Itna sannata kyun hai bhai? - Page 2

It all started with the apology scene and hence the silence.... People are disappointed to some extent....

Originally posted by: Resham

It all started with the apology scene and hence the silence.... People are disappointed to some extent....

Yes, it did. I was definitely disappointed with that scene and I felt they were ruining Babita's character. I thought I wouldn't watch it for few weeks but because of the positive review for Monday's episode, I went ahead and watched it. This week has been okay so far. Lets see how they progress.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I've been quiet cuz others have been quiet too. There's no point in me talking to myself. 🤔 I mean, I know I'm pagal but there's no need to show everyone just how much. 😆

On a more serious note, Idk what it was, but ever since that episode where HS apologized, some thing happened in my personal life that exploded my emotions. I just feel all over the place and am trying to find a balance or something that can anchor me back to how things were before. Dunno how long that will take though so I might be really active on some days and inactive on others.

🤗

Originally posted by: sanam912

Feel free to vent it out here without having to share personal details .. We all deal with things in our lives and need an outlet .. All ears - no judgment

Well, last week I met up with a friend after months and I had expected things will go differently. For one thing, I had assumed he would take more time out to meet me than just an hour since we were meeting after so long. But he didn't, and the time we did have went by in buying soup for his dad, dropping it at his home, then buying me food and dropping me home. 😒

And yeahh, we were talking during the ride but it just wasn't the same. It felt rushed and kind of gave me the impression as if I was something that had to crossed off his docket. This hurt me a lot considering how much I loved and respected him. He has done a lot for me in the past and has been a huge emotional support. So if not love, I had assumed he would at least respect me enough to give me a little more than an hour out of his day. And if he couldn't then he could have scheduled it for some other time. It's not like I would have died if I didn't met him. 😒

He just threw my emotions all over the place and I'm finally starting to feel normal. It absolutely sucks but I think I have finally reached that stage where I'm moving on from him. I don't appreciate having to feel like this friendship will survive only if I put the efforts in. If he wants to continue being friends, then he has to put in the efforts too. If he can't be asked to do that, then why should I? If it fails then it won't be because of me. I have spent the last four or so years of my life trying to keep it alive. If he can't appreciate it then that's not my problem. I just need to move on.

Apologies to anyone if it got too personal and made you feel uncomfortable. I think I just needed to put it out there so that I can finally start acting on my thoughts and actually move on from him.

I am losing interest in Hanita as you all know and find no chemistry at all. I find babita petulant, even in the pizza scene, She was actually glaring right at the end. There is no smile on her face ever and even if there is one, it looks forced because people have to literally force her and I feel bad for HS because the brunt of keeping her happy is on him and Babita has made no efforts at all in his direction, i.e. volunteer to give him a surprise or initiate a talk or anything to make him happy.

Lots of things still remain unresolved between them.

In any case when she walked out on him that horrible evening/night is when I was done with her and Hanita. The HS apology scene just made it even worse.

And even though HS is trying really hard to look cheerful it seems forced to me.

In fact I am looking forward more to Mickey scenes than HS Babita.

Really liking Mickey now. But since the focus should be on Hanita and since my darling HS has just disappeared, losing interest completely.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Well, last week I met up with a friend after months and I had expected things will go differently. For one thing, I had assumed he would take more time out to meet me than just an hour since we were meeting after so long. But he didn't, and the time we did have went by in buying soup for his dad, dropping it at his home, then buying me food and dropping me home. 😒

And yeahh, we were talking during the ride but it just wasn't the same. It felt rushed and kind of gave me the impression as if I was something that had to crossed off his docket. This hurt me a lot considering how much I loved and respected him. He has done a lot for me in the past and has been a huge emotional support. So if not love, I had assumed he would at least respect me enough to give me a little more than an hour out of his day. And if he couldn't then he could have scheduled it for some other time. It's not like I would have died if I didn't met him. 😒

He just threw my emotions all over the place and I'm finally starting to feel normal. It absolutely sucks but I think I have finally reached that stage where I'm moving on from him. I don't appreciate having to feel like this friendship will survive only if I put the efforts in. If he wants to continue being friends, then he has to put in the efforts too. If he can't be asked to do that, then why should I? If it fails then it won't be because of me. I have spent the last four or so years of my life trying to keep it alive. If he can't appreciate it then that's not my problem. I just need to move on.

