If you are in love with one person and fall for other - Page 6

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

Prerna feels secured with bajaj & she might be feeling bajaj has taken care Of special child all alone.

She is feeling her kid in womb will have great father bajaj in his life.

I think bajaj will be great father to anurags child.

She is feeling insecure around anurag, a woman seeks secured life and good companion rather than love.

So prerna found maturity in bajaj and the way he cares ppl and protects his family and the ppl associated with him.

So obviously she has to turn to bajaj rather than anurag who cant give her security to herself and her child

Bajaj has experience of fatherhood so he will take care of prernas child better than anurag

Dear, nobody will have prior experience until it happens first, fatherhood motherhood will not come with pre-experience...it will happen automatically and moreover learning process when one become father/mother...

Sorry I did not take this point in general it's not about chars or show.....I can accept if we have prior experience, then for second child it's easy to handle them but u cannot point out one that he can't take care of his kid well because he is not a father before.....

Falling in and out of love is entirely possible and natural. Prerna and Anurag fell in love as college going kids. Since then, Prerna has lost her father, Anurag has been married and divorced, Prerna has gotten married and become a stepmom and many other complications have arisen in between. Those types of major life events cause people’s world views, personalities and feelings to change.

Prerna loved Anurag to the point of sacrificing her self-respect and principles when he married Komolika. She faced the whole world, and in the end when she got what she wanted, she gave it up for Anurag’s sake. In contrast, Anurag gave up on Prerna when her father died, for the sake of his company and wealth. Then, when she left him, he believed her to be characterless and gave up all sense of right and wrong. When comparing the two, it’s obvious that Prerna has a conviction and strength of character that Anurag lacks. That difference in character will cause their love to diminish and eventually vanish. Because no person can sustain in a relationship giving everything they have and relieving only crumbs in return.

Mr. Bajaj has that same strength in him. Yes, he did immoral things and he acts emotionless. But he has the same all-consuming love for his family that she has for her loved ones. And, after all, wouldn’t we all do immoral things to protect those we love from harm? When Prerna witnesses that love, that protectiveness, towards her and her loved ones, it is inevitable that she will fall for him. And in reality, a relationship between them would eclipse the weak relationship between Anurag and Prerna if not for the predetermined narrative.

As far as the life of Prerna’s unborn child, I feel like the child is actually better off with Bajaj and Prerna as parents. Anurag and his family are too unstable in comparison to Bajaj. And if given love and affection of both parents from day one, why would the child even suspect a biological difference? Honestly, I know many adopted children who were adopted as babies, and they act like their parents, have the same skills, tastes, everything. And none of them suspected a thing until and unless they were told.

well i only agree with the fact that prerna should inform anurag abt her pregnancy as he has all the rights to know that he is going to be a father..but if the pregnancy is not revealed something is definitely cooking up...it can be in positive way or negative way

yes i agree he abandon prerna when she needed him the most but than he is still the father of the baby

but the rest,i don't agree...who says that love doesn't happen the 2nd time,yes i agree first love can't be forgotten and it always remains in the heart in a special corner but who says you can't fall in love again...

not everyone unites with first love and marry the same.sometimes first love is not your destiny and you fall in love again or you marry and fall in love with the person...love has no limits and boundaries furthermore when the matter is about love,hearts and emotions,one have no control over it...love just happens and its not limited to one and noone can control it

coming to kzk 2...if prerna falls in love with bajaj...its no wrong as it just happens which she has no control over it who says that love doesn't happen the 2nd time...just becos she was in love with anu doesn't mean she cannot love bajaj and if she falls in love with bajaj doesn't mean she never loved anu...love can interpret into many meaning and terms...for an example she falls in love with bajaj and anu who is her first love turns into a devotion for her and it he will always remain in a corner of her heart as he is special...her first love whom taught her the lessons and feelings of love which is why she could fall in love the 2nd time

Originally posted by: KgirlLuvsD3

Falling in and out of love is entirely possible and natural. Prerna and Anurag fell in love as college going kids. Since then, Prerna has lost her father, Anurag has been married and divorced, Prerna has gotten married and become a stepmom and many other complications have arisen in between. Those types of major life events cause people’s world views, personalities and feelings to change.

