Minnie fights with H.S :(:(:( [SBS]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bp7pvgqyrHI

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This girl has huge huge attitude issues. Look how she is saying nobody never asked me to change myself. I totally understand that its very difficult for her to digest the news that H.S loves her mom but her anger issue and I KNOW EVERYTHING attitude need to change. i now want her to leave H.S house and let her face the real day to day difficulties . She is out and out rude girl who never tought in her life where to stop and where to draw the line.

She sure is rude and has She never been corrected all her Life either by Babita or the Khuranas, She thinks it normal to behave this way.

As Mini likes to boss other people around and no one has dared to tell her otherwise, hence her big ego clash with HS.

HS is right to say that we should have discipline etc in life to live but Mini is too thick skinned to take the advice. She talks of no one telling her anything but she is hiding things herself and not sharing so that it is easier for herself.

Thank God that Babita did not intervene between the two, as She will have to choose one over the other and hurting the rejected one.

I must say that HS does have patience when dealing and correcting Mini.

Lets see where Mini wants to move to now.

After meeting so many selfish people in her life, especially her father, and then realizing how selfless HS is, how can she not see him for the great man he has always been?

When she told her father she would have wanted both his love and disciplining, she meant it. HS is doing both, out of the goodness of his heart. He knows how to be gentle and sensitive but also strict as a father/parent should be. Babita is too soft and I think this time round she will also start to realize that HS is right about discipline. She won't want Minnie to end up like Ashok due to poor parenting. This will annoy Minnie even more because she will feel that her mother is being distanced from her.

I think she's also just rebelling as a teen because she's had enough. Her depression was conveniently forgotten and never handled properly. Hope they address these things now. Babita and the Khuranas pampered her but HS was the one to teach her about discipline and character. She has always respected his authority and it isn't the first time he's scolded her for rude behavior.

She will realize what he is one day and come running back to him.

Maybe she will go live with her grandparents across the street. She's going to be an adult soon, and I won't be surprised if she leaves home.

A mother is always taken for granted by a child. However strict a mother tries to become, her love for her child unknowingly surpasses the discipline. During such situations father is the one who can discipline a child. And lack of father during that crucial age can lead to escalating anger issues plus circumstances play an important part. Believe me i am saying this with self experience. HS is doing the right thing. But here things are different because mini still does not see HS as father figure. She always saw him as a well wisher. The best way to handle this situation is to see a psychiatrist and counsellor as early as possible.

What Minnie needs at the moment is proper counselling from an expert.Usually kids are the ones affected the most when their parents get divorced even if the divorce happens under normal circumstances.In Minnie's case,her parents ended up splitting in the ugliest circumstances.Her case needs to be dealt with sensitively.

But I did expect her to understand that HS,out of all the people,is someone who would never wish ill for her and her mom even in his dreams.This man is no stranger to her.He had stood by their side in their darkest hour without expecting anything in return.If he does have romantic feelings for her mother then shouldn't she speak to her own mother about it first and know what Babita feels? Minnie isn't as smart as she thinks of herself and neither is she mature enough.

Originally posted by: LawlessLawyer

What Minnie needs at the moment is proper counselling from an expert.Usually kids are the ones affected the most when their parents get divorced even if the divorce happens under normal circumstances.In Minnie's case,her parents ended up splitting in the ugliest circumstances.Her case needs to be dealt with sensitively.

But I did expect her to understand that HS,out of all the people,is someone who would never wish ill for her and her mom even in his dreams.This man is no stranger to her.He had stood by their side in their darkest hour without expecting anything in return.If he does have romantic feelings for her mother then shouldn't she speak to her own mother about it first and know what Babita feels? Minnie isn't as smart as she thinks of herself and neither is she mature enough.

@LawlessLawyer, good to see you here!

@bold he is too good for her. Minnie saw how he was willing to give up his home, career, and his mental peace for both of them without thinking about himself. He saw her dreams, their future, her insecurities and frustrations, understood her without words and did what was required at each step.

I also think part of it is that even if she knows she never got a father's love, maybe she doesn't know what that feeling or relation is actually like. Perhaps she doesn't realize that subconsciously she has formed that bond with HS or maybe she just never saw him in that light and needs to see him that way.

Also, just like she accepts Meeta as her father's new wife, she will have to learn to accept HS as her mother's new husband, whether or not she considers him a father (figure).

They need to show babita drawing a line between being her daughters friend and being her parent. It’s ok being her friend but she needs to learn when parenting is needed also (and I don’t mean the parenting she does now which is slaps her, or behaves irrationally). Babita said that she’s been both father and mother to mini which is true to an extent, so she should also take responsibility for the negatives she’s allowed to grow in minis character. You don’t really blame mini, she had an absent father and so was pampered and then forced to grow up too soon. From the start of the affair drama she’s basically been the parent and babita the weak child, and mini has felt the weight of responsibility of her mother which at 17 is wrong. Babita needs to wake up and start acting as “strong” as she keeps saying she is. She’s the grown up and needs to start acting like it and one of the things to sort out is minis anger issues and as much as she’s sensible she’s also an emotional wreck. She also needs to keep her away from the business (not making deals) and have her focus on her own life of studying and building her own future. Babita can’t keep holding mini back by being so dependant on her, it should be the other way around. Babita has the money to buy tickets for ashok and bail him out but not to send mini to continue her counselling which was helping her?

If this continues mini is going to feel like part of her childhood has been taken from her. She should be doing things other 17 yo are doing, not counselling her fragile mother (who’s not so fragile when it comes to telling Hs off) or making business deals.

It’s hard seeing mini be angry at HS. I guess it will be too much for her to consider everything he’s done and how selfless he is, so total opposite of most men. But the mother daughter never appreciate him and are too quick to abuse him because he will quietly take it. Hopefully it’s jist the shock of it and she warms up to the idea 😃

If Minnie does not fight with Hanuman Singh, Preet and Babita who will she fight with🙂??. You fight with people whom you love as you dont put any filter while dealing with loved ones.

In fact your loved ones see the real you. All others see an edited version. So all the time it happens that you fight with your parents or wife/ husband. You would never dream of saying such things with outsiders. Purely My POV. Minnie needs to change and who better than Hanuman Singh to discipline her. A father needs to act tough at times, eventhough he actually gets hurt in doing so. But sometimes it is needed.

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

If Minnie does not fight with Hanuman Singh, Preet and Babita who will she fight with🙂??. You fight with people whom you love as you dont put any filter while dealing with loved ones.

In fact your loved ones see the real you. All others see an edited version. So all the time it happens that you fight with your parents or wife/ husband. You would never dream of saying such things with outsiders. Purely My POV. Minnie needs to change and who better than Hanuman Singh to discipline her. A father needs to act tough at times, eventhough he actually gets hurts in doing so. But sometimes it is needed.

@bold

Exactly, and HS, no matter how much he adores her, also cares about her future. I love what he says about outsiders not tolerating her rudeness because that's what happens in real life. No matter how pampered you are, no one likes a brat. I love that HS know how to balance affection and discipline and will be able to do what Ashok or Babita never did for their child. He will also stand firm and not let Babita molly coddle Minnie or undermine his disciplining. It's ironic that they ended up living with a policeman because he believes in discipline, something both mother and daughter have been lacking.