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Originally posted by: MaaneetDeewangi

She'll probably blame Babita cuz that's how society is, it's always the woman's fault 😵

Her opinion doesn't matter anyway cuz she's beyond redemption now 🤢

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I can understand Mini's aloofness. She also has recognized the fact that Babita will slip away from her. But when she'd said that she will allow Babita to slip out from her hands so that she can fly and also that she'll find her Babes all over again in this process- fills me with immense hope that it shall all be okay.

Also, HS felt like a outsider today, somehow. I know it was situational but it did feel that he was a third party to the existing unit. I hope CVs erase off this feeling soon.

@bold

This has been deliberately done since talk of the wedding started. Everything was focused on making it the best wedding for Babita but what about HS? All the way until today finally he stood up.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It takes me back to the scene where Babita had told Minnie that she had tolerated eveything for her. It was labelled off as her trying to bounce it off so that her ego isn't hurt, but now I'm thinking otherwise. If Babes was truly egoistic, then why didn't it speak up in those 17 years? Now that it finally has the chance to do so, she's being villainized?

In some ways, her actions were wrong, like making HS apologize in a demeaning way or asking him to prove his love for her in a public setting, but she'll learn how to articulate herself with time. After years of being kept silent, she's finally speaking up. I say, let her.

babita never said those words in her ego. what she said is true. women usually bear all treatment for their children, specially daughters, since it is more difficult to raise a daughter than a son in this society.

she has an ego, everyone does. she probably never spoke up before, because they were her in laws and she had een taught that after marriage husband is everything, so she tolerated everything for mini and ashok. she clealy said it to ashok when she spoke up to him in the starting episodes.

even when she asked for an apology, it was not for her ego. she wanted the assurance that HS would always choose her with all her flaws. and HS understood that somewhat after calming down. babita could have put it into words in a better manner, but for someone who hasa not spoken in 17 years of marriage and then ahd to face so much will need time to understand how to put across her words.

she is finally speaking up, sometimes without thinking of how the other person will react. and that is good. she needs to learn to speak up and she will have to face the situations that arise because of that as well, but she will.

thats what we face in real life.

and i was just re-watching the episode, and when babes called out to mini with hands stretched forward, it was like she ws begging mini to stay with her. to believe her love and care is true. to believe her babes.

and even when babita said she is ready to break this marriage, she truly meant each and every word. she loves and cares for mini the most. and it will always remain that way. for a mother no one can be above her child, not even husband.

but HS saying "bol de chhori" was more like i know you will ask babes to break the marriage and more hurt, than saying that his priority is mini, which is understandable since he was so hurt.

what scares me is the reunion, when the MU will be cleared, then how guilty with HS feel?

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

And no one thot as to how hurt Minni will be..she is 17..to hear something like that from her HS...it's alot

And he even questioning how the dvd got out of Babes closet was weird...cause he saw all the boxes Minni was carrying

I didn't get his line of reasoning...

Exactly it's so not like Hanuman Why didn't he question Babita about why she still has the damn CD 😡 I don't understand how Minnie is at fault here

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It could also be intentional.

• He has no personal relationship with the Khuranas and I'm pretty sure he sure as hell doesn't like them after learning the way they treated Babita.
• He feels personally betrayed by Minnie. We know she didn't do it, but he no longer feels sure about the position he has in her life nor the affections that she has for him. Again, this might be the pain and rage lashing out but it is how he felt in the moment.
  
• The only connection he has is with Babita and he showed it when he held her by the shoulders. But even that he was willing to forego if Minnie wanted it.

So yes, in a lot of ways, HS did feel like an outsider to us because that's how he himself felt.

Exactly. This was deliberate, and has been building up for ages now, ever since the wedding preps started.

Originally posted by: tk2015

Think how guilty HS will feel once the MU is cleared and then the truth of Khatri comes out in the open.

That he blamed his daughter, his veer balika of so much.

Credit to Aniruddh's acting that a part of me is still thinking about HS during all this...

Yes, Aniruddh was brilliant there! He made us think of both sides where HS was concerned.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I'm aware it's a common gesture but it felt like it was almost a sign. The conversation was between Babes and Minni and Minni stepped forward towards Babes and he put his hand out stopping her in her tracks

It seems like a lot more than a gesture to me

I agree. Minnie wasn't even addressing him at that point for HS to step in and stop her. She was speaking to her Babes and she shouldn't have been stopped like that.

Minnie had every right to go to her mother and explain herself or apologise. Plus, the way it was directed and edited, the gesture sure looked like a sign.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

she might even say that since babita was homeless at that time, she might have lured her innocent khatriji for money.

Bhaad mein jayen dono 🤬

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

she might even say that since babita was homeless at that time, she might have lured her innocent khatriji for money.

Noooo!!!! I don't wanna hear this at all!!!!