Yaariyan AT #4 Umair aur Zoobi ki Makkariyan - Page 40

True zoobi was her sister but umair was her husband and i think blood relations are more easy to forgive...a woman with self respect can not forget rape. Even if she does forgive him for whatever reason, that does not mean she should stay in a relationship with him. Some things can never be forgotten or erased. Do you think she will ever be able to have normal physical relations with him again without being reminded of the rape every time?

What Umair did cannot be equated to anything done by Zoobie or Ahmer.. Any woman with an ounce of self respect would not forgive her rapist.. ppl do forgive relations who do wrong with you but rape? No.. never

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

True zoobi was her sister but umair was her husband and i think blood relations are more easy to forgive...a woman with self respect can not forget rape. Even if she does forgive him for whatever reason, that does not mean she should stay in a relationship with him. Some things can never be forgotten or erased. Do you think she will ever be able to have normal physical relations with him again without being reminded of the rape every time?

Yes but don't you expect more from.blood relationships? Umair was a stranger when she was forced to marry him. Zubi never had any love for sadia who adored her and protected her?

Frankly speaking I am surprised why sadia never held grudges against Hamid. He being her dad treated her worst. If he hadn't forcefully married her off to umair, she would have not got raped nor she would be pregnant now.

I don't really expect sadia to forgive umair and frankly speaking if they don't end up together I won't be disappointed but I don't want zubi to get what she wants. She doesn't want sadia umair and if that doesn't happen she will be the ultimate winner. She did all damage and got what she wanted. How is that fair. I can't see her win

Maybe they can show Sadia tell umair that she won't have any form of physical relationship with him..They can just stay under one roof and sadia can take care of her child..I have always said that sadia isn't comfy with umair.

Originally posted by: Ruby7

if ahmer hadnt married zubi to spite sadia, then i feel more people will root for them in the climax, but by marrying zubi, he closed the doors for him and sadia to be together in the end.

wish they have something positive for sadia this week,

but I feel any time distress happened in her life some thing really positive happened so am hoping for the same

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

True zoobi was her sister but umair was her husband and i think blood relations are more easy to forgive...a woman with self respect can not forget rape. Even if she does forgive him for whatever reason, that does not mean she should stay in a relationship with him. Some things can never be forgotten or erased. Do you think she will ever be able to have normal physical relations with him again without being reminded of the rape every time?

like seriously??? zobi ne pehle sadia ko sabke saamne character less banaya than uska divorce karwaya.. than uske husband k saath still affair rakha.. and seedha dhamki dee k me tumse umair ko chin lugi.... than kuch nahi kar saki to uske ex se shadi kar Lee.. and shadi k baad sadia k husband ko again attract karne ka try kiya jab wo nahi hua to us par again ilzaam lagaya k wo character less hai.. and uske bacche ko najazaz bana diya

hina itna sab kar k bhi u think blood relation hai to easily maaf ho sakte hai...??

atlist me to kabhi maaf na karu and maaf kya me to murder kar du lol.. agar umair ko maaf kar k sadia ki self respect kam ho jati hai to zobi ko maaf karne se bhi hogi.

sadia sab bhul sakti hai but as mother wo kaise maaf kar sakti hai zobi ko jo uske bacche ko najayaz saabit kar rahi hai.

jaha tak baat hai umair ko maaf karne ki.. mene pehle bhi bola tha k reality wise Dekho to umair ko kabhi maaf nahi karna chahiye.. sadia ko Ahmer k saath nikaah karna chahiye.. b/c Ahmer ne sadia ko umair k jaise apne saath rishtey me baandh kar mentally and physically abused nahi kiya.. usko laga sadia ka affair hai umair k saath he just divorced her and chod diya.. but umair ne HAQ bhi jataya and zobi meri mohabbat hai ye sab baate bhi Kari, jo k totally nonsense thi.

so aise dekha jaye to ahmer umair se better hai.. but ye humari thinking hai.. hum sadia nahi hai. sadia jaisa hum nahi sochte.. sadia ek simple ladki hai.. jiske liye nikaah me Jayaz najayaz sab matter karta hai.. and now she accept umair as her husband.. and I m sure sadia umair ko hi choose karegi. b/c wo sadia hai.. hum me se koi nahi.

umair ne kabhi baby accept nahi kiya b/c usko rape ka kuch yaad nahi.. agar usko yaad hota and than wo inqaar karta to wo galat hota.

jaha tak baat hai zobi se affair rakhne ki.. umair ne sadia se kabhi nahi chupaya tha.. infact wo to usko bol Raha tha k tum zobi ko wapas lao LOL rememberd?? jab zobi epi 5 me ghar aayi thi...

yes umair ne rape kiya its a pure crime and I seriously hate him for that... but usko ye yaad hi nahi hai.. so uske liye wo guilty kaise ho sakta hai.. ya kaise sorry ho sakta hai..?

I am sorry but that would justify every rape done in drunk state.. you do realize that a lot of rapes happen are in drunken state.. that does not justify it.. Umair remembering or not is irrelevant.. Sadia remembers and the show is trivializing it's impact on her.. not every person commits this henious crime in drunken state.. only those who are monsters from within do so..

When Umair accepted for a brief while that the child was his, did he not think how? Did he not recall that he saw Sadia crying the next day of his drunken adventure? How come he did not question what happened between them? He got a girl pregnant and he has still not realized that he raped her considering k he never touched her voluntarily? What did he think? That he can home drunk, Sadia slept with him out of her own free will and was crying just for the hell of it next morning? Sadia might be a simple girl.. but even the simplest of girls have respect.. they are revolted by the touch of their rapist. This serial made Sadia kind of desperate for her husband's companionship even if only for her kid that she forgave him so easily for what he did.. what if he had gone into someone else's room like a maid in his drunken state?

Lastly forgiving Zoobie or even Ahmer has no real impact on Sadia's life.. she can simply forgive them with words and remain distant . With Umair, it's different.. if she forgives him, she agrees to live with him under the same roof.. of she does that, she would deserve every bit of disrespect and distrust Umair throws her way (barring rape) simply because she signed up for it.. Umair Puri tarah kabhi nahi sudhar sakta because insane ki basic fitrat kabhi nahi badalti.. he would again go off the rocker at some other incudenr

This drama made a mockery of a serious issue

Originally posted by: sami011

me too wish positive for Sadia,sab negative ho raha hai

but I feel any time distress happened in her life some thing really positive happened so am hoping for the same

Well a lot depends on what she does after umair comes to take her for DNA test. If she stays strong she will fight back but if she breaks down then more negativity

Somehow the sadia zeenant scene from last week have me positive vibes that sadia will not be weak anymore. Wish they was a new promo

I have read no comment in this thread ever by anyone who justified umair action of raping sadia. We all have always slammed him for it.

Originally posted by: Ruby7

I have read no comment in this thread ever by anyone who justified umair action of raping sadia. We all have always slammed him for it.

True but I have read a lot of commentd on how Sadia Umair should be endgame

and the last post about how Umair doesn't remember so doesn't feel guilty is one I questioned.. Chalo ma'am Lia he doesn't remember.. how could he not wonder what happened between them for Sadia to concieve when he did accept for a brief moment that the child was his?