Sympathies with Kuhu - Page 2

Originally posted by: meen123

yaar mai aise hi kai b shaadi krne ko keh du, mere gharvale maan jayenge kya... Pehle thappado ki baarish hogi and hypothetically if I behave like drunk kuhu which I won't and my family knows this too, so hypothetically if they agree they'd definitely ask for 6 month or a year courtshup/gap period. Muje khush karne ke liye only engagement so that I'm pacified and then dheere dheere Sach dikhane ki koshish...

I know bade papa ne koshish ki par ladies ke aage haar gaye, I wrote that... Bt Varsha, Shaurya, inka dimaag kaha gaya re.... Mostly guy3 and I were talking no elder of the family has talked to kuhu how to deal with meenakshi there as she'll be alone there and abir can't follow her everywhere. She has to be enough for herself. That is whats Irking me and her

I hope you're getting me

Yass I think now I get your stance but I think that's more Varsha and Ananya's fault na. They need to have an open and honest conversation with Kuhu on how marriage is not a bed of roses and she really needs to be mindful of BB instead what we get our meaningless scenes such as how hashtag ki bachi has a cute Dulha, how Kunal hasn't eaten , convos about dances. Matlab kuch bhi.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

In scenario 1 Kunal accuses her of being dumb and jeopardizing his plans and he legit shouts at her. He has brought her to the office on the pretext that he is treating her to a couple spa date. Instead he threatens that he might break the alliance and then tells her to wipe her tears and go to the spa alone.

Scenario 2

The truth about Kuhu's parentage comes out and she tells him how she wanted to confide in him but was scared. He calls her a liar and again tells her in front of the whole fam that he might back off from the wedding. As a result Kuhu goes to.RV house and legit bows down in front of Kunal and begs him to not break the ristha. Kunal doesn't even ask her to get up he just stand like a statute. Abir actually comes and chides her for begging like this and asks Kuhu to get up.

Oh ok I don't understand what Kuhu can't see past her attraction for Kunal due to his looks, wealth and sports car etc. Not only Kuhu nobody from the family actually seems to understand why Mishti broke of the alliance with Kunal the guy is a MCP. She will only understand all this after marriage but by then it would be too late and she would have to live with her decision.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Yass I think now I get your stance but I think that's more Varsha and Ananya's fault na. They need to have an open and honest conversation with Kuhu on how marriage is not a bed of roses and she really needs to be mindful of BB instead what we get our meaningless scenes such as how hashtag ki bachi has a cute Dulha, how Kunal hasn't eaten , convos about dances. Matlab kuch bhi.

Hi meen, very well written!...i can share one of my friend’s experience who fell for such a guy...his target was not revenge or something...his target was to use her to get himself immigrated to another country...i can always see her husband in kunal...no matter whatever we as friends try to explain, it was all going over her head...similarly here BP was reluctant in the beginning but varsha n all were acting like kuhu really like kunal... there is nobody in kuhu’s life who can help her in understanding the difference between infatuation and love..here she needed somebody like mishti who can help her bit if she had raised any alarm she would termed it as her jealous nature. i think deep down my friend knew it all but she refused to acknowledge it for very long time...i see the same happening with kuhu...she has this constant fear ‘kahi kunal rishta na tod de’....it will be a rude and painful awakening for her...i hope makers show some sensible track for her!

Originally posted by: Believer09

Hi meen, very well written!...i can share one of my friend’s experience who fell for such a guy...his target was not revenge or something...his target was to use her to get himself immigrated to another country...i can always see her husband in kunal...no matter whatever we as friends try to explain, it was all going over her head...similarly here BP was reluctant in the beginning but varsha n all were acting like kuhu really like kunal... there is nobody in kuhu’s life who can help her in understanding the difference between infatuation and love..here she needed somebody like mishti who can help her bit if she had raised any alarm she would termed it as her jealous nature. i think deep down my friend knew it all but she refused to acknowledge it for very long time...i see the same happening with kuhu...she has this constant fear ‘kahi kunal rishta na tod de’....it will be a rude and painful awakening for her...i hope makers show some sensible track for her!

I hope your friend is doing okay now🤗

I know what you mean. My friend did tell me what is meant to be, it happens whether it's good or bad.

I'm not talking about Abir and Mishti here specifically because they still are kids. They haven't experienced marriage or people like Mahs elders have. But then again saare experience dhare ke dhare reh jaate hai. It is a pointless discussion in the end. Bt can't help feel bad all around

Because for a sec I can get Kunal never thought this will go to mandap bt Meenu pe bharosa kr k he has to suffer this too.... And make the girl who loves him miserable

I can only hope he'll be decent towards her realising he was part of that stupid planning and she shouldn't suffer because of it because her love for him is genuine.. Again high hopes hai meri

Is sab me time lagega, jo inko shaadi ke baad milega... I think Mahs le jayenge kuhu ko, this Sach will come out, tb tk Kunal ko pyar Jo jayega

Originally posted by: meen123

hi dear.

