Sept 12th: The anticipation of change - Page 5

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Chill Kar Meri maa .. u r getting anxious .. let's pray and hope they do show level headedness further ..

LOL yeah I need to start doing my own 10, 9, 8 in my head, I think😆😆

Itna bhi pyar aur expectation nahin rakhna chahiye ek story ya characters se no matter how attached you get😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm getting the sense they've opened up too many chapters simultaneously to manage to handle at the same time.....one of the issues needed to get to a more stable place before jumping into another. I'm still not sure if Babita's emotional 'zeher' waale issues got all sorted as was being suggested with the amrit manthan analogy....she's suddenly switched to being totally calm about the shaadi despite such a big blow-up at the jaago.

Yes they have .. you are right .. my hunch is . Everything is going at its own pace.. I don't think her zeher issue is fully resolved .. it might just come up again .. and if I am wrong then I think they r going on a destructive path for themselves and the show .. her problem has always been resolving things at superficial level .. seeing smile on her daughters face made her believe she is fine and hence back to normal .. but when she realizes the depth of her insecurity .. that's when she will actually step up

HS's past issue got opened up again on Monday, then totally disappeared again.....meanwhile Mini's issue flared up on Wed and is expected to form the main backdrop in the coming days but I'm not sure where that fits in simultaneously with Babita's issues and HS ke past issues AND simultaneously being husband-wife wala angle.

The wayi see it is .. they opened hs mother's track to be resolved eventually. But for that to happen babita needs to establish her position/responsibility as his wife firmly and maturely.. in the meantime Minnie's insecurity issue cropped up .. now when something happens to our child, everything else goes in back burner.. and child takes priority. That's what I believe they r doing . As far as their marital relationship is concerned . I m sensing that while resolving these issues their relationship will also become stronger .. simultaneously babitas maturity will also be showcased . My hunch is hs issue will be resolved at the end . Because he is going to need both his daughter and his wife to bring him out of that dark past ..

Anyways, that's just my sense....I may be wrong.

The promo also indicates a totally calm Babita fully ready to take the reins....lol yeh stage kab reach ho gayi? I guess I must have missed it between all the naach gaana😆

That's just a promo re . Just the last episode she was panicking and ready to break off the marriage .. my interpretation was slightly different. She is ready to take on the reins if married life but she doesn't want to let go off her daughter either .. and I don't see her calm .. she is happy and satisfied of having found hs as a partner.

Isse pehle I never felt the relationships were muddled....all the duos had a clear cut one on one level of interaction development.....but upcoming gives me a sense of a muddle.

Again, I might be wrong....but that's how it's looking to me right now.

All interpretations are different and right in their own way . Yes everything is muddled .. but when u get married .. remember how everything falls on ur plate altogether.. that's what CV are throwing at us .. they r giving us everything chappar phadke ..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Matlab hum log panauti hain?😆

🤣 Ha ha. I always think, I am such a panauti. I keep saying this to my friends that the moment I get attached to a show, it goes down the drain. Ab itne sare panauti mil jayenge hum sab.. toh kiyaaa hoga.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL yeah I need to start doing my own 10, 9, 8 in my head, I think😆😆

Itna bhi pyar aur expectation nahin rakhna chahiye ek story ya characters se no matter how attached you get😆

Lol .. yeah .. banja hs ki cheli .. next time when u get anxious .. just holler.. we will start Ulta ginti for u

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I personally don't think I've become uncompromising......in fact, I still laud this show for being above the general levels of trash on ITV.

I just started expecting them to live up to their own promise.....which I guess was again my fault....promise can only be lived up to a certain point....beyond that, faltering is inevitable.

I don't want everything....I just wanted them to live up to the story they established....but I'm gonna temper my expectations a lot more now going forward for what they can live up to.

Is the 20 minutes thing the issue? But it's been 20 minutes since around end of Aug and all those epis were still very good, so I don't know if that's the issue.

I was generalizing the expectation statement

To me 20 mins also feels like an issue because they r trying to pack Shaadi, issues with Shaadi, emotions/tantrums and handling of those in 20 mins . 30 mins in this case would have paced it out properly .. that's my feeling ..

