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Hey, just saw the episode and thankfully,as a neutral observer. If one puts oneself in kunal’s shoes, one can totally understand how betrayed he feels by the very people he loved most-his mom and his brother. Now for them, he has been pushed into an unwanted relationship by them giving him their pyaar ka vaasta. And he, in his anger, is going to take it all out on kuhu because he knows she is precious to all of them especially to his sworn enemy(atleast in his mind), mishti. Just like she stole his brother, he will destroy her sister is his logic.

The problem is, we put good people on a pedestal but at the same time, we don’t allow or forgive other’s mistakes easily. I felt for a moment, when kunal asked for abir before Mangalsutra, that he wanted to talk to him but abir wasn’t around. Maybe, just maybe, he thought it was the last chance to confess, to come clean and to save everyone from the mess. But alas, it didn’t happen.

Once abir realizes he was part of pushing his brother into an unwanted relationship and destroying kuhu’s life, what will he do? Will he realize that his holier-than-thou attitude has contributed to it atleast some part if not as much as big ben’s ego? He has to stop playing God in his brother’s life.

I felt most bad for kuhu. She loves her sister and she loves (or atleast she thinks she does) her husband and is stuck between them. And worst part is that her husband cheated her into this relationship. And this is not something she can just walk away from, she is deeply embedded in this mess. What is the way out?

Abir and mishti now need to back off and come clean to each other. In the coming days, loyalty (to family, to love both) will be tested. Mishti needs to tell everything that happened and so should abir. They can then piece together than Big Ben player everyone including their siblings. Then, I hope they will come clean to their siblings instead of again playing or trying to play God in their lives

Originally posted by: guy3

Hey, just saw the episode and thankfully,as a neutral observer. If one puts oneself in kunal’s shoes, one can totally understand how betrayed he feels by the very people he loved most-his mom and his brother. Now for them, he has been pushed into an unwanted relationship by them giving him their pyaar ka vaasta. And he, in his anger, is going to take it all out on kuhu because he knows she is precious to all of them especially to his sworn enemy(atleast in his mind), mishti. Just like she stole his brother, he will destroy her sister is his logic.

The problem is, we put good people on a pedestal but at the same time, we don’t allow or forgive other’s mistakes easily. I felt for a moment, when kunal asked for abir before Mangalsutra, that he wanted to talk to him but abir wasn’t around. Maybe, just maybe, he thought it was the last chance to confess, to come clean and to save everyone from the mess. But alas, it didn’t happen.

Once abir realizes he was part of pushing his brother into an unwanted relationship and destroying kuhu’s life, what will he do? Will he realize that his holier-than-thou attitude has contributed to it atleast some part if not as much as big ben’s ego? He has to stop playing God in his brother’s life.

I felt most bad for kuhu. She loves her sister and she loves (or atleast she thinks she does) her husband and is stuck between them. And worst part is that her husband cheated her into this relationship. And this is not something she can just walk away from, she is deeply embedded in this mess. What is the way out?

Abir and mishti now need to back off and come clean to each other. In the coming days, loyalty (to family, to love both) will be tested. Mishti needs to tell everything that happened and so should abir. They can then piece together than Big Ben player everyone including their siblings. Then, I hope they will come clean to their siblings instead of again playing or trying to play God in their lives

I totally agree with you guy3...and I want to see how mishbir will deal with the mess...it's necessary for them now to share the truth...if they want to survive and want kuku to survive

Bold- absolutely...

I am scared for kuhu...ek galat Insan k pyaar mein padne ki kitni badi saza hogi...if benba and Kunal can make mishti leave and run away to the airport...toh kuhu Ko todna toh bohot easy hai

I want Kunal to play alone now.... whatever it is... I want Abir to see the cunning man behind the sweet nanko...

No doubt benba ne shuru Kiya...but Kunal ne bhi knowingly contribute Kiya hai.

Let's see what he will do now. #belagamghoda.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I totally agree with you guy3...and I want to see how mishbir will deal with the mess...it's necessary for them now to share the truth...if they want to survive and want kuku to survive

Bold- absolutely...

I am scared for kuhu...ek galat Insan k pyaar mein padne ki kitni badi saza hogi...if benba and Kunal can make mishti leave and run away to the airport...toh kuhu Ko todna toh bohot easy hai

I want Kunal to play alone now.... whatever it is... I want Abir to see the cunning man behind the sweet nanko...

No doubt benba ne shuru Kiya...but Kunal ne bhi knowingly contribute Kiya hai.

Let's see what he will do now. #belagamghoda.

Abir will not see the true face of nanko very soon. Did you see how he masked his emotions and pretended during the bidaai? He will be at his manipulative best now. Unless abir and mishti are honest to each other now and mishti tells him what kunal said and abir tells her kunal ran away and had blamed mishti, they will not be able to figure out all pieces of the puzzle. Kunal will abuse kuhu in private and break her but will pretend everything is hunky Dory in front of everyone else. So now unless kuhu swallows her false pride that she can’t let people know her love failed and she confides in her family and seeks their help to save herself from abuse, this will be the worst situation for her.

Originally posted by: guy3

Abir will not see the true face of nanko very soon. Did you see how he masked his emotions and pretended during the bidaai? He will be at his manipulative best now. Unless abir and mishti are honest to each other now and mishti tells him what kunal said and abir tells her kunal ran away and had blamed mishti, they will not be able to figure out all pieces of the puzzle. Kunal will abuse kuhu in private and break her but will pretend everything is hunky Dory in front of everyone else. So now unless kuhu swallows her false pride that she can’t let people know her love failed and she confides in her family and seeks their help to save herself from abuse, this will be the worst situation for her.

Absolutely...

Let's see what happens now..

It's actually interesting to watch which way the story goes...

Are they highlighting the #kyunjhatpatshaadi concept here?

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Absolutely...

Let's see what happens now..

It's actually interesting to watch which way the story goes...

Are they highlighting the #kyunjhatpatshaadi concept here?

I think after #noisanoption, they are trying to show the flip side as well on what happens if you blindly believe and ignore red flags, what can happen? Big Ben character is overdramatized but kuhu ki kahani kaafi close to reality ho rahi hai.

Originally posted by: guy3

I think after #noisanoption, they are trying to show the flip side as well on what happens if you blindly believe and ignore red flags, what can happen? Big Ben character is overdramatized but kuhu ki kahani kaafi close to reality ho rahi hai.