Lovely post shailu .
Yes self respect is paramount . It shouldnt be a hurdle in a relation ship but it shoul infact be balancer in a relationship . Mutual respect .
We have discussed all that AJ did to her . But there is more .
Today guddan didnot just walk away because of AJ . She walked away because of the entire family . The way they treated her from day one . Throwing a bucket full of water , to sleeping on the swing , to muh dikhayi to goa to angad to ............
She walked away from daadi who at drop of a hat abandoned her . accepted antara's fake child as waris !!!!!!!!! How much that must have hurt .
And then because she was guddan ,the kind , pure soul ,she with stood all the injustice . She didnot give up or run away . But she saw to it that each member realises how wrong they were , and then when the whole family realised their mistake , she walked away head held high , with self respect .
AJ gave her a lot also . He gave her confidence , he stood by her a lot of times and so guddan accepted she loved him , but the hurt he caused (I had made a post on this way back ) Was so profound that to come out of it she had to leave him.........
Now Aj's journey of seeking love will begin !!!!!!!
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