I hope your friend is doing okay now🤗

I know what you mean. My friend did tell me what is meant to be, it happens whether it's good or bad.

I'm not talking about Abir and Mishti here specifically because they still are kids. They haven't experienced marriage or people like Mahs elders have. But then again saare experience dhare ke dhare reh jaate hai. It is a pointless discussion in the end. Bt can't help feel bad all around

Because for a sec I can get Kunal never thought this will go to mandap bt Meenu pe bharosa kr k he has to suffer this too.... And make the girl who loves him miserable

I can only hope he'll be decent towards her realising he was part of that stupid planning and she shouldn't suffer because of it because her love for him is genuine.. Again high hopes hai meri

Is sab me time lagega, jo inko shaadi ke baad milega... I think Mahs le jayenge kuhu ko, this Sach will come out, tb tk Kunal ko pyar Jo jayega

Thank you for the concern...my friend is back to being awesome again🙏🏻...she believed this bad experience made her smarter and wiser...she realized the importance of her well wishers...i hope the same for kuhu as well... i want her to take a stand for herself and let kunal suffer for her love...she MUST NOT forgive him that easily ...she does not need to seek AM help or blame them for anything!...she should realise mistakes happen but it is important to learn the lesson... otherwise life is rude enough to keep on teaching the same lesson until you learn it!...please makers make her the boss of her life!!

Originally posted by: Believer09

Thank you for the concern...my friend is back to being awesome again🙏🏻...she believed this bad experience made her smarter and wiser...she realized the importance of her well wishers...i hope the same for kuhu as well... i want her to take a stand for herself and let kunal suffer for her love...she MUST NOT forgive him that easily ...she does not need to seek AM help or blame them for anything!...she should realise mistakes happen but it is important to learn the lesson... otherwise life is rude enough to keep on teaching the same lesson until you learn it!...please makers make her the boss of her life!!

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I've nothing more to add to this. This is what I want for Kuhu. Writers I know you stalk the forum pls do read this

Originally posted by: meen123

yaar mai aise hi kai b shaadi krne ko keh du, mere gharvale maan jayenge kya... Pehle thappado ki baarish hogi and hypothetically if I behave like drunk kuhu which I won't and my family knows this too, so hypothetically if they agree they'd definitely ask for 6 month or a year courtshup/gap period. Muje khush karne ke liye only engagement so that I'm pacified and then dheere dheere Sach dikhane ki koshish...

I know bade papa ne koshish ki par ladies ke aage haar gaye, I wrote that... Bt Varsha, Shaurya, inka dimaag kaha gaya re.... Mostly guy3 and I were talking no elder of the family has talked to kuhu how to deal with meenakshi there as she'll be alone there and abir can't follow her everywhere. She has to be enough for herself. That is whats Irking me and her

I hope you're getting me

Exactly! Thappad aur grounding hota, yahaan toh happily bali chadha rahe hain. If I hadn’t seen the show, I would think they all hate her and can’t wait to wash their hands off by tying her to whoever came along no matter how psycho the family

Yes, just like they show mishti with a head on her shoulder, I want them to show that even if she started off on the wrong foot, kuhu realizes her mistake, forgives herself for it(this will be most important for her to move on) and emerges a strong woman who can stand up to bullies in her life like meenu and kunal without needing mishbir or her family’s help. Yes, they are there to support but her strength has to come from within. People make mistakes, shit happens but it is important that she gets up and dusts herself off and stands tall instead of making pathetic excuses for her jerk of a husband. Seen too many real life examples of the latter. So the former would be a great example to show for young girls.

As far as I am concerned, all the elders failed the family in this track, be it maheshwaris or rajvanshs. Yes bade papa tried but he should have put his foot down. He should have slapped some sense into badi ma, Shaurya and someone should have asked Varsha if she really treats kuhu as her daughter as she is letting her walk to doom with eyes wide open. Ananya is a girl of today. She saw how obnoxious meenu is...even she can’t ask her sister if love will be enough to bear the daily torture and that she has not seen any unconditional love from kunal. Seriously sabne dimaag dariya me bahaa diya aur ab beti ko bhi dubaayenge

And the most disappointing character in rajvansh house to me is nanu. What the heck does he mean no need to reveal if it isn’t a matter of life or death. So your pride, your family prestige is more important than someone’s life? Then what is the difference between those khap panchayats that endorse honor killing and you, the head of a family of successful businessmen/businesswomen? You have all the time to go “yo dude” but no time to call out your daughter for her ego trips or to come clean to your samdhi who is trusting you with their daughter. Like meenu and nanko, there is no redemption for nanu in my eyes after this.

Unfortunately youngsters like abir, mishti and maybe even kuhu are being expected to do the sensible thing where these stupid elders failed. While I will appreciate whatever they try to do, it will still be greater than what should have been done by the elders.