Minilicious : ajao saray - Page 17

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

yeah, but again no one will remember this, at some point not even mini.

remember when ashok was in jail and how mini did not talk to babita. this is something similar.

mini will not say anything, but the mother understands. and whatever happens, it is not easy to break relations. specially not for mini, becuase whatever happened, happened with her babes, and though she loves her babes a lot, she shares a bond with her dadu and biji.

i even hate dadu. he has only talked at all times, but not done anything. he knew mini and babita needed money and still decided to use the FD only because he could not listen to his sons taunts?

he took the complaint back only to spite ashok, not because HS was actually a good person.

he could not talk sense into lovely before mini came and requested everyone to come?

@bold, completely true.

Also, I agree, Dadu only talked when Minnie said all that, otherwise he was also not wanting to go. Uff, they deserve to be ignored.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I personally feel hi if your mehendi is not dark then u can't question ur partner love based on that.... Even I m mad ki I want a dark mehendi but I have never thought ki does my husband loves me or not by seeing a halki mehendi..

Yeah I accept there are ppl who takes them seriously ...coming to verbalizing their feelings ..hanita have to do that... It's very important for any relationship...

i think dark and light mehndi is not exactly about love, but giving yourself an assurance. just like all the things women do - mehndi, vrat etc etc.

karva chauth ka vrat makes no sense but still women follow this custom cause its emotional, gives an assurance since life is so unpredictable.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I wish they hadn't even come. Shaadi Babita ki hori hai, if they're not happy for her, then what's the point of even coming???

Really strange that Babita didn't want anything similar to her first wedding, yet she has the same people around her except the husband. 😡

I think the mehendi ke rang ka issue is raised to correlate with Hs not feeling comfortable sharing his and imarti’s old room with Babita. It’s all gonna connect together in the end.

But I am was confused though. What did HS think what room would he and Babita stay after the wedding? Don’t tell me he didn’t think about that yet 🤔

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

@bold -- Point is, No bride should be insecure coz of Mahendi color.

What is below the belt? I am married. I never get dark color. Didn't get in marriage also. Are you saying that I should cry on my wedding that my husband doesn't love me enough? or kya insecurity ke mare shadi hi na karu mein?

no, but someone like babita, who is so shy and timid would be scared out of her wits. and this is just my feeling. i just wrote what i felt,

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i think NB can give it back to biji if needed, and i believe that during the rituals they will show NB as the MIL and this will go by a bit smoothly. and i wish they show imarti's dad coming back. he should have been here and babita, mini, Hs giving him a lot of respect and love. specially babita. make dadu biji realise that she has other parental figures in her life whom she cares for and respects.

I also agree that if Babita sees she has other parental figures, she herself will stop feeling a need to depend on Dadu and Beeji emotionally.

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, I actually think Babita is struggling to handle this freedom. She's not used to an atmosphere where she is not answerable to anyone, where she doesn't have to hide her true emotions, etc. This new relationship with HS and all the liberty it brings is just difficult for her to fathom because her emotions have been caged for so long. Now that the door to the cage is open, she is afraid to fly out.

once she finally flies out, she is afraid of falling

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I think the mehendi ke rang ka issue is raised to correlate with Hs not feeling comfortable sharing his and imarti’s old room with Babita. It’s all gonna connect together in the end.

But I am was confused though. What did HS think what room would he and Babita stay after the wedding? Don’t tell me he didn’t think about that yet 🤔

Looks like he didn't think about it. Very strange that he didn't even think about the physical intimacy yet, etc. I guess, poore ghar ki chaabi de di par uss kamre ke baare mein nahin socha.

NB is like don't tell me you are going to continue to sleep in the aangan after the wedding! 🤣

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I think the mehendi ke rang ka issue is raised to correlate with Hs not feeling comfortable sharing his and imarti’s old room with Babita. It’s all gonna connect together in the end.

But I am was confused though. What did HS think what room would he and Babita stay after the wedding? Don’t tell me he didn’t think about that yet 🤔

from the conversation between HS and NB it seems that way. he thought the same arrangement will continue.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i think dark and light mehndi is not exactly about love, but giving yourself an assurance. just like all the things women do - mehndi, vrat etc etc.

karva chauth ka vrat makes no sense but still women follow this custom cause its emotional, gives an assurance since life is so unpredictable.

We should anything with shradha without any fear of the outcome that's it... But at the same time we shouldn't go so emotional that we can't even think what is right and what is wrong.