Re: Babita to leave

I have just read that Babita will leave HS Hawali for the sake of Mini's happiness. So that means that she does not know about promise from Mini to HS to stay away from them. Hence is going back to like it was in the beginning.

I think that this separation will be good for the Mother and Daughter Duo has a lot is done for them leaving here. Here I want them to encounter outside world with all the pro and cons of 2 women leaving on there on. They had a taste of that from Khatri offer. So lets see.

Maybe it will pave the way back to HS but this time when they Marry, lets see. Where this takes them.

You know, initially I was hoping for this to happen but after the recent segments and yesterday's episode I think it might be beneficial for them to stay in the same house but experience his aloofness, at least for an extended period. It will be more painful for them than just leaving the house but with Minnie turning 18 maybe she will do so herself.

Also, if Babita gives in to Minnie's wishes this time she will fail as a parent and I don't think she wants to be so easy on Minnie this time, based on what she was saying to Naeem bi.

But if they don't leave, then Babita won't get a chance to come running back to him to tell him she can't live without him.

Really? I thought they are going to h.s haveli only but with some rules and regulations and no more personal attachment . Even all the segments post hospital shooting happened in H.S haveli only.

they’re showing her to be an idiot if she does that. Leaving aside the whole love thing, in a place where it is really unsafe for two women to be on their own it is the practical thing to do to live with not just a policeman but one who has high morals, respects women and fights for others to respect them. If she didn’t return his feelings she should just be straight with him and continue living in his house as a tenant, with boundaries. It would be unfair on him but knowing the kind of person he is, I’m sure he would rather have them living under his roof where he can be assured of their safety. And Hs is literally the type of selfless person who can sacrifice his feelings for these two. I hope what you read doesn’t come through, I think it would be more hurtful to him if they leave than if she tells him she has no romantic feelings for him. And I actually think it’s because over and above his love for babita it seems he loves mini more

Originally posted by: deefy89

they’re showing her to be an idiot if she does that. Leaving aside the whole love thing, in a place where it is really unsafe for two women to be on their own it is the practical thing to do to live with not just a policeman but one who has high morals, respects women and fights for others to respect them. If she didn’t return his feelings she should just be straight with him and continue living in his house as a tenant, with boundaries. It would be unfair on him but knowing the kind of person he is, I’m sure he would rather have them living under his roof where he can be assured of their safety. And Hs is literally the type of selfless person who can sacrifice his feelings for these two. I hope what you read doesn’t come through, I think it would be more hurtful to him if they leave than if she tells him she has no romantic feelings for him. And I actually think it’s because over and above his love for babita it seems he loves mini more.

Completely agree with everything you said, especially the last bit. After being given the right to discipline Minnie as a father, seeing her in pain, and also saying he was her father out loud, that part of his life and those feelings have been signed and stamped forever in his heart. He would go nuts with worry if they were to live alone and especially knowing Minnie's delicate mental and physical condition right now. Most importantly, he knows that she can't live without him either. He is her father first and then Babita's lover, and to be honest that's why I love him even more. ❤️

I've been thinking, there's another thing that binds Minnie and HS together: the fact that they both had irresponsible fathers who did not contribute to their upbringing in a proper way and left a bad impact on their impressionable minds when they were growing up. When he was talking about his father being abusive you could tell that he grew up with an emptiness and the lack of a role model. His grandfather was there but that's not the same thing. I think he connects to Minnie because of that and subconsciously has always wanted to provide her that security and all-encompassing fatherly love that he himself had missed out on, just like she had. At this stage in her life if she leaves the house I am sure she is going to mentally suffer due to losing her "father" after finally finding one, even if she might not realize it just yet.

In terms of practical considerations, if they leave the house, what would happen to HS? Will they have a story to tell about his daily life without those two? Don't want him to become Devdas who will come back to an empty house every night and drink.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Completely agree with everything you said, especially the last bit. After being given the right to discipline Minnie as a father, seeing her in pain, and also saying he was her father out loud, that part of his life and those feelings have been signed and stamped forever in his heart. He would go nuts with worry if they were to live alone and especially knowing Minnie's delicate mental and physical condition right now. Most importantly, he knows that she can't live without him either. He is her father first and then Babita's lover, and to be honest that's why I love him even more. ❤️

I've been thinking, there's another thing that binds Minnie and HS together: the fact that they both had irresponsible fathers who did not contribute to their upbringing in a proper way and left a bad impact on their impressionable minds when they were growing up. When he was talking about his father being abusive you could tell that he grew up with an emptiness and the lack of a role model. His grandfather was there but that's not the same thing. I think he connects to Minnie because of that and subconsciously has always wanted to provide her that security and all-encompassing fatherly love that he himself had missed out on, just like she had. At this stage in her life if she leaves the house I am sure she is going to mentally suffer due to losing her "father" after finally finding one, even if she might not realize it just yet.

In terms of practical considerations, if they leave the house, what would happen to HS? Will they have a story to tell about his daily life without those two? Don't want him to become Devdas who will come back to an empty house every night and drink.

brilliant way to look at it, i never thought of it this way before and your are absolutely right on this. he IS for her what he needed when he were growing up (till imarti became that role model) and i think he wouldnt be able to bear knowing she needs someone like that and hes not around to provide it. i also hope they dont turn him into a hopeless drunk. babita needs to seriously look at the way she parents and i think she would do well to separate her business and career from her daughter. also, she comes across as not taking mini's mental health issues seriously and does not even approach how what effect the whole ashok thing had/has on mini- its always about her and how it broke her. shes the adult tho and it would have affected mini 100 times more due to her impressionable mind, and the fantasies created by babita that was rudely shattered. fair enough mini has helped babita get confident, now i think its time for babita to pull up her socks and be the parent her daughter needs. mini might not lack confidence on the outside, but weve seen how good she is at pretending so that babita doesnt get hurt. if babita doesnt sort mini out, this will affect her for the rest of her life

Originally posted by: deefy89

brilliant way to look at it, i never thought of it this way before and your are absolutely right on this. he IS for her what he needed when he were growing up (till imarti became that role model) and i think he wouldnt be able to bear knowing she needs someone like that and hes not around to provide it. i also hope they dont turn him into a hopeless drunk. babita needs to seriously look at the way she parents and i think she would do well to separate her business and career from her daughter. also, she comes across as not taking mini's mental health issues seriously and does not even approach how what effect the whole ashok thing had/has on mini- its always about her and how it broke her. shes the adult tho and it would have affected mini 100 times more due to her impressionable mind, and the fantasies created by babita that was rudely shattered. fair enough mini has helped babita get confident, now i think its time for babita to pull up her socks and be the parent her daughter needs. mini might not lack confidence on the outside, but weve seen how good she is at pretending so that babita doesnt get hurt. if babita doesnt sort mini out, this will affect her for the rest of her life

Yes, after the last few weeks, I am convinced that this is one of the main reasons HS is so protective of her. I hope they explore this angle a bit or at least his thought process on what she means to him and how he fears losing his Veer Balika far more than not winning Babita over.

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I think this is the direction the story's going. Minnie is not used to being disciplined by anyone, least of all her mother, so she will rebel even more and for sure take it out on HS or her mother or both. I am sure HS will either stay out of it or will support Babita's tougher stance with Minnie (at least silently). I won't be surprised if she wants to move to Naeem bi's house for good. Though that brings up other questions of HS and Babita being alone at home at night (which Minnie never thought of when she left yesterday). Let's see.