Originally posted by: grace4317
Abhiya....Nice to see how you have a good insight to how relationships works. Hence, i would say, half of your fear on marriage should be nullified as I am sure that you will take an effort in understanding your partner, lack of which is one of the biggest reasons of increase in divorces these days.
Only one thing i would like to object in the case of the said couple is that, any relationship takes time to blossom into a successful one. Here, it is not even 1 year since they got married and is not clear whether the wife had tried to find out why he is behaving so perfectly. Yesterday, as i was surfing the channels, i happened to hear a talk by a family cousellor. He mentioned about a couple who came to him for advice. The wife's complaint was that on the first day of their marriage itself when she was dreaming of having a romantic night, this husband all of a sudden comes up to her and asks her, what is the capital of Denmark? 🤣🤣🤣. The counsellor was taken aback and when he asked the husband the reason behind it, the husband replied that the person who gave him pre-marital counselling had told him that inorder to avoid the awkward silence between the two, hubby should find a topic to start a discussion. Hence he thought of checking her GK. 🤣. Who knows, the above guy would have been brainwashed with something like that and hence he was all goody goody with the wife. So, my take is that she should have tried to find out if there was any particular reason behind this behaviour before taking it to the court. Otherwise what all you said about having a balance in relationship is true.
That's funny 😂
Yea communication is really important but both should try it from above case I read she did mistakes and her husband without pointing out just forgave and showered with gifts, these kind of things just make you feel more evil and inferior TBH.
I mean imagine you did mistakes, your partner pointed out in either way big fight or small argument, you understood it , apologize . There's this heartfelt happiness.
Imagine otherwise you did mistake, you only realised later, apologized ,other person rubbished, gave gifts in return don't you feel more guilty, sad and inferior like you will get the feel you did something big, gives other person superior vibes and you inferior.
Both should work on it. Communication plays key role here.
