hai, Daadu Beeji hai, HS ke paas kaun hai? Aur woh banda bhi toh aisa nahi jo sab ko bhadd mein jhonkar Nikal le for his own happiness. Isiliye I'm feeling bad!

Man he was hurting so much that he almost became frozen. All his actions were as if he were on auto-pilot.

Hats-off to Aniruddh! Again without a single dialogue today he portrayed the HS' devastation. I felt really bad for him. It's one thing to be alone in life, another to be lonely even with "family" around - that is very painful.

Originally posted by: tantal

He should ignore Minnie for a crime that she didn't do?

He wasn't ignoring Minnie. She wasn't even around. He just wasn't seeking her as he usually would, perhaps because he feels he doesn't have the right to anymore.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No.. he should ignore Minnie for not giving second thought to his feelings.. she wanted to console Babes.. she wanted to console her grandparents but did not once spare a thought about how he must have felt with all of this

of course mini wanted to console her babes first. she is her mother who has given birth to her, who has been with her for 17 years and has always suported her.

HS also supported mini but he has just come into their lives. it is natural for mini to think of her babes first