Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 20

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

The thing is, he never even expected things to blow out of proportion just before marriage. He might have thought, they are now starting a new life, so it is better to keep the past on hold. He never wanted to talk about it. Like I said, he is a selfless man. He never even wanted to talk about anything that would hurt her. He has placed her in such a place, that he cant even think of hurting her. He has kept her above all and maybe a step below Imarti. And Babita has taken a wrong decision of showing rather stiffing her feelings in him, when their relationship was barely a bud. But, before the bud would die, Hanuman saved it by giving it nutrition. Unfortunately, it was totally a wrong ingredient, if you get what I mean...

I know what you mean...

But again marriage is about two individuals and individuals never have same thoughts their thoughts will always different and that's what happened today...

She would have thought to sort out before they start and he thought to sort it out once they are close enough.. And most importantly babita way spoiled everything... I hated her smile when he said sorry to her...

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Oh! That would never happen for sure. CVs sont even have the guts to show something like that.

Yeah, but do you agree with me that if it came to that, Minnie should?

I won't be surprised to be honest. Maybe they will maybe they won't, but seeing how Minnie is developing and maturing under HS' guidance she will stand by what is right and no longer choose her Babes blindly anymore, especially because HS is her father and no outsider.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

About deserving, I wouldn't like to comment on this today atleast. I'm too annoyed right now.

She has her strengths but the other aspect is clearly more and more visible off late. That is why I want common problems after this whole ego thing.

I too want problems resolved... and long meaningful conversations... but I am sort of tired of seeing the 'dark' side of Babita...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Irony of ironies that this time instead of Babita, HS will be one to bear the burden of this relationship because of his daughter. I hope it doesn't get to that. He (and Minnie) deserves better. The last thing I want is a scene where Minnie grabs HS' hand and walks out with him like she did with Babita many months ago.

For some reason I can't even picture this right now. During Imarti's track, sure. But right now, I just see everyone in a disjointed state. Minnie has repeatedly said that regardless of what Babes chooses, she'll always support her because it is her decision. She'll inwardly be miserable but she'll still go along with it cuz that's what Babes wanted. It was the same thing with HS. He didn't even try to stop her from leaving as it was her choice. Now they've confessed and proposed but there is still so much that needs to be resolved.

Idk, I've been feeling so off after today's episode, and I can't put my finger on why.

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

Aap toh bas ab Laale ki shaadi karvake hi chhodogi 😆

Listen... that guy deserves all the happiness in the world. I loved how he was super excitedly hugging HS and helping him with his love story, choosing presents etc. Also, if you notice, HS can talk to him about all the deep, complex, philosophical topics he wants to, because Lala totally gets it, and gets HS. He's a supporting character so we don't often focus on him, but like HS he is a simple and decent man at heart and is not afraid to stand by what is right.

I am hoping through their wedding Babita will get to see another side of love and connection between a couple who live by modest means but have an abundance of love in their lives.

I love his character!

Originally posted by: sanam912

Hello All PB lovers.. I am an old silent member and PB lover ..

This is the first time i am putting something down on paper since I am not good at articulating my thoughts. So apologize for any redundancy & confusing thoughts ..

Couldn't resist from not being a part of your group ..

Not taking anyone's side here ..

But I think I can clearly see where Babes is coming from and where she is standing - Immature. And I believe that is what is driving her self-centered nature and her ego. I think its partly to do with the upbringing & molding her .. When you are told a young person (of her types) to do something .. they do it .. there are no 'why' involved .. And to grow that 'why' is very important. She has grown physically and become a mother .. but her mental growth has been stagnant. This newfound liberty/freedom, independent decision-making is only adding to her dormant ego. I feel she is on a learning curve where one climbs the ladder of ego to eventually come back down. And she will one day, but that will be after she incurs something drastic (jhatka dene wala) ..

About HS - i absolutely love his character .. definitely the one with the larger heart, wiser & more mature. He has already climbed down the ladder of his experiences and is well grounded. i don't have more words to describe what I feel for this character .. they feel too small

Episode - My heart sank today when I saw that scene .. 💔😭 How much I hated Babita for gloating on her egoistic victory 👎🏼😡 .. Too much too soon for her .. Disappointed in her .. But then I guess until he doesn't see her inside-out he to wont know the real relationship that he needs to live with her

Wrong timing, wrong choice of words .. absolutely wrong intentions too .. As Jean rightly said - vindictive.

@Jean - huge fan of your analysis .. If I wake up at 3a in the night & find your analysis posted, I immediately read it

@attiya (sorry dont know your name) - I wait for your 'aa jao' pukar .. lo mein aa gayi

@Padmajaan - I love your love for HS .. count me intoo .. but I mor ein love with Aniruddh than HS .. without him this character wouldnt have been so loved

@Rest - Sorry I didnt mention your names .. because I am too overwhelmed with the episode, HS pain & this long post

phew!

Welcome to forum dear, good to see more people posting..

On episode I guess we all share common empathy for HS situation. He is mature one here and yes Babita is immature one...

Originally posted by: rr66

i really hope he does this tym bcz this issue can affect their relationship badly but today i think he also kind of got a shock like us.. he needs tym to analyse this nd he does that with lala as always.. but i do feel they need to talk abt this nd b4 the wedding takes place

Even I hope they talk... But hope they won't drag this too much..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Listen... that guy deserves all the happiness in the world. I loved how he was super excitedly hugging HS and helping him with his love story, choosing presents etc. Also, if you notice, HS can talk to him about all the deep, complex, philosophical topics he wants to, because Lala totally gets it, and gets HS. He's a supporting character so we don't often focus on him, but like HS he is a simple and decent man at heart and is not afraid to stand by what is right.

I am hoping through their wedding Babita will get to see another side of love and connection between a couple who live by modest means but have an abundance of love in their lives.

I love his character!

Completely agree! Lala is amazing!

Did you guys read PH tweets...? They are taking this in complete different direction

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

For some reason I can't even picture this right now. During Imarti's track, sure. But right now, I just see everyone in a disjointed state. Minnie has repeatedly said that regardless of what Babes chooses, she'll always support her because it is her decision. She'll inwardly be miserable but she'll still go along with it cuz that's what Babes wanted. It was the same thing with HS. He didn't even try to stop her from leaving as it was her choice. Now they've confessed and proposed but there is still so much that needs to be resolved.

Idk, I've been feeling so off after today's episode, and I can't put my finger on why.

Yeah but over time Minnie will get to the point where she will say the same to HS, that she will stand by him in his decisions.

Is the reason you are feeling off the fact that on some level you think HS made a mistake by proposing to Babita this soon without acknowledging the lack of balance in this relationship?