Hi sheelu....i guess u r not only one......lot of women are like babita....
since u r working and independent, consider it as ur strength. Start giving less importance to log kya kahenge, agar ye log aapki takleef kam nahi kar sakte ya khatam nahi kar sakte toh importance mat do... start believing in what is good for you....and whether u could handle it alone. if yes...then everything will be ok....even if no one supports u and u know 'it' is the best u can do it for urself, go ahead.....sooner or later they will support and come back to you. Most important- even if you get married, DONT LEAVE YOUR JOB AT ANY COST, AND START SAVING FOR YOURSELF THODA-THODA'. bad times mei yahi aapka saath denge.
I live alone, but everyone is interested in knowing about my marital status (considering my health may be thy think i am too old and have married by now😊). one lady in my neigbourhood always asked about my marital status, for a year i said unmarried, next year....i said next year hogi, .....third year i said engagement ho gai,....shaadi 2 yrs baad hogi kyuki ladka out of country hain.......(in reality, aisa kuch nahi hain, unko story suna diya).. So she is now convinced ki main normal girl hoon.
Thanks for ur kind words.