Yaariyan AT #4 Umair aur Zoobi ki Makkariyan - Page 41

umair ne jo two weeks pehle tamasha kiya tha wo bhi samjh aa jata hai k he think uski wife chup kar affair chala rahi hai and kisi aur k bacche ko uska baccha bol rahi hai..

but umair ka sadia k sath jo behaviour tha totally wrong and unacceptable tha.. baby kisi ka bhi ho but ek pregnant lady ko aise push karna and all thing very wrong.

but again I m saying hum viewers hai and hum ye bhul jate hai k ye characters hai.. May be hum bhi aisa hi behave kare agar hum aisi koi situation me ho to.. I mean just think umair ka behaviour itna harsh kyu tha b/c usko dokha mila tha... he think mene khuda wali baat maan kar apni sab mistakes accept ki and sadia k saath sahi chal raha tha and sadia ne dokha diya.. Ahmer k bacche ko mera baccha bana rahi hai and still relation me hai.

as a MARD koi bhi aisi situation me yahi karega.. b/c MARD mard hi hote hai lol.. gentleman koi koi hi hote hai.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

True but I have read a lot of commentd on how Sadia Umair should be endgame

and the last post about how Umair doesn't remember so doesn't feel guilty is one I questioned.. Chalo ma'am Lia he doesn't remember.. how could he not wonder what happened between them for Sadia to concieve when he did accept for a brief moment that the child was his?

agreed

mujhe aaj tak samjh nahi aaya writer ne rape ko itna easily kyu show kiya??

I mean sadia ne bas next day umair ko kaha rape ka.. and usne accept nahi kiya and after that sadia never discuss it.. why??

Originally posted by: sanabmw

umair ne jo two weeks pehle tamasha kiya tha wo bhi samjh aa jata hai k he think uski wife chup kar affair chala rahi hai and kisi aur k bacche ko uska baccha bol rahi hai..

but umair ka sadia k sath jo behaviour tha totally wrong and unacceptable tha.. baby kisi ka bhi ho but ek pregnant lady ko aise push karna and all thing very wrong.

but again I m saying hum viewers hai and hum ye bhul jate hai k ye characters hai.. May be hum bhi aisa hi behave kare agar hum aisi koi situation me ho to.. I mean just think umair ka behaviour itna harsh kyu tha b/c usko dokha mila tha... he think mene khuda wali baat maan kar apni sab mistakes accept ki and sadia k saath sahi chal raha tha and sadia ne dokha diya.. Ahmer k bacche ko mera baccha bana rahi hai and still relation me hai.

as a MARD koi bhi aisi situation me yahi karega.. b/c MARD mard hi hote hai lol.. gentleman koi koi hi hote hai.

Phir tou Ahmer too deserves forgiveness and a second chance kyunki koi bhi mard apni wife ko kisi aur k saath bedroom mein dekhega you yahi karega.. especially since us ki wife k khud k parents bhi apni hi beti ko ghalat kahein.. mard you phir mard hi hai.. Ahmer tou phir is lihaz see har haal mein innocent ban gaya

Originally posted by: Ruby7

Yes but don't you expect more from.blood relationships? Umair was a stranger when she was forced to marry him. Zubi never had any love for sadia who adored her and protected her?

Frankly speaking I am surprised why sadia never held grudges against Hamid. He being her dad treated her worst. If he hadn't forcefully married her off to umair, she would have not got raped nor she would be pregnant now.

I don't really expect sadia to forgive umair and frankly speaking if they don't end up together I won't be disappointed but I don't want zubi to get what she wants. She doesn't want sadia umair and if that doesn't happen she will be the ultimate winner. She did all damage and got what she wanted. How is that fair. I can't see her win

Maybe they can show Sadia tell umair that she won't have any form of physical relationship with him..They can just stay under one roof and sadia can take care of her child..I have always said that sadia isn't comfy with umair.

why should sadia sacrifice herself just to make zoobi lose?

as i said blood relations such as father, mother, bro or sis are always forgiven eventually no matter what they have done to you

Originally posted by: sanabmw

like seriously??? zobi ne pehle sadia ko sabke saamne character less banaya than uska divorce karwaya.. than uske husband k saath still affair rakha.. and seedha dhamki dee k me tumse umair ko chin lugi.... than kuch nahi kar saki to uske ex se shadi kar Lee.. and shadi k baad sadia k husband ko again attract karne ka try kiya jab wo nahi hua to us par again ilzaam lagaya k wo character less hai.. and uske bacche ko najazaz bana diya

hina itna sab kar k bhi u think blood relation hai to easily maaf ho sakte hai...??

atlist me to kabhi maaf na karu and maaf kya me to murder kar du lol.. agar umair ko maaf kar k sadia ki self respect kam ho jati hai to zobi ko maaf karne se bhi hogi.

sadia sab bhul sakti hai but as mother wo kaise maaf kar sakti hai zobi ko jo uske bacche ko najayaz saabit kar rahi hai.