Prerna loved Anurag to the point of sacrificing her self-respect and principles when he married Komolika. She faced the whole world, and in the end when she got what she wanted, she gave it up for Anurag’s sake. In contrast, Anurag gave up on Prerna when her father died, for the sake of his company and wealth. Then, when she left him, he believed her to be characterless and gave up all sense of right and wrong. When comparing the two, it’s obvious that Prerna has a conviction and strength of character that Anurag lacks. That difference in character will cause their love to diminish and eventually vanish. Because no person can sustain in a relationship giving everything they have and relieving only crumbs in return.

Mr. Bajaj has that same strength in him. Yes, he did immoral things and he acts emotionless. But he has the same all-consuming love for his family that she has for her loved ones. And, after all, wouldn’t we all do immoral things to protect those we love from harm? When Prerna witnesses that love, that protectiveness, towards her and her loved ones, it is inevitable that she will fall for him. And in reality, a relationship between them would eclipse the weak relationship between Anurag and Prerna if not for the predetermined narrative.

As far as the life of Prerna’s unborn child, I feel like the child is actually better off with Bajaj and Prerna as parents. Anurag and his family are too unstable in comparison to Bajaj. And if given love and affection of both parents from day one, why would the child even suspect a biological difference? Honestly, I know many adopted children who were adopted as babies, and they act like their parents, have the same skills, tastes, everything. And none of them suspected a thing until and unless they were told.

nothing more to say...you say it all👏

Pyar ek baar shadi ek baar and next you known what.. the person who said this married twice ..I mean in the movie 😆..real life is different from srk movies.

I dont believe love can happen only once. Or if you fall in love again then it was never love the first time. In our lifetime we love many people at the same time, family, friends , spouse, children..... it's just that the person with whom we form a physical relation, we overemphasize it as true love. Something which we didn't experience before.we have but not see it as love ?

Those whose spouses die may find love again . People may find love again after break ups ? If the other person is affectionate and loves us how can we not love him back ? The real test of love is when you share your life with them and able to sail through happily .

I dont know what was ther3 between anurag and prerna ..was it love or infatuation or attraction or I dont know..it may have been love but not the end of life..life goes on..People change.. their feelings change and the way to express it change. Prerna may still love anurag but in a different way ..as a friend as a person from whom she expects something..respect? ...anurag is loving prerna in a different way now..which is toxic and unhealthy. Prerna may definetly be attracted to bajaj and his personality . He respects her , trusts her , he respects her family ..she may see an ideal husband in him . Let's see..

This doesn't mean anurag wasn't capable of becoming a good partner for her ..but nobodys life is perfect. They are not together, is a reality . Prerna accepted it..anurag will accept.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I don't believe in this phrase. I believe, one can fall in love again, despite having loved someone else prior to that person without this thing of you didn't love the first if you fell for the second.

While I don't know, what stops Prerna from revealing her pregnancy to him, I do not find it beyond redemption for apparently, the kid's biological father who is also a genius in Chemistry, Biology and what not - did not, even once, put forward a genuine query - that after doing what they did - was she, by any chance, pregnant? Come on, who doesn't think about it after getting intimate?

Havent you heard the quentissential dialogue "main aapke bache ki ma banne wali hoon"?🤣

Show me one man in the history of mankind who asked his woman "we did bang bang , what's the result ?" It's such a woman thing. She knows when she is pregnant and because of whom. How is a man supposed to know unless the woman tells him? She doesnt visit the gynae she doesn't need supplements she is running falling getting burnt kidnapped travelling to foreign countries she never got morning or evening sickness ..is therr any hint ? Should he try to find out now if she is having nornal cycles?

Originally posted by: _charu_

Havent you heard the quentissential dialogue "main aapke bache ki ma banne wali hoon"?🤣

Show me one man in the history of mankind who asked his woman "we did bang bang , what's the result ?" It's such a woman thing. She knows when she is pregnant and because of whom. How is a man supposed to know unless the woman tells him? She doesnt visit the gynae she doesn't need supplements she is running falling getting burnt kidnapped travelling to foreign countries she never got morning or evening sickness ..is therr any hint ? Should he try to find out now if she is having nornal cycles?