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

I was generalizing the expectation statement

To me 20 mins also feels like an issue because they r trying to pack Shaadi, issues with Shaadi, emotions/tantrums and handling of those in 20 mins . 30 mins in this case would have paced it out properly .. that's my feeling ..

Maybe. If they hadn't who knows how long the shaadi track would have dragged on for.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Maybe. If they hadn't who knows how long the shaadi track would have dragged on for.

Then it would've been shorter

Lmao, I'm still counting my blessings that this wedding is shorter than Preeta's. 🤣🤪

Yesterday during water issue, Mini said, Why there is fear when Mini is here.

She is so hung up on swooping in at the end and being the hero. She is going to have some serious crisis when the wedding is done. Kise rescue karegi?

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Yes they have .. you are right .. my hunch is . Everything is going at its own pace.. I don't think her zeher issue is fully resolved .. it might just come up again .. and if I am wrong then I think they r going on a destructive path for themselves and the show .. her problem has always been resolving things at superficial level .. seeing smile on her daughters face made her believe she is fine and hence back to normal .. but when she realizes the depth of her insecurity .. that's when she will actually step up

The wayi see it is .. they opened hs mother's track to be resolved eventually. But for that to happen babita needs to establish her position/responsibility as his wife firmly and maturely.. in the meantime Minnie's insecurity issue cropped up .. now when something happens to our child, everything else goes in back burner.. and child takes priority. That's what I believe they r doing . As far as their marital relationship is concerned . I m sensing that while resolving these issues their relationship will also become stronger .. simultaneously babitas maturity will also be showcased . My hunch is hs issue will be resolved at the end . Because he is going to need both his daughter and his wife to bring him out of that dark past ..

That's just a promo re . Just the last episode she was panicking and ready to break off the marriage .. my interpretation was slightly different. She is ready to take on the reins if married life but she doesn't want to let go off her daughter either .. and I don't see her calm .. she is happy and satisfied of having found hs as a partner.

All interpretations are different and right in their own way . Yes everything is muddled .. but when u get married .. remember how everything falls on ur plate altogether.. that's what CV are throwing at us .. they r giving us everything chappar phadke ..

I understand that....but I don't think that's the issue here.

I'll give an example....during the Imarti track also, multiple issues were moving in parallel....there was HS's guilt tripping over his past regarding the Imarti case, her death, all moving alongside a Babita stewing over him saying those horrible things to her, her own resentment for him not giving her haq, also moving alongside a Mini holding them both together.....two issues were handled in parallel and very nicely woven together without any muddling.....and eventually reaching a resolution also....albeit a temporary one.

But in this wedding, they have actually muddled things....and it's not just because things are hectic during a wedding....from a writing standpoint, this was a very crucial time of transition and not the time to muddle.....everything was very well balanced in leading up to this.....but now that sense isn't there.

I actually don't see a clear transition to Babita stepping up right now....because they didn't built up to it.....either we aren't given any clue into her thinking, or we get to see her panicked outbursts....so how are we expected to buy her transition into confidently becoming lady of the house? Phir toh bas ek label ki baat hui na....kya woh rishte ki depth sach mein establish hui?

And Mini was obviously always the priority of their relationship, of this story....usmein koi nayi baat nahin hai establish karne waali....what needed to be established was the delicate balance going forward for HS-Babita....they need to be communicating and in sync for both handling their marriage and handling Mini.

I don't want this to be taken the wrong way but Babita again wanting to call off the wedding in panic was something that should have been addressed.....or have her outbursts become so meaningless now that no one takes them seriously? lol I think this will become an issue.....no matter how much she loves Mini, should HS really be treated so casually in her life if she's marrying him? The fact that it didn't even remotely pinch anyone for a moment was weird. lol

They convoluted things by mixing up the two issues.....instead of making this a case of desperately appeasing Mini, it should be handled with sensitivity to balance relationships.

I actually don't get any sense from Babita that she is ready to take on the reins of married life....because she is barely shown thinking about it, or about HS.....the marriage feels like a technicality at this point. And I'm not sure if that's a deliberate intent from the writers or a byproduct of the shaadi drag.