Originally posted by: porankisrilata
Babita has that ego issue from starting May be she thinks it's her self respect but don't understand the difference between it...
And yes Babita also has attacked him with harsh words but he never ever voiced put it them and that's his patience level when it comes to his loved ones... And men being like that are were rare... I respect him for. That... And yes what he aid to. Naeem bi that she also have said some harsh words to. Me. But I never took them to heart......
Now comes this confrontation part... Did she questioned him. Earlier whenever they had a fight or said anything I don't think so... She don't ask. Him what's going on in his life or why did he speak to her like that.. But she asked him about his whereabouts Why Was he upset... Bcoz. He gave her that right in Pooja when he referred himself as Minni father... But in sometime he rejected her by attacking her character though whatever be the reason might be he have done wrong... And after this imarti siyappa she decided to move on as he referred that he can't love anyone more than imarti.... But again with naeem bi and Poonam guidance she kept her ego aside and proposed him indirectly... And he also reciprocated the same so again he gave the right... That's why she confronted him again... But the ways she kept condition was totally wrong... Pyaar mean sharth nahi hote... Bad pyaar hota hai... Agar hs ka ego bada hota to shayad wo uski taraf dekhta bhi nahi.... Here she went wrong... Confronting him was not wrong keeping condition was wrong and the worst part is that she dint get that she have hurt him...
And coming to him I felt he should have told her how hurt he is... Nobody is antaryami in life... When she have that right to tellthat she is hurt or his words even he have that right to. Confront her to put a condition and test his love for her.... U have to speak ur heart out with your partner then only relationship survives... Otherwise i will always be compromise... And if o m saying this also I don't support Babita for putting condition to test his love that's absolutely wrong... It looks like many women put a condition that if u love me more than ur mother then only come to me..which is very wrong.... Bcoz if u love anyone it should be unconditional..which HS does... And Babita needs to know that yet...
And coming to the broken marriage with Ashok I sorry if your partner is egoistic also u don't have any right to cheat on your partner... If you are not happy with him or her, talk and even if u are suffocating in the relationship the come out of it and then have a new life.... Kehte hai na do naav pe pair rakh kar nahi jaa sakte.. Either this or that....
What I feel is both have flaws which have to be acknowledged by the other and accept it that's it.... Every perfect relationship is about two imperfect ppl...
Yes both are imperfect which is ok as v are human beings ...issue is when they start portraying one as good and other as bad ....when ideally it is not so ...scripts are written in such a way that whoever audience likes or maybe whoever makers want to show as ‘good’ are shown good no matter wat they do ...the other person who wants to be portrayed as ‘bad’ will be shown to b bad Evn if that person is actually now wrong ...some way treatment will be changed to make it so ....instead why not show ppl having good aswell as bad qualities ....human being hain Bhagwan thodi hain ki bus kuch bhi ho ...galat me bhi sahi dikhao ....
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