This was just not my point. I think we have had this conversation before. 😆 First thing first, can you please not call it bang bang? I kind of find it a little offensive and weird undoubtedly. 😆 You mean history of mankind or history of mankind in ITV? I am sure you mean ITV and it has never made sense. Sigh. Why does it have to be a woman thing? See my point is very simple. Let's not complicate why I blame Anurag more. All that I think is - the man sure did not have a condom in his pocket. Yet the educated man goes ahead, indulges himself in a sex with a woman he loves (in a hut 🤪) DESPITE knowing -

1. Not using protect could potentially make her pregnant. That's a different things altogether that he was going to marry her etc etc but did he think/ask - if she was ready to have a kid? Marriage or no marriage makes no difference to me but having sex without protection with her without discussing if she was okay if she got pregnant later on is 🤢 He knew he did not use protection. It is so obvious thought to check upon her, confirming the aftermath but he didn't and I don't know why he didn't.

2. Have these people not heard about the term called STD? 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

This was just not my point. I think we have had this conversation before. 😆 First thing first, can you please not call it bang bang? I kind of find it a little offensive and weird undoubtedly. 😆 You mean history of mankind or history of mankind in ITV? I am sure you mean ITV and it has never made sense. Sigh. Why does it have to be a woman thing? See my point is very simple. Let's not complicate why I blame Anurag more. All that I think is - the man sure did not have a condom in his pocket. Yet the educated man goes ahead, indulges himself in a sex with a woman he loves (in a hut 🤪) DESPITE knowing -

1. Not using protect could potentially make her pregnant. That's a different things altogether that he was going to marry her etc etc but did he think/ask - if she was ready to have a kid? Marriage or no marriage makes no difference to me but having sex without protection with her without discussing if she was okay if she got pregnant later on is 🤢 He knew he did not use protection. It is so obvious thought to check upon her, confirming the aftermath but he didn't and I don't know why he didn't.

2. Have these people not heard about the term called STD? 🤣🤣

Ok. I have used the term for the first time n now i won't.. apologies 😆 plz let not get into th3 details. He went there to rescue prerna .Why will he have protection in his pocket 🤣

Normally also its such a big thing that women want to share it..after komo went away , not to the entire world but she could have told him . If she didn't tell him earlier , in the first month, he must have guessed that nothing like pregnancy happened.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ok. I have used the term for the first time n now i won't.. apologies 😆 plz let not get into th3 details. He went there to rescue prerna .Why will he have protection in his pocket 🤣

Normally also its such a big thing that women want to share it..after komo went away , not to the entire world but she could have told him . If she didn't tell him earlier , in the first month, he must have guessed that nothing like pregnancy happened.

That's exactly. What was the need and hurry to go ahead anyway then? 😆He is no teenager who cannot control his hormones. Ruk jate bhaisahab thoda. The world wasn't ending, was it? 🤣

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

What do you mean by nobody asks such questions?😆 Of course they do. In fact, I believe men are more cautious about the same than women. I don't give much to Prerna's realisation. Anurag has anyway shown more mature, more intelligent rather genius than her. It is beyond my understanding that it is yet to strike him. Do you think we will get a flashback with a bit that he might have, at least, once wondered about it? Considering the kind of flashbacks we have got, it would not be surprising if we get one. 😆

Because admit it or not, it was Anurag who initiated the consummation. (Despite knowing that he sure didn't have a condom. Of course who roams with a condom in pocket when he is rushing to save a kidnapped girl?) Now, do these people need a sex education to know what happens when you don't use protection and go ahead with the intimacy? I don't say that Prerna has no faults. She has a bunch of them but I find Anurag's ones, out of his character and too lame to buy.

Ok. Agreed he initiated consummation. Then what......did prerna show any sign of pregnancy or raise a doubt in his mind that she can be pregnant.

She is merrily dancing n jumping away.

This act of hers will defo create trouble for her

4 months of pregnancy passed by n madam didn't bother to inform the father but informs some random guy.