The difference in faith Man vs Woman , Guddan Vs Akshat

This is not to belittle any character or glorify another . Its just an analysis of genders . And it is true in real life too .

Akshat and guddan both love each other deeply . and no one has any doubt .

But when it comes to faith and trust , there is a basic difference !!!

When antara came in akshat was with guddan , supported her . But then antara spread a web of lies and brought in the family members (durga) as proof .

And slowly akshat started believing her . In spite of guddan crying her heart out for a understanding ear !!!! No one heard her . Akshat didnot even doubt antara for a second . As the doctor said so , durga said so !!!!!!

And Now here is guddan . Akshat himself is saying he hates her . He shot her .

She didnot believe him .Today her dear sister was married to her worst enemy and akshat was the reason . Everyone stood there as proof . Even her sister .

And yet she didnot believe them . Her faith in AJ was intact

That's a woman's love for you .

I know the circumstances are different . But today after seeing her sister married Guddan cld have behaved badly with akshat , as he did with her .

so true ..

difference between them is one thinks practical and one with emotionally .

i think situation made aj not believe guddan he always had trust issues back then .

he trusted antara because of long association but few men forget to understand it doesn't take so much time to understand the person

but with guddan family and antara trapped her but aj was caught in the web of lies of antara guilt was running that he couldn't see the truth

but guddan has always been sharper observer whether its perv or antara she could sense there twisty way but aj was busy in her own world his responsibility and his headaches are so much he hardly sees things .

antara is to cunning for aj she can easily flip things so he easy fell for her lies .

guddan is emotional lady she had no trust issues because she sees everything white in a person and aj is her hubby so trusts him more than anything .

i bet now aj too has no trust issues with guddan if he was in place of guddan he would have trusted her.

problem with men is they are impulsive there ego overpowers there senses but women has calmness which has a control a hold were she can think and act according (as veda says women 's tolerance like an ocean )

why guddan trusts him is akshan having become one complete one as couple ..its like breathing jointly

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

This is not to belittle any character or glorify another . Its just an analysis of genders . And it is true in real life too .

Akshat and guddan both love each other deeply . and no one has any doubt .

But when it comes to faith and trust , there is a basic difference !!!

When antara came in akshat was with guddan , supported her . But then antara spread a web of lies and brought in the family members (durga) as proof .

And slowly akshat started believing her . In spite of guddan crying her heart out from a understanding ear !!!! No one heard her . Akshat didnot even doubt antara for a second . As the doctor said so , durga said so !!!!!!

And Now here is guddan . Akshat himself is saying he hates her . He shot her .

She didnot believe him Today her dear sister was married to her worst enemy and akshat was the reason . Everyone stood there as proof . Even her sister .

And yet she didnot believe them . Her faith in AJ was intact

That's a woman's love for you .

I know the circumstances are different . But today after seeing her sister married Guddan cld have behaved badly with akshat , as he did with her .

So true meenu...its neithr glorifyng nor degrading ny charactr....but Guddans trust and belief in hr husband is intact frm d begng...i love both d charactrs.. Akshan charaterisation hs been writn beautifully.. thy both balance each othr with thr wekness nd strength ...the only two times i hated AJ ws the ring scene nd chit scene...

AJ himself hs admitted tht in thr relationship she is d strongest...also recently he sd he is imperfect nd she is perfect.....i flt so gud to hear tht cmg frm a husband....he accepts his wekness....

It’s very true...obviously there are exceptions but a woman’s love is enduring type of love.

