Minilicious : ajao saray - Page 15

Originally posted by: inlieu

And what does it matter what they say about the type of bahu she "is"? She no longer belongs with them. She's not their bahu anymore. IT'S OVER!!!!!

OMG, THISSSSS!!!!

Babita isn't ANYONE'S BAHU ANYMOREEE!! She's just a wife and a mother, baki sab chod do usse varna 🤬

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i think it is not shown, but babita cares more for these relations not becuase of her relation but because of mini's relation with these ppl. she doesnt want mini to again lose the relations and go into depression. babita can forget her in-laws, atleast not having them in her life will not hamper her so much, but it will hurt mini a lot.

right now, the fight is between a mother and a woman. i wish CVs show something like this. let babita talk to NB, and mini should not overhear this at all.

NB understands her completely, which is why she isn't scolding her. Babita will have to unfortunately reach her tipping point before it spurs her into action.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, well unfortunately I don't think she will find out yet. Maybe something else will happen during the wedding. Frankly, I don't want any more drama with Lovely. She's too annoying.

i think lovely issue will not come up now. the CVs have always tackled an issue and put it to the side once it is sorted.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

yeah, but since when did ppl believe logic when it comes to emotions.

i know about the logic, but even then whenever i apply mehndi i want it to be dark and im not even married.

HS and babita love each other, but both have a long way to go and they need to confess man. in words. not only actions and indirectly.

and as you said, there is more to the precap, another issue/ insecurity, but i just feel the CVs are tackling too many issues. all the issues till now were fine, but personally i feel mehndi is like below the belt kinda thing. its way too emotional and it has nothing to do with babita only, any bride would be insecure if the color is not dark.

I personally feel hi if your mehendi is not dark then u can't question ur partner love based on that.... Even I m mad ki I want a dark mehendi but I have never thought ki does my husband loves me or not by seeing a halki mehendi..

Yeah I accept there are ppl who takes them seriously ...coming to verbalizing their feelings ..hanita have to do that... It's very important for any relationship...

Can I just say it's good to have the forum lively and buzzing again? I guess it's the weekend effect but it feels nice.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

OMG, THISSSSS!!!!

Babita isn't ANYONE'S BAHU ANYMOREEE!! She's just a wife and a mother, baki sab chod do usse varna 🤬

You know, I actually think Babita is struggling to handle this freedom. She's not used to an atmosphere where she is not answerable to anyone, where she doesn't have to hide her true emotions, etc. This new relationship with HS and all the liberty it brings is just difficult for her to fathom because her emotions have been caged for so long. Now that the door to the cage is open, she is afraid to fly out.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

They've been her parents since a long time. Psychologically, it ain't easy to break off the relations by a mere divorce. She had a relationship with them, independent of Ashok, and she really does take them as her parents. They affect her and their presence makes her happy.

Okay, so where were these parents when Ashok came home with Meeta? Or when Babita was essentially rendered homeless?

I don't hate Dadu as he actually came to check up on Babita after every trouble, but Beeji ko toh mein 😡

Originally posted by: inlieu

NB understands her completely, which is why she isn't scolding her. Babita will have to unfortunately reach her tipping point before it spurs her into action.

that is true. each person needs to reach their own tipping point before they take a stand for themselves. babita took a stand today, but she felt guilty because she was torn between what she wanted and what was "apparently the right thing to do".

once she comes to terms with her own wants, desires and dreams, she will be able to vent her anger in a better way.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Dheere Jalna, Dheere Jalna, Dheere Jalna ☺️☺️

☺️☺️

Iss baar to full to haq se pakdega uska haath...

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

and as you said, there is more to the precap, another issue/ insecurity, but i just feel the CVs are tackling too many issues. all the issues till now were fine, but personally i feel mehndi is like below the belt kinda thing. its way too emotional and it has nothing to do with babita only, any bride would be insecure if the color is not dark.

@bold -- Point is, No bride should be insecure coz of Mahendi color.

What is below the belt? I am married. I never get dark color. Didn't get in marriage also. Are you saying that I should cry on my wedding that my husband doesn't love me enough? or kya insecurity ke mare shadi hi na karu mein?