Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 18

Hello All PB lovers.. I am an old silent member and PB lover ..

This is the first time i am putting something down on paper since I am not good at articulating my thoughts. So apologize for any redundancy & confusing thoughts ..

Couldn't resist from not being a part of your group ..

Not taking anyone's side here ..

But I think I can clearly see where Babes is coming from and where she is standing - Immature. And I believe that is what is driving her self-centered nature and her ego. I think its partly to do with the upbringing & molding her .. When you are told a young person (of her types) to do something .. they do it .. there are no 'why' involved .. And to grow that 'why' is very important. She has grown physically and become a mother .. but her mental growth has been stagnant. This newfound liberty/freedom, independent decision-making is only adding to her dormant ego. I feel she is on a learning curve where one climbs the ladder of ego to eventually come back down. And she will one day, but that will be after she incurs something drastic (jhatka dene wala) ..

About HS - i absolutely love his character .. definitely the one with the larger heart, wiser & more mature. He has already climbed down the ladder of his experiences and is well grounded. i don't have more words to describe what I feel for this character .. they feel too small

Episode - My heart sank today when I saw that scene .. 💔😭 How much I hated Babita for gloating on her egoistic victory 👎🏼😡 .. Too much too soon for her .. Disappointed in her .. But then I guess until he doesn't see her inside-out he to wont know the real relationship that he needs to live with her

Wrong timing, wrong choice of words .. absolutely wrong intentions too .. As Jean rightly said - vindictive.

@Jean - huge fan of your analysis .. If I wake up at 3a in the night & find your analysis posted, I immediately read it

@attiya (sorry dont know your name) - I wait for your 'aa jao' pukar .. lo mein aa gayi

@Padmajaan - I love your love for HS .. count me intoo .. but I mor ein love with Aniruddh than HS .. without him this character wouldnt have been so loved

@Rest - Sorry I didnt mention your names .. because I am too overwhelmed with the episode, HS pain & this long post

phew!

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

Itna bura laga tha usse HS ki baat ka toh propose kiya hi kyu? Pehle sochna chahiye tha na!

She has a very simplistic view on life and love. She's thinking of it all as though it were a fairytale. He is the prince charming who has has swept her off her feet, and now she sees everything with rose-tinted glasses.

Life has given her a second chance, it never came with guarantees of perfection.

Originally posted by: annx

I know but it's getting a bit too much... Babita has her strengths too... she is sensible. She was able to understand the love of Imarti and Hanuman... not once but twice...

I know what she did today, or has been doing recently is annoying and in a bad taste, but saying that she doesn't deserve Hanuman - is a bit too much. She does. She deserves happiness... She had a bad marriage, and there are things she never experienced. Things Hanuman DID experience. There is a difference...

About deserving, I wouldn't like to comment on this today atleast. I'm too annoyed right now.

She has her strengths but the other aspect is clearly more and more visible off late. That is why I want common problems after this whole ego thing.

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

Yaar isko naa abhi HS hi jhatka deke seedha kar sakta hai... He has understood that they cannot go on like this

He will apply his technique of zor ka jhatka dheere se... I just remembered the scene where he straightened out Lala's stiff neck. 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I feel this too.

Even today when Beeji tried to take over their wedding date, I was ticked off. At least leave this one thing to them.

I swear, I don't think I have ever seen this much interference from 3rd parties before. They all have talked more about Hanita's rishta, than Hanita themselves. 🤔

And the best part is, Beeji is her ex mom in law. I mean, seriously. Leave past your relations. I would never keep in touch with my ex family, if I was in Babita's place. It would just get on my nerves. Constant interference, is something that I dislike. But now, that they are old people, we have no other option.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

If I'm not wrong we've a very healthy separation on cards, if it goes that far. I doubt it will but I'll be happy if it does.

Do u really think separation. Is on cards.. I don't think so... Yaar...

As far as I know they both loved each other but never expressed.. When they thought of expressing imarti case poped up... Then siyappe pe siyappe hue and as jab proposal ho gaya hai to their flaws are coming out... And that's quite common... With any husband wife... All that they need to do is to talk....

Separation always should be the last step not the first... And I know Hanita are mature enough to understand this...

Originally posted by: maddyy32332

Does this really mean that she didn't get what all Poonam said??...I m surprised that she is holding onto his words..this is same guy who gave his house keys to her the minute she gave her a hint..i think she still doesn't understand why HS was rude with her(or does she even understand him at all)..and the way she said "aap jaante Hain mujhe Kya chahiye" that means she wanted him to apologise like this(haath jodkar)..though CVS have taken an interesting route but I am worried abt how she will rectify this issue..If HS put the marriage on hold I guess it will further hurt her ego...I hope CVS have a perfect solution to it.

She understood parts of it but not the depth of it. Babita is the kind of person who understands simple emotions, black and white more than shades. All the complexities around her that we see or even HS and Minnie see, she is completely oblivious too.

Originally posted by: rr66

okay... class episode....chummmmaaa to writers❤️.. coming to babita, when u say sum1 has hurt u beyond limits then u never ASK the person to apologise nd if u do that means tumhare ego pe lagi h dil pe nahi aur dil pe tabhi lagti jab sach me pyaar hota... so now i m sure she doesnt really love him bcz love never puts conditions... when he folded hands nd apologised nd she smiled nd looked so happy i was shocked... i was expecting her to held his hands nd say sumthng like u dont have to do that. She has a loonnnnng way to go man... Yesterday sum1 said to me ki most of the relationships me 1 hi banda relation ko sambhalta hai tabhi soo many marriages work. I think thats what is going to happen here nd i reallly hope it doesnt bcz HS doesnt deserve this.

Nahin hoga aisa. I have full faith in HS.

Check PH's latest tweet about current track. They are trying to show something else. We are taking differently.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

And the best part is, Beeji is her ex mom in law. I mean, seriously. Leave past your relations. I would never keep in touch with my ex family, if I was in Babita's place. It would just get on my nerves. Constant interference, is something that I dislike. But now, that they are old people, we have no other option.

I know any woman cant do it yaar... But again Minni will always be related to her past relationships and for her sake she haa to keep them in her present except Ashok...