Originally posted by: mili9
Tania, Tania, you always spoke the truth, however bitter it was, my friend😃Missing you these days. I hope you are doing well and everything is coming along beautifully🤗.
Exactly, my sentiments when I read this. Nobody does " ehsaans" by announcing them. Again, people, I don't care for nor can I tolerate sissy's character, so please take whatever I say with a pinch of salt. Hiding behind something never cuts it for me😡. They can come out in the open and live through, whatever they are is fine, but manipulation is where people get me raging🤢😡. I perceive whatever this woman is doing as manipulative, showing a certain behavior, with the expectation that other people react in a pre-determined way. Especially manipulating your own family and loved ones is the worst kind in my book👎🏼🤢which I don't take kindly.
I haven't watched yesterday's episode, nor would I watch it as per advise of my good friends here🤗Thank you guys for watching out for my sanity. Please watch out for me this whole week, as I have a very crucial week going on now🤓 Here are my current gripes with the promo as well as what I read about yesterday. I may be off since I haven't watched.
After seeing the picture, sissy has 3 options:
1. If she believed that Mishti, Ruhaan are indeed a couple, then she has no business unnecessarily including herself in a non-existent" triangle"😡. She is a data point in vaccum, she is trying to create an angle for herself in a straightline- Mishti, Ruhaan. She should clear the mess she created with herself, her delusional GM and friend and then chuck out, lay low, stay in the background and be happy for your sister, if you really say that she is your number #1 priority. That is the least and the best possible action she can take for both Mishti, Ruhaan.
2. She can always travel if she needs time for herself. But, she doesn't need to announce to Mishti, why she is doing it and what for and SHOW her what she is sacrificing by going away. She might be sacrificing her biggest imaginary castles, but why does her sister whom she " loves" so much need to know that? Why does she need that burden? Why does she need to guilt trip the sister? Isn't that a manipulative behavior?
3. When Ruhaan doesn't even consider her as anything other than a friend, what business does she have preaching him to be with Mishti? You chuck out AND they are already togetherWhy does Ruhaan need to know what yuckiness is cooking up in her head? If her intentions are that she is going to " sacrifice " her feelings or whatever nonsense for Mishti, then, why the hell does Ruhaan need to know anything, other than for the purpose of gaining brownie points?
4. Yes, Tania, I felt the same as you about announcing " going out of town". People who really intend to take definitive action, don't strategically leak the information with the hope that they are stopped from actually following through with it. These are called gestures and NOT intent. That is what she is doing here. My God, my brain automatically FBed to the nautanki of season 1, of leaving, sacrificing, crying, bechaaripan, swearing that the intent is NOT to hurt. 🤢👎🏼😡Yeah, right. She knows that she will be stopped by Mishti, and that is why she let this piece of crucial info strategically👎🏼
5. If she is not sure even after that picture and feels that Mishti's love to Ruhaan is one sided ( I need a huge eye roll emoji ), even, then, if she really is trying to "sacrifice" her castles, she simply needs to withdraw silently AND clean up the BLOODY MESS she created for Ruhaan😡 She doesn't need to prod anybody into doing anything other than that. By unscrupulously spreading her stupid rumors about herself 🤬and Ruhaan, she is causing the most damage to Ruhaan. Why does Ruhaan deserve to be in this bloody mess based on her imagination? What business does she have to drag an unsuspecting guy through dirt? Do we agree if this was done by a guy? If a guy goes around spreading rumors that so and so and myself are a thing, and their family makes arrangements for engagements and weddings, we would hit the roof and scream ourselves hoarse 😡🤬Why then, does the show ask us to look at this behavior as her innocent crush, her helplessness, her vulnerability? It is vile, manipulative and downright damaging😡Just Ewwww.........
6. So seems like not only the castles and sky scrapers in her head are foundation-less illusions, but the evidence she is presenting to make them look real is fake🤬. Did she say that the card was " NEVER" presented to her by any chance? When the card was never given to her either in person or in writing, what is the basis of " what about that card"? Did both friends, sissy and Arnav, seriously sent their brains for lunch? 😡
7. Now is going to be Mishti's turn. I somehow feel that the promo scene will happen in real, Mishti spouting out that nonsense😡🤢Mein toh teer, talwar, guns se ready to pounce on her. She has no business to play " you first, NO you first" with sissy. All she can do, is make up a cockamamie story to Ruhaan and stay away, BUT that is it. She has no business adding fuel to sissy's nonsense still👎🏼She will get a good beating from me when she does it.
OK done😃Got everything off my chest. I will be sporadically here this week. This week might also make or break this show for me. If Mishti does her nonsense, then there is nothing in this show for me. I can't watch a hapless Ruhaan played by this paagal family for NOTHING. I stuck up with the last season for the sole purpose of chotu Mishti and Ishaan to be together, now, I just want him to break off from this nonsense. He should get a job with the National Geographic and be a wildlife photographer and go to Africa😃