Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
and I agree with your perspective, so here is my bit ,.. call it devils' advocate for Pre
If Prerna came across as guilty or sad or unhappy before Anurag , Anurag without wasting a second would probe up the reason for marriage and if he came to know that she sacrificed her life for his life he would be gutted for life, like she thought in front of that farm house ,post ronit drama in Swiss
Prerna is being harsh on him so that he can hate her and move away from her and channelize his hatred to something more productive and meaningful, like Anupam said today
She is putting up a tough shield around her so that he cannot see through it .. each time she comes across Anurag she puts a facade ... I think Prerna not only saved Anurag's life she is also saving him from being gutted for life .. she is playing the role of khadvi dawaa ..
To some extent you may be right but when you see it's other side as I mentioned many times at different places, Anurag is not someone who would leave it so easily. If you saw the show earlier before Bajaj entered he twice said... agar mera dil tum par aaya to main bhaga ke le jaaunga and second when in their car ride he said kisi ka pyar leke tum naya jahan nahi basaoge.
This shows that he is possessive and passionate for people he loves. So faking a hatred doesn't help here as this is pushing him further down in his sorrow. Moreso the poor soul isn t able to understand what and where he went wrong. He is one who always values relationship so at present he isn t able to figure out the reason when everything was lovey dovey till few hrs before marriage.
However she said "disgusting" when Anurag offered a proposal to her that that she can get back Bajaj house if she comes and lives here .....vis a vis .. what Bajaj did back then
She accepted Bajaj's offer because she was desperate to save Anurag's life and she rejected Anurag's offer as she has nothing important for which she can sacrifice here ... it's just a home, which her husband can buy anywhere and not some life at stake whom she loved to the extent that she had to sacrifice her life yet again .. if Bajaj has blackmailed that girl, so did Anurag .. good thing is it didn't work through and ended with a proposal ...
and Anurag's this particular offer is made to a married woman to leave her family and stay in this house ... he didn't say he would marry her once she comes. he just wanted her in this house I think Prerna felt that disgusting and indecent with this proposal and she told him she is not sacrificing and is not a toy to peddle with .. finally some spine in her or may be she is still spineless because she stood up against Anurag and not Bajaj as we want her to ..
He never asked her to live as his keep. Maybe what he meant was to divorce her husband and then come and live with him as his wife which he already considers her to be. Remember he clearly asked whether she will do engagement with her husband? While announcing their social marriage in front of family also he said that he considered them married but just for her happiness he wants a proper social marriage. So I agree marriage is a pure ritual and the show just made a mockery of that but for me they were married. So let's not get into that. They justified and nullified as per convenience and it's shameful to do that.
Regarding Prerna valuing life then and now it was about house I agree with you here if I compare life with just a house. But if she values his life then she should give him a closure and move on in a dignified way. She came to request Anurag for a person who spoiled so many lives and doesn't care a damn about the consequences. What if it's about cookie? Is she the only special child in this world or is Bajaj the only father to such a child. No... Obviously there has to be a reason why her own mother left her. Maybe Bajaj is behind all this but whatever it is... nothing gives you a licence to deal in human life and someone's independence. He destroyed Anurag's life on the pretext of saving him and curtailed her freedom of decision making. She was clarified that he would spare Anurag only if she is with cookie otherwise it's over for him. This isn t respect or independence. I won't say Anurag was right in making the deal but then who is right here? NO one 😆
If Prerna is at fault... in hurting Anurag, Anurag is also at fault in hurting her ... prerna is doing it to keep him away for his own good.... while anurag is doing out of anger , ego as he is in denial mode
Isn't his denial mode expected? How can someone accept that a girl who loved him more than herself suddenly one day married someone else and the reason given is absolutely unacceptable as he knows Prerna isn t like this. But he tried repeatedly to ask her... He promised her to get her out of this mess but she kept with the same explanation. So for me his denial mode is an expected reaction. For his good or bad... I seriously don't find this good for him as he is turning into another Bajaj 😢
Usually when we put a flawless impeccable character on a higher pedestal, we fail to see the flaws which crept into the character which made him more human and flawed .. it's tough to accept Anurag doing something wrong because he was morally and ethically always right and up there ..and we try to reason for his changed behaviors and when a character is flawed and grey ... even if he did something good, we cannot accept or believe that he did good and speculate some malicious reason behind the good thing done ,, characters change ,.if bad person can become good , good can also become bad depending on people's influences and situations in life, change is the order of life ..
You're right but the difference is the intent behind the acts. Bajaj showing his good side is bcoz he intends to cage Prerna for cookie or else she might refuse to take care of her. He is a selfish coward who didn't have the courage to tell her about his daughter before marriage and now she is forced to handle the responsibility.
On the other hand Anurag is doing all this as he is trying hard to find the reason behind whatever happened to him. He never planned to destroy Bajaj before he married Prerna. Whenever BajRag met it was like Bajaj wants to destroy Basus and Anurag said he is there to protect his business. So it was always Bajaj who started all this. Whatever was his personal dushmani nothing gives him the licence to do what he did. Also if he was so desperate for a mother to cookie he should have told her in advance. No reason can be enough to justify his deeds and whatever so called respect he is offering holds no meaning when you know you have left no option for her now. She is put in a golden cage and expected to follow the orders. So he will be whitewashed for sure but for me he'll always be a blackmailer and a villain.
I am not going to the swiss track stalking lol that is epic beizzati of swiss
Agreed 😂😂😂