We women are able bear more emotional pain and put more faith in our love then men do. Totally not saying men don’t love their significant others but a woman’s love goes deep.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

so true ..

difference between them is one thinks practical and one with emotionally .

i think situation made aj not believe guddan he always had trust issues back then .

he trusted antara because of long association but few men forget to understand a person it doesn't take so much time without minutes we can get it.

but with guddan family and antara trapped her but aj was caught in the web of lies that he couldn't see the truth

but guddan has always been sharper observer whether its perv or antara she could sense there twisty way but aj was busy in her own world his responsibility and his headaches are so much he hardly sees things .

antara is to cunning for aj she can easily flip things so he easy fell for her lies .

guddan is emotional lady she had no trust issues because she sees everything white in a person and aj is her hubby so trusts him more than anything .

i bet now aj too has no trust issues with guddan if he was in place of guddan he would have trusted her.

problem with men is they are impulsive there ego overpowers there senses but women has calmness which has a control a hold were she can think and act according (as veda says women is tolerance like an ocean )

That is so true . Men jump to conclusions !!!!!! Aj is the same !! HE didnot want to listen to her even when rawat truth was revealed by durga . She pleaded but na !!!! And then he is the worst sufferer .Dekhna once this track is over he will be broken from all the hurt he is causing her !!!!

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

That is so true . Men jump to conclusions !!!!!! Aj is the same !! HE didnot want to listen to her even when rawat truth was revealed by durga . She pleaded but na !!!! And then he is the worst sufferer .Dekhna once this track is over he will be broken from all the hurt he is causing her !!!!

he has already broken ...after that night they breathe jointly dear if one gets hurts the other will feel the pain .

he will try to hurt her more but with her patience guddan will break the cocon he has built and it will burst open he will blunt it out and breakdown and will vent it out ..

he has a volcano inside him which he is trying to suppress but guddan is guddan she will free him from that and free him from agony

dard ka rishta jo hai --she is antidot

Originally posted by: RISH1234

So true meenu...its neithr glorifyng nor degrading ny charactr....but Guddans trust and belief in hr husband is intact frm d begng...i love both d charactrs.. Akshan charaterisation hs been writn beautifully.. thy both balance each othr with thr wekness nd strength ...the only two times i hated AJ ws the ring scene nd chit scene...

AJ himself hs admitted tht in thr relationship she is d strongest...also recently he sd he is imperfect nd she is perfect.....i flt so gud to hear tht cmg frm a husband....he accepts his wekness....

That was sooo touching . When he said mujh jaise imperfect aadmi ko perfect guddan milli .

And you are so correct . They balance each other . He has few weaknesses and so doe she !!!! But their strengths balance each others weaknesses .

And yes we love bothe the characters equally . That is the beauty of it all !!!

Originally posted by: kshah1987

It’s very true...obviously there are exceptions but a woman’s love is enduring type of love.

We women are able bear more emotional pain and put more faith in our love then men do. Totally not saying men don’t love their significant others but a woman’s love goes deep.

Exactly . Woman's love goes deep !!!!!

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

he has already broken ...after that night they breathe jointly dear if one gets hurts the other will feel the pain .

he will try to hurt her more but with her patience guddan will break the cocon he has built and it will burst open he will blunt it out and breakdown from his side he will vent it out ..

he has a volcano inside him which is trying to suppress but guddan is guddan she will free him from that and free him from agony

dard ka rishta jo hai --she is antidot

@bold he is burning inside... credit to Nish for his portrayal. Aj is containing it the best he can but he is ready to burst and because he can’t tell her...it’s coming all out via anger..it’s like he’s so far in that he can’t stop because it’s a danger to her. Like Meenu said...when this is all out he is going to breakdown greatly to guddan. I feel it.

Well said. Guddan's faith is unshaken. And AJ is a tortured soul today. Poor guy.

There's a book by Jane Austen called Persuasion. Her lead character in that book, Anne Elliot talks about this exact same topic to a man. She says (about a woman's love):

“We certainly do not forget you, so soon as you forget us. It is, perhaps, our fate rather than our merit. We cannot help ourselves. All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one: you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone!”

Women do have a greater capacity for love. No doubt about it. Not to say that men do not love. Of course they do, and they love deeply too. It's just different. Women are more forgiving, more selfless...that's why they make such great moms:)