Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 23

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

The thing is, he never even expected things to blow out of proportion just before marriage. He might have thought, they are now starting a new life, so it is better to keep the past on hold. He never wanted to talk about it. Like I said, he is a selfless man. He never even wanted to talk about anything that would hurt her. He has placed her in such a place, that he cant even think of hurting her. He has kept her above all and maybe a step below Imarti. And Babita has taken a wrong decision of showing rather stuffing her feelings in him, when their relationship was barely a bud. But, before the bud would die, Hanuman saved it by giving it nutrition. Unfortunately, it was totally a wrong ingredient, if you get what I mean...

Beautifully explained. I felt as if you were echoing my thoughts.

Originally posted by: riti4u

Aise mat bolo 😭i feel so bad for him as he is some real guy I know.. I don't want to see him in pain🥺

Me too. I worry for him and feel sad for him as if he were my family member. 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Also, I wonder why the PH has to resort to justifying what they are showing. I think they may feel they missed the mark in that perhaps what they were trying to show didn't come across as intended. Dunno.

Yes it seems they justified Babita's actions which were insensitive in pretext of her nature ..her bare emotions..her darker side .. well then I hope HS also shows his dark side...and they do justice to it without feminists brigade jumping guns on him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Also, I wonder why the PH has to resort to justifying what they are showing. I think they may feel they missed the mark in that perhaps what they were trying to show didn't come across as intended. Dunno.

Probably.

Because when I watched, I didnt see her showcasing her raw self .. To me it felt it was her ego talking .. I think tomorrow, if PH justification stands true, we might see her justify what she did and why she did that .. still laden with ego perhaps?

Sorry I am confused !!

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@tk2015 exactly u can never bear a person u love standing in front of u folding hands nd apologising no matter what.. this one scene confirmed it for me that this woman doesnt love him..

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I would love for that day to arrive. It'll also help to put things into perspective in regards to Babes & Ashok. Ashok can never be forgiven for what he did, but we don't really know what kind of efforts Babes into the relationship either. Did she ever try to reach out to him while he was in London? What kind of conversations did they have? Did she ever express missing him?

I'm not really sure what it is. HS knows about the imbalance but it's not his job to make Babes rise up to it. That needs to be done all on her own. If he sees her putting in efforts, then for sure he can help her out but she needs to do most of the heavy lifting.

Am just really down after today's episode. I think I need to cry a bit to let all the hurt out.

Oh no! Please don't cry. HS can look after himself. This will also teach him to be a bit firmer as well so that they stop taking him for granted.

@bold, I totally agree. He signed up to raise Minnie, not her mother. 😆

But then again, no relationship is balanced 50-50 in real life. That's why we love this show, right?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Beautifully explained. I felt as if you were echoing my thoughts.

Are ji, aap to sharminda kar rahe ho. You are the one who always writes what's in everyone's minds, beautifully. Thanks for the compliment....🤗

Originally posted by: riti4u

I feel Babita doesn't have much depth in love to see HS pain today.. yes her character is becoming unrelatable at times... I too felt that may be with Minnie in picture HS will try it's best to crush his ego..n even his self respect to some extent.. I hope he stays firm with Babita and not bend too much to her demands.. on pretext of being fair in love..

One of the reasons why I love his character is because of the tough love he shows on everyone around him. Whether it be Lala, NB, Babita or Minnie. He holds his ground when he thinks he's right. He always puts across his point sensibly. I would like it if he still depicts that side of his with Babita. Yes, she deserves happiness, but not at the cost of his. I want him to complain, "na, ye toh kahi ka insaaf na hua" and explain his pov to Babita.

Originally posted by: riti4u

Yes I hope he shares his hurt..his pain too..any relation become strong if they address issues in that by talking it out . I hope he explains to Babita the way he explains things to Minnie ..I want him to heart to heart with Babita .

For this to happen they need to spend time with each other .. as you all said earlier .. communicate.. he is so awkward with her .. doesnt even look into her eye & talk ..

I tihnk she understands his pain .. but pertaining to Imarti & Minnie .. not her .. The day she sees that she will realize it .. and the big elephant will b address in the room too ..

Originally posted by: sanam912

Probably.

Because when I watched, I didnt see her showcasing her raw self .. To me it felt it was her ego talking .. I think tomorrow, if PH justification stands true, we might see her justify what she did and why she did that .. still laden with ego perhaps?

Sorry I am confused !!

PS - thank you for welcoming

The way I saw it was that she was also kind of issuing him a challenge - are you up for a lifetime with me, knowing that my ego is a factor to consider?