Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 24

Originally posted by: inlieu

The way I saw it was that she was also kind of issuing him a challenge - are you up for a lifetime with me, knowing that my ego is a factor to consider?

yes but when she ll understand that when it comes to her his ego always takes a backseat as it should happen ideally bcz its abt love... today what she did, for me it was a below the belt move ab she is immature, doesnt understand ye toh woh hi jaane

Originally posted by: inlieu

The way I saw it was that she was also kind of issuing him a challenge - are you up for a lifetime with me, knowing that my ego is a factor to consider?

Boy .. I didnt see that !! Isnt it too self-absorbed arrogant self to even ask?

Sorry for such harsh words, but had I been in HS shoes, I would've never accepted it !! Not an ego, but self-respect..

Here for sure he has accepted it by apologizing for the sake of his VB .. but I wish PH doesnt weaken his character by givng into her whims & fantasies .. !!

Originally posted by: rr66

yes but when she ll understand that when it comes to her his ego always takes a backseat as it should happen ideally bcz its abt love... today what she did, for me it was a below the belt move ab she is immature, doesnt understand ye toh woh hi jaane

Yep, this is part of her growth as a woman.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Oh no! Please don't cry. HS can look after himself. This will also teach him to be a bit firmer as well so that they stop taking him for granted.

@bold, I totally agree. He signed up to raise Minnie, not her mother. 😆

But then again, no relationship is balanced 50-50 in real life. That's why we love this show, right?

I don't want to but feeling hi aisi aa ri hai. The more I think about what Babes did, the harder it makes me wanna cry. HS has given Minnie many lectures on maintaining discipline and a certain level of respect in the house and towards him; I hope he does the same with Babes. If Babes has bared her feelings before him, then he needs to do the same. He too needs to lay down his demands before her and straight up ask her if she's willing to accept them or not.

It's not and I really, truly love this show. But the hurt that I feel from watching today's episode is inexpressible to me. From watching previous episodes, I can pinpoint exactly what bothered me and why. But today is just something else. It's like something is pricking the back of my heart. 😭

Originally posted by: tk2015

One of the reasons why I love his character is because of the tough love he shows on everyone around him. Whether it be Lala, NB, Babita or Minnie. He holds his ground when he thinks he's right. He always puts across his point sensibly. I would like it if he still depicts that side of his with Babita. Yes, she deserves happiness, but not at the cost of his. I want him to complain, "na, ye toh kahi ka insaaf na hua" and explain his pov to Babita.

He will, don't worry. It would go against his nature if he silently suffered.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Are ji, aap to sharminda kar rahe ho. You are the one who always writes what's in everyone's minds, beautifully. Thanks for the compliment....🤗

Aur chadhao manne channey ke jhaad pe.

Another thing, Babita’s ex-in-laws interfering in their relationship is gonna bother HS in the future. What he said to Babita about senior citizens always coming at the wrong time I think was indicative of that.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't want to but feeling hi aisi aa ri hai. The more I think about what Babes did, the harder it makes me wanna cry. HS has given Minnie many lectures on maintaining discipline and a certain level of respect in the house and towards him; I hope he does the same with Babes. If Babes has bared her feelings before him, then he needs to do the same. He too needs to lay down his demands before her and straight up ask her if she's willing to accept them or not.

It's not and I really, truly love this show. But the hurt that I feel from watching today's episode is inexpressible to me. From watching previous episodes, I can pinpoint exactly what bothered me and why. But today is just something else. It's like something is pricking the back of my heart. 😭

The reason you feel this hurt is because the characters and their lives feel so real.

He will not make demands or ask for things because he is not like that. All he would want from her is love and respect, but for that he will not put conditions.

One more thing. We saw, along with Minne, the extent of HS' love for Imarti and what made that bond so special and changed him to the man he is today. Babita saw none of that! She has to eventually, in order to understand him.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I would love for that day to arrive. It'll also help to put things into perspective in regards to Babes & Ashok. Ashok can never be forgiven for what he did, but we don't really know what kind of efforts Babes into the relationship either. Did she ever try to reach out to him while he was in London? What kind of conversations did they have? Did she ever express missing him?

I'm not really sure what it is. HS knows about the imbalance but it's not his job to make Babes rise up to it. That needs to be done all on her own. If he sees her putting in efforts, then for sure he can help her out but she needs to do most of the heavy lifting.

Am just really down after today's episode. I think I need to cry a bit to let all the hurt out.

I remember when Ashok came back from the London and nobody had idea about Meeta, Babita never tried to spend time with Ashok. Granted, Ashok was actually avoiding her, but she never tried to talk to him either. She was waiting for him to come to her and she was ready to wait for years for that day to come but she wasn't comfortable with making a move from her side. And when Minnie pointed out that their relationship was devoid of love , babita outright refused to believe that saying that he doesn't show his love because he is busy (or something like that).

She had this typical mentality that her job is to take care of his family, her husband would see that and fall in love with him. And they would live happily ever after. While being helpful and nurturing are good qualities, a person certainly needs to have something more than that. A good man would want a wife not a care taker for his family.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Another thing, Babita’s ex-in-laws interfering in their relationship is gonna bother HS in the future. What he said to Babita about senior citizens always coming at the wrong time I think was indicative of that.

Yes! Minnie felt a bit bad but I think she also started to understand what he meant. They need their space and just because Minnie adores them doesn't mean he has to as well. They are Babita's ex in-laws, not parents. He respects them but there's an invisible boundary (which I think is a good thing).

Dadu Beeji will have to understand that HS and Babita's relationship will be outside their sphere, that Minnie and her father will have a different equation than theirs.

Also, I won't be surprised if Beeji questions HS' parenting style. Felt that when he talked about discipline yesterday.