कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 30 May 2019 - Page 13

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Of course he has the responsibility and that's why he has to set the expectations right and we should also know what to expect from him.. How many of the mothers when marrying of their daughters lists down some do's and dont's in their in-laws house or even set some expectations without actually wording it out explicitly by seeing the societal norms..But have we seen any expectations set from the boy on his do's and dont's instead it's all about how he should be treated in the bride's house..

And I would see this more to do with the difference in everyday handling and occasional handling.. Look how Anupam is treated in his in-laws house.. Does Nivi even bother about it?!😆

Anyway That's the patriarchal practices that we follow and it's slowly very very slowly changing.. And the nuclear families are devoid of these issues.. Both visit their respective in-laws house occasionally and so they maintain their bond well without butchering.. But yeah it has its own advantage and disadvantage..😉

The show will always revolve around him and Pre will be constantly just a prop to show how good Anurag is.

Thats the formula the makers have decided on and that's working for them.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

Welcome to Indian society..that is how it is here. Maybe after 200 years things will change

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

actually u r not enjoying show just dont analyse it too much .

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Yeah, I know that, but given a show, why should they such regressive manifestations of societal stereotypes, why Anurag perfect from every other angle becomes a stereotype in that aspect.

I think you are unable to see his flaws and only seeing his perfection.. 😆 There are so many flaws in him only that they're covering them up with his heroism.. And his fans are going gaaga over that.. When we can focus on Pre's flaws and pinpoint everything we are unable to point out Anu's flaws because we are blinded by his goodness too. 😉

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

u can't shut ur brains like that, I'm not a blind fan.

I totally agree with you Mily... whats the point of watching something if you cant analyse or relate to it!

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I think you are unable to see his flaws and only seeing his perfection.. 😆 There are so many flaws in him only that they're covering them up with his heroism.. And his fans are going gaaga over that.. When we can focus on Pre's flaws and pinpoint everything we are unable to point out Anu's flaws because we are blinded by his goodness too. 😉

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

I totally agree with you Mily... whats the point of watching something if you cant analyse or relate to it!

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I think you are unable to see his flaws and only seeing his perfection.. 😆 There are so many flaws in him only that they're covering them up with his heroism.. And his fans are going gaaga over that.. When we can focus on Pre's flaws and pinpoint everything we are unable to point out Anu's flaws because we are blinded by his goodness too. 😉

I keep reading this very often here on how most of us are biased towards Anurag and sees flaws only with Pre and linking our patriarchal mindset to all this. I think the only reason for us (excluding Parth's fan girls) not understanding or sympathizing with Prerna is because of the way her character has been written or should I say not written . With Anurag, even when he was babying Komo we knew what was happening inside his head but with Prerna, we rarely get to know what she is thinking. Her character is so poorly written

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I keep reading this very often here on how most of us are biased towards Anurag and sees flaws only with Pre and linking our patriarchal mindset to all this. I think the only reason for us (excluding Parth's fan girls) not understanding or sympathizing with Prerna is because of the way her character has been written or should I say not written . With Anurag, even when he was babying Komo we knew what was happening inside his head but with Prerna, we rarely get to know what she is thinking. Her character is so poorly written

To all the analysts here, this show isn't a penny worth analyzing coz of their weird story telling, bad editing, poor characterization and most importantly butcher of laws and medical science👎🏼

Just enjoy the anupre/parica chemistry😛