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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LOLL, and then her disappointment at finding out that it wasn't even that deep? 😆

I think it's because the word sounded so heavy and serious, and since she is used to being called Queen Victoria and Most Gorgeous Girl, this one seemed too simple? 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But isnt that unfair to Babita and HS? That Babita is an avenue for him to connect to Mini's or be a parent to Minnie, or that HS is a father figure to Mini. Shouldn't the main reason for them to come together be because they love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together. Of course, Mini's great bonding with HS gives Babita the assurance that her daughter will not suffer because of her 2nd marriage and that she shall still remain a priority in her life. Idk if that makes sense.

This is the whole point of their relationship, and of many who remarry. Kids are involved, and couples love each other as individuals but also as co-parents whether it's the first or second marriage. There is nothing wrong with it. Children bind couples together in a beautiful way as Minnie has.

I don't think there's anything wrong with HS loving the mother of his daughter. In fact, the beauty of this story is that he began to and still loves Minnie more than anyone else, and that extends to loving Babita as being Minnie's mother. HS and Babita have their own equation as two individuals, and being Minnie's parents adds another dimension to it. If that weren't the case, he would have asked Babita to marry him for Minnie's sake but he proposed only when Babita gave him the green signal as a lover and not when he had pronounced himself to be Minnie's father. His initial proposal attempt did not have the same feel and conviction and to an extent he felt pressured to do it. Thankfully it did not happen, but when he did actually propose later on it was through his Veer Balika.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I found it interesting that he spoke of learning about unconditional love from Minnie because I think his love has always been that way, especially for Minnie. I am wondering if this is referring to something about him that we don't know yet.

I think only a parent's love for their child is unconditional. In everyone else, we have expectations that we want them to fulfill so that we can feel satisfied. But with a child, I don't think there are such expectations, apart from the basic respect of course.

Really I don't think the show is any realistic as all claim means babes who thinks the role of mother is most important to her is also in big question???????

In the whole episode babes has only 5 min in that also she is crying & other r saying the dialogue 😏😏😏😏Then production will tweets that we don't understand babes I mean if they want viewers to understand her then give her dialogue as well as screen space so that viewers will understand babes in the show not in the tweets in the social media 😕😕😕😕😕😕😕😕

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I think only a parent's love for their child is unconditional. In everyone else, we have expectations that we want them to fulfill so that we can feel satisfied. But with a child, I don't think there are such expectations, apart from the basic respect of course.

Yeah, I still think it will lead to something. That dialogue seemed too important to have been randomly spoken in that conversation.

Don't get me wrong but Babita is the wrong person to teach Mini about life and Love etc as she is has not managed that while Mini was growing up in the most important years of her life and what is she going to teach her now.

She has not learned properly herself in the first place, what on earth is she going to pass on to her daughter now apart from insecurity in herself and be the victim.

Babita has to learn herself first but its too late to teach her Daughter the correct way. Yes she is her Mother but in this case it is sadly missing as the things that she should be teaching is not there.

All that Mini is learning now has been to HS and Nayeem Be, hence the big change in her. Hence her looking up to Imarti as her role model.

Its silly now that Mini is turning into a fine young Lady that she wants to take credit for it and says my Mini is always like this. Oh really.

Under Babita and the Khuranas they had spoiled her to compensate for the lack of a father instead of correcting her etc.

I am glad that at least the Khuranas have acknowledged it under HS unlike Babita.

Originally posted by: guddi01

Don't get me wrong but Babita is the wrong person to teach Mini about life and Love etc as she is has not managed that while Mini was growing up in the most important years of her life and what is she going to teach her now.

She has not learned properly herself in the first place, what on earth is she going to pass on to her daughter now apart from insecurity in herself and be the victim.

Babita has to learn herself first but its too late to teach her Daughter the correct way. Yes she is her Mother but in this case it is sadly missing as the things that she should be teaching is not there.

All that Mini is learning now has been to HS and Nayeem Be, hence the big change in her. Hence her looking up to Imarti as her role model.

Its silly now that Mini is turning into a fine young Lady that she wants to take credit for it and says my Mini is always like this. Oh really.

Under Babita and the Khuranas they had spoiled her to compensate for the lack of a father instead of correcting her etc.

I am glad that at least the Khuranas have acknowledged it under HS unlike Babita.

Oh was there a scene where the Khuranas acknowledged this or are you referring to the one where HS goes to Naeem Bi's house to bring Minnie back?

Originally posted by: inlieu

She will one day, but before that she needs to go through her own journey, as HS said. Only then will she be strong enough to take care of Minnie's emotional needs not just physical ones like feeding her or cooking for her, etc. Until then HS and NB will be there, which is a good thing, I guess. Otherwise, Minnie will feel lonely.

i agree with this babita takes care of the physical needs of mini very well but she dosent seem to see her emotional needs.

like yesterday she just randomly started crying involved in her own issues where as she dint even think that she needed to talk to mini regarding blaming yesterday about staying in the marriage with ashok for her. And why does mini need to keep asking her if she is happy or not why cant babita just tell her once that she is happy and will manage everything. just the way hanuman puts her fear to rest

Originally posted by: naq5

i agree with this babita takes care of the physical needs of mini very well but she dosent seem to see her emotional needs.

like yesterday she just randomly started crying involved in her own issues where as she dint even think that she needed to talk to mini regarding blaming yesterday about staying in the marriage with ashok for her. And why does mini need to keep asking her if she is happy or not why cant babita just tell her once that she is happy and will manage everything. just the way hanuman puts her fear to rest

I wrote almost the same thing in another thread. The balance in the mother daughter relationship seems off lately. Babita being the coy, diffident, hand-wringing damsel in distress in front of Mini and Mini trying to perk her up, bolster her confidence and smooth over the rough edges. It would be nice to to see Babita taking the reins of this relationship once in a while and let (or rather force) Mini to be a free and unfettered teenager, without worrying over her mom 24/7

When are they gonna show that shaadi promo? 🤔 I thought the shaadi was happening next week. Idk. Or maybe it will be couple weeks more.