Apologies to anyone if it got too personal and made you feel uncomfortable. I think I just needed to put it out there so that I can finally start acting on my thoughts and actually move on from him.

Virtual hug 🤗

Take some time out for yourself. Self care is really important. Don’t stress too much and take care of yourself.

But it’s the writers who are showing Hanita like this... seems both are not interested in the wedding. Aisa force kyun Karna agar yesa ho to. Thoda toh excitement hona chahiye. I am kinda disappointed too. I was expecting at least some sort of romance, sparks but nada 😕.

Though I liked the paratha scene. It was cute. Wish Babita would have reciprocated though rather than just chup chapke sharmana.

Ek hand holding tak nahi Hua hai ab tak. Just seems so weird 🙄

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Well, last week I met up with a friend after months and I had expected things will go differently. For one thing, I had assumed he would take more time out to meet me than just an hour since we were meeting after so long. But he didn't, and the time we did have went by in buying soup for his dad, dropping it at his home, then buying me food and dropping me home. 😒

And yeahh, we were talking during the ride but it just wasn't the same. It felt rushed and kind of gave me the impression as if I was something that had to crossed off his docket. This hurt me a lot considering how much I loved and respected him. He has done a lot for me in the past and has been a huge emotional support. So if not love, I had assumed he would at least respect me enough to give me a little more than an hour out of his day. And if he couldn't then he could have scheduled it for some other time. It's not like I would have died if I didn't met him. 😒

He just threw my emotions all over the place and I'm finally starting to feel normal. It absolutely sucks but I think I have finally reached that stage where I'm moving on from him. I don't appreciate having to feel like this friendship will survive only if I put the efforts in. If he wants to continue being friends, then he has to put in the efforts too. If he can't be asked to do that, then why should I? If it fails then it won't be because of me. I have spent the last four or so years of my life trying to keep it alive. If he can't appreciate it then that's not my problem. I just need to move on.

Apologies to anyone if it got too personal and made you feel uncomfortable. I think I just needed to put it out there so that I can finally start acting on my thoughts and actually move on from him.

Take care sweetheart.

The thumb rule is be kind to yourself.

If you really feel that all the effort for the past four years or so to keep it alive has been solely from your side, it's probably time to steel your heart and move on because this is just going to keep frustrating you no end.

If you want to be doubly sure why don't you just ask him directly?

No need to apologise. It always helps to discuss things and even better with people who only know virtually. Really trust me.

May be you should confront him to get your answer once and for all. This is provided you feel that he will answer number one and that he will answer honestly number two.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Take care sweetheart.

The thumb rule is be kind to yourself.

If you really feel that all the effort for the past four years or so to keep it alive has been solely from your side, it's probably time to steel your heart and move on because this is just going to keep frustrating you no end.

If you want to be doubly sure why don't you just ask him directly?

No need to apologise. It always helps to discuss things and even better with people who only know virtually. Really trust me.

May be you should confront him to get your answer once and for all. This is provided you feel that he will answer number one and that he will answer honestly number two.

There's no point. If I bring it up we're gonna fight and then go on silent mode for another few months. And I told him how I didn't appreciate being treated like something he had to cross off on his schedule and not to do it again, and all he had to say in return was "Kk". 😒

Again, it's that continuous lack of effort on so many different levels that's just tiring me out. It really is best to just move on.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Virtual hug 🤗

Take some time out for yourself. Self care is really important. Don’t stress too much and take care of yourself.

Thank you! 🤗

Right now, I'm waiting for the weekend of September 13. Gonna go watch Dream Girl, and hopefully a friend will be able to come over for sleepover. Till then, just gonna busy myself in work and writing. <3