Re: Babita/Ashok - Page 5

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raatri

Hi sheelu....i guess u r not only one......lot of women are like babita....

since u r working and independent, consider it as ur strength. Start giving less importance to log kya kahenge, agar ye log aapki takleef kam nahi kar sakte ya khatam nahi kar sakte toh importance mat do... start believing in what is good for you....and whether u could handle it alone. if yes...then everything will be ok....even if no one supports u and u know 'it' is the best u can do it for urself, go ahead.....sooner or later they will support and come back to you. Most important- even if you get married, DONT LEAVE YOUR JOB AT ANY COST, AND START SAVING FOR YOURSELF THODA-THODA'. bad times mei yahi aapka saath denge.

I live alone, but everyone is interested in knowing about my marital status (considering my health may be thy think i am too old and have married by now😊). one lady in my neigbourhood always asked about my marital status, for a year i said unmarried, next year....i said next year hogi, .....third year i said engagement ho gai,....shaadi 2 yrs baad hogi kyuki ladka out of country hain.......(in reality, aisa kuch nahi hain, unko story suna diya).. So she is now convinced ki main normal girl hoon.

Thanks for ur kind words.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Since I am a married man who started watching this show for my wife and since I am married for 10 years with a kid of 7 years. I will give this Male perspective.

Most men are neither good or bad. Some are terrible and some extremely good. Ultimately it all depends on who your life partner is. It also depends on how well you adjust with your partner. Any relationship especially marriage is give and take. If your partner is normal, don't break the relationship over normal ego issues. If your partner is terrible walk away at the earliest.

A normal marriage is like wine. It becomes better as time passes. A terrible marriage is like a cyclone. It is better to escape in initial stage itself before much damage.

Unlike in movies characteristics of a person does not change overnight. Any change is long drawn. So walking away would be better than living with the hope that person will change.

Everybody deserves a happy life. Life is short so why fight and spoil it🙂.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: maharathikarna

Since I am a married man who started watching this show for my wife and since I am married for 10 years with a kid of 7 years. I will give this Male perspective.

Most men are neither good or bad. Some are terrible and some extremely good. Ultimately it all depends on who your life partner is. It also depends on how well you adjust with your partner. Any relationship especially marriage is give and take. If your partner is normal, don't break the relationship over normal ego issues. If your partner is terrible walk away at the earliest.

A normal marriage is like wine. It becomes better as time passes. A terrible marriage is like a cyclone. It is better to escape in initial stage itself before much damage.

Unlike in movies characteristics of a person does not change overnight. Any change is long drawn. So walking away would be better than living with the hope that person will change.

Everybody deserves a happy life. Life is short so why fight and spoil it🙂.

wow! Good to see male perspective here, and thanks for revealing that you are a male. I completely support what you said about relationship. Well said👍🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree with savings part. I had this secret bank account no one knew about. I used to park about 20% savings for a rainy day. Believe me just the fact that i had a cushion gave me the courage to walk out.

Below are the mantra my bff gang has followed upto now

No matter how great a relationship is every one needs some space and money of their own

If u are in a relationship please do not ignore u r siblings and friend for u r partner. Every one has their own imp.

Respect and trust are basic requirements and a must have

Self love and self time are imp

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am really really glad I am part of this forum ..My salute to everyone here who came through several hardships and manage to overcome the troubles 🙏🙏🙏🙏👏 Thanks for sharing your inspiring stories👍🏼 My best wishes to all of you🤗 I Have to learn a lot from u people 😊

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