How many of you liked Minnie’s reply to Mita Today? - Page 3

I really did not think Minnie was rude today. Her reply was fitting. What does Mita expect from Minnie?

It's is not that easy to just waltz into someone's life - after destroying it completely............

unpopular opinion but i think mini's hatred towards meeta is uncalled for. ashok is the one who is to blame, not meeta. ashok is the one who took the commitment with babita, and hes also the one who pretended to be single to meeta and then years later spoke the truth. lets not forget that meeta is from london where divorce happens all the time (and ppl get along with each other post divorce especially if there are kids involved). knowing ashok, he would not have told meeta the truth even when confessing on his marriage and probably lied saying the relationship has been over for years (hes a liar, dishonest and selfish). it is ashoks responsibility to know the effect divorce would have on his family (coming from india unlike meeta). i think that meeta herself has been thrown into a world very different to the one that she knows, one thats patriarchal, where the men are never at fault. shes been made to be the scapegoat as though she knowingly seduced a married man for her own selfish reasons. even ashoks family blame her not him. i dont think shes in the wrong for trying to be friends with mini, with her now carrying her half brother/sister. i really disliked how happy babita got when mini argued with meeta, yet when it came to ashok not so long ago babita said ''hes still your father''. meeta isnt a bad person unlike ashok but constantly get hate from everyone as tho what happened was 100% her fault, i also think its wrong for babita to pass her bitterness onto mini because given half the chance i actually think mini and meeta would be friends cos they are strong minded

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Italics@ Yes whenever Minnie is rude to Meeta, Babita likes it and when she saw Minnie being concerned to her she is hurt with that. I don't blame her as I can understand where the hatred is coming from. It's an obvious reaction from any woman for her Sautan.

But what's bothering here is it looks unfair as Meeta isn't evil and sometimes she genuinely wants to help, even if it's like a Prayashchit from her side to get out of the guilt..,. She does genuinely wants to help them like the exports factory episodes. Its true that Meeta is stupid to expect Babita to accept her help, and Minnie to accept her as a friend, but this repetitive insulting is leaving a bad taste in the mouth...

Bold@ Honestly speaking, only pain is waiting for HS, if he continues to pursue Babita seriously, even after Naembi's wise words it advice. Minnie and Babita both of them aren't ready to accept HS as a family. He can be like a family but not exactly as a hubby to Babes and a father to Minnie. He's just raising his hopes which eventually is gonna crush his heart.

very well said!! Meeta is not a bad woman but the problame is that this is not the right time,situation or environment to over and over trying to be friend with minnie and babita. Especially when you can see they are super pissed off( which is very right from their side) and not ready to forgive you. Live and let live. Time will tell the fate of this realtionships.I understand she is probably trying to earn some extra brownie point from her inlaws to be in their good books to bring minnie close to her and khuranas but that`s making whole thing worst. That`s the reason I said CVS need to give us 2 different paralla stories. I pesonaly want to see patiala babes journey ( personal and professional) ,their struggle ,growth, sucess ,failure everything along with H.S involvment. Even I would be super happy if they show us H.S proffesioanl acheivements as well ,like promoted to DCP or earning medals for his extraordinary works and how minnie and babita will recat to it ,how they will motivate him if he will face any sort of difficulties in his proffesional life etc etc.

About HANITA future for sure it will be a roller coaster journey. Only thing I dont want to see that Minnie missundestans H.S and due to her anger issues( which is very evident in her behavior and deffinately an big issue which need to cure )disrespect or hurt H.S !! He will be shattered. His love for Minnie is even above Babita !!! He wont be able to take any rejection or hard words fro his beerbalika!!

Let`s wait and watch .

H.S is the jaan of the show.Sorrry but I personaly feel so empty and not so interested without H.S!!

Originally posted by: Needblessings

H.S is the jaan of the show.Sorrry but I personaly feel so empty and not so interested without H.S!!

Same here.... So no need for sorry in expressing your opinion, since personally I feel the same. He's the jaan and I don't feel like watching when he's not there ... So damn addicted to our Thanedar Hanuman Singh

I agree that Ashok is to blame the most - but Meeta - after finding out that Ashok is married - should have walked away. So, according to me, she is to be blamed equally -

After watching today's episode, I think Mita will leave Ashok once the baby is born. He will then fight hard to get Minnie back, especially since she's not 18 yet.

Pata chaley Babes asks HS to marry her to get Minnie back! (Just kidding, this is not that kind of show, thank God!)

Ashok is more to blame true.. But once she comes to know he is married she still continues that relationship.

Like someone pointed out maybe at some point they can have a civil relationship but right now everything is raw and hurting. Until her mother finds happiness and peace i doubt mini wounds will heal and she will have a civil relationship with meeta.

She hates her father so due to meetas martial and love relationship with ashok she hates her. It is collateral actually

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Ashok is more to blame true.. But once she comes to know he is married she still continues that relationship.

Like someone pointed out maybe at some point they can have a civil relationship but right now everything is raw and hurting. Until her mother finds happiness and peace i doubt mini wounds will heal and she will have a civil relationship with meeta.

She hates her father so due to meetas martial and love relationship with ashok she hates her. It is collateral actually

@bold, exactly. She also feels that Ashok abandoned not only her mother but her too because of Meeta. That is not easy to get over, especially since Minnie is not a little baby who can't understand these things. She has seen her mother suffer and has felt every sting and attack on her self-esteem.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, exactly. She also feels that Ashok abandoned not only her mother but her too because of Meeta. That is not easy to get over, especially since Minnie is not a little baby who can't understand these things. She has seen her mother suffer and has felt ever sting and attack on her self-esteem.

i think shes wrong to feel that... ashok abandoned both her and her mother long before he met meeta. its easy to blame the stranger but the fact is that ashok has never been a good husband nor good father. lets not forget he left for london months after marrying and didnt insist babita go with him, nor thought to return or force her to move when mini was born. babitas suffering started the moment he left her and from there only got worse.

What you get hurt, sometimes we forget we are cold and hurting others. No logic or reason works when you are really hurt. You tend to hurt the other person back as much as you can. But it really doesn't not help in any way to remove our feelings of hurt. In fact we will feel guilty later.

I really don't want minnie or babita to do or say any hurtful things. It will create bad karma. It will boomerang. Mita will have to bear results of her karma any way. Avoiding would be best response.