Sadia mein honestly koi self respect nahi hai...jo ab tak apni uss behen ko defend karti aayi hai uss ko maaf karna uss ke liye koi mushil nahi hoga

Sadia has even forgiven her father who wronged her to wo zoobi ko bhi kar degi

end mein to waise bhi zoobi shayad mental ho jaye i think everyone will forgive her after that

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

True but I have read a lot of commentd on how Sadia Umair should be endgame

and the last post about how Umair doesn't remember so doesn't feel guilty is one I questioned.. Chalo ma'am Lia he doesn't remember.. how could he not wonder what happened between them for Sadia to concieve when he did accept for a brief moment that the child was his?

The way I look at it is that he doesn't want to think about it. Obviously if he thinks about it, it will lead to him feel more disgusted and sick with himself.

He has been running away from many things and it's high time he sits down and thinks about everything.

In the apology scene with his mom he had expressed his disgust but I do agree it wasn't enough for what he did it was no match..

Umair needs to reform himself..

I have never justified the rape and I have always said that it's left such a bad taste.

As far as sadia umair being endgame goes, for me it's more about what sadia wants in her life and the fact that I don't want zubi to win.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am sorry but that would justify every rape done in drunk state.. you do realize that a lot of rapes happen are in drunken state.. that does not justify it.. Umair remembering or not is irrelevant.. Sadia remembers and the show is trivializing it's impact on her.. not every person commits this henious crime in drunken state.. only those who are monsters from within do so..

When Umair accepted for a brief while that the child was his, did he not think how? Did he not recall that he saw Sadia crying the next day of his drunken adventure? How come he did not question what happened between them? He got a girl pregnant and he has still not realized that he raped her considering k he never touched her voluntarily? What did he think? That he can home drunk, Sadia slept with him out of her own free will and was crying just for the hell of it next morning? Sadia might be a simple girl.. but even the simplest of girls have respect.. they are revolted by the touch of their rapist. This serial made Sadia kind of desperate for her husband's companionship even if only for her kid that she forgave him so easily for what he did.. what if he had gone into someone else's room like a maid in his drunken state?

Lastly forgiving Zoobie or even Ahmer has no real impact on Sadia's life.. she can simply forgive them with words and remain distant . With Umair, it's different.. if she forgives him, she agrees to live with him under the same roof.. of she does that, she would deserve every bit of disrespect and distrust Umair throws her way (barring rape) simply because she signed up for it.. Umair Puri tarah kabhi nahi sudhar sakta because insane ki basic fitrat kabhi nahi badalti.. he would again go off the rocker at some other incudenr

This drama made a mockery of a serious issue

I dont think forgiving Umair means staying with him...she could tell him that I have forgiven you for Allah's sake but if you really want to compensate for it then give me a divorce.

Originally posted by: Ruby7

I have read no comment in this thread ever by anyone who justified umair action of raping sadia. We all have always slammed him for it.

But supporting umair sadia as end game DOES justify rape lol

umair ko jab khuda wali baat sadia ne kahi that time usne sadia par belive kiya.. and usne rape kiya ye maan liya, aaliya se kaha bhi tha k mujhe apna aap gandaa lag raha hai.. ye line se to yahi laga mujhe.

and jab wo sadia ko room me lekar aaya sorry k baad that time he said tumhre sawalo se sharminda hu and sadia said MENE AISA TO NAHI.. that time i was like WTH??? itna easily liya sadia ne rape ko..??

writer ne rape track me bahot loopholes kiye hai.. I dont know itne serious matter ko itna easy kyu liya.. strange.

If you look at all this from real life point of view ,where so many people saw the mess of Sadia divorce and then Ahmer marrying her sister.I mean think divorce ho gaya..that too before bidaai ,so it is ok ,ho gaya very sad.People move on

But him marrying her sister,and her parents happily doing that shaadi,while she was only there for 2 minutes was ultimate humiliation of that poor girl.She was made a culprit in eyes of society.This is what I feel was very important aspect from real life point of view.Agar phir se she goes to ahmer after he divorces her sister ..what will society say,as they live in pakistan,which I assume is more like indian punjab,where I am from. Society is conservative there,this swap will be a tamasha to see for whole world.

So As sana said character of Sadia has to look at things from that angle,aur kitni jilat uthaegi duniya ke samne.

Now coming to self respect ,I feel a real repentance from Umair will come ,because even when he briefly believed Sadia he told his mom how he feels dirty about himself.So that whole situation will come back.

I think forgiving siblings and parents is easy,I have seen in real life people forgiving much bigger sins.

Also child cannot be forgotten ,for a simple eastern mom she would want child to be loved by her father,she has seen Umair's dedication to his mother and sister,she knows what he is capable of in terms of positivity. People look at people in terms of overall behavior,their relationship to you and outside factors.

But I do wish rape is addressed by makers properly in the drama.