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Posted: 6 years ago
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i read shaheer interview right now its about courtship

they will try to show it in brief how the talk will go to marriage and how there would be hurdles how elders opinion will be

i dont think writer are giving much importance to meenu planning as it fails and she not do some extreme thing that is affecting storyline she kidnapped ketki to show mishti how kunal gives importance to family and this is true even now she want to bring naman truth nothing wrong with it

writer are going to deal with many topic

1)how to accept or deal with hearbreak like with kuhu and abir now

2)courtship kushti one how to know if he is right match as kunal is the best guy ideal choice he is everything but if he is ideal match for mishti. mishti being practical girl her sense of life partner is he should be nice person not like his father atleast rest she can marry anyone if family will say she is not much focussing on compatibility because she doesnt believe in prince sharming

3)how friends r better life partner and we can always prefer friend as life partner because life is not all about romance intensity and spark

4)kuku relationship they are going to show the side effect of intense love story which today all itv fan is suffereing the crap which is served by gul and ekta followed by other production house kuku relationship is much like normal itv couples they are going to show the differences between them after marriage

i feel indian really need to understand this topic because still arrange marriage is common in india so these shows can help girls to choose better life partner and they actually are writing well they are showing kunal taking abir help in real life even boy can take someone help be it friend cousin or brother

i actually got this lesson as the jiju my sister husband who i used to think is perfect and their married life to be perfect now i visited them and got to know how they not spend time together always taunt each other their relationship is all about child both are living in ahmedabad for 6 to 7 years and my sister has not even gone to visit single place its just she is in home cook care for children and listen her husband taunts despite of tis u will not say that they are not happy as my sister think marriage is like this only and my jiju even he is actually very decent

when my mother was talking about my marriage when i said her that i would like to meet the guy my mother was like no its not necessary to meet the guy anyway i know they will let me meet if i demand and they will never force me but i was surprised that my mother was thinking to marry me without letting me meet the guy

ya only unrealistic bit is its a rich family and these type of thing not happen there even my family was ready if i would have gone for love marriage but i am introvert by nature anyway they have shown rich family so that they can show big bunglow thats it

so i feel we should let writer explore the story because i now dont think kushti will marry as its conformed amishbir and kuku are endgame

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaushiv13

i read shaheer interview right now its about courtship

they will try to show it in brief how the talk will go to marriage and how there would be hurdles how elders opinion will be

i dont think writer are giving much importance to meenu planning as it fails and she not do some extreme thing that is affecting storyline she kidnapped ketki to show mishti how kunal gives importance to family and this is true even now she want to bring naman truth nothing wrong with it

writer are going to deal with many topic

1)how to accept or deal with hearbreak like with kuhu and abir now

2)courtship kushti one how to know if he is right match as kunal is the best guy ideal choice he is everything but if he is ideal match for mishti. mishti being practical girl her sense of life partner is he should be nice person not like his father atleast rest she can marry anyone if family will say she is not much focussing on compatibility because she doesnt believe in prince sharming

3)how friends r better life partner and we can always prefer friend as life partner because life is not all about romance intensity and spark

4)kuku relationship they are going to show the side effect of intense love story which today all itv fan is suffereing the crap which is served by gul and ekta followed by other production house kuku relationship is much like normal itv couples they are going to show the differences between them after marriage

i feel indian really need to understand this topic because still arrange marriage is common in india so these shows can help girls to choose better life partner and they actually are writing well they are showing kunal taking abir help in real life even boy can take someone help be it friend cousin or brother

i actually got this lesson as the jiju my sister husband who i used to think is perfect and their married life to be perfect now i visited them and got to know how they not spend time together always taunt each other their relationship is all about child both are living in ahmedabad for 6 to 7 years and my sister has not even gone to visit single place its just she is in home cook care for children and listen her husband taunts despite of tis u will not say that they are not happy as my sister think marriage is like this only and my jiju even he is actually very decent

when my mother was talking about my marriage when i said her that i would like to meet the guy my mother was like no its not necessary to meet the guy anyway i know they will let me meet if i demand and they will never force me but i was surprised that my mother was thinking to marry me without letting me meet the guy

ya only unrealistic bit is its a rich family and these type of thing not happen there even my family was ready if i would have gone for love marriage but i am introvert by nature anyway they have shown rich family so that they can show big bunglow thats it

so i feel we should let writer explore the story because i now dont think kushti will marry as its conformed amishbir and kuku are endgame

Thanks for sharing your story. 🤗 I have an elder sister too. I truly understand.

Even i feel they wont go to mandap or engagement.

and yes arrange marriage is common and taking help is fine as long as you are unable to choose between the ideas. Like kunal should take opinion and do what he feels like.

I remember going for ring shopping with my friend for his girlfriend and he kept it trying it on me which was weird and told him so and then he begged me to take her myself and pretend ring is for me so that she can choose for herself which turned out to be even more headache🤣 Hence all my sympathies to Abir and all my anger is towards him only.

Its a great setup. I'm making my parents watch it intentionally that knowing your would be is not a crime. Its valid as the people who get married who have to live with it for the rest of the lives. Atleast they wouldn't regret they didn't know each other👍🏼

Times are changing. People no longer marry based on just looks or the money but people who still believe in them, this show is definitely for them.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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The problem is not with the concept of the show . While the courtship concept is great but the execution of it is what many has problem with .

.I am ok if they want to spend time together to know each other but after the engagement if they fall for their BIL/SIL then it’s morally wrong .i have a problem if an elder brother loves his younger brother’s wife or if a sister dreams about her sister’s husband . Disrespecting relationship and taking commitment lightly is not something for me .This is not what was promised to us in the initial promos

I am not expecting Mishti to fall for Abir or Kunal for Kuhu immediately but cannot digest if they fall for others when they are committed to each other .emotional infidelity is not acceptable for me

If they show Mishti and Kunal breaking up after engagement or marriage then where does courtship fit in . If that’s what they had planned then they should have brought another guy for Mishti not the one who will later be her BIL .

Lastly , if not all the story goes the I am assuming then this show is no different than ekta’s show where jeeja Saali have affairs and the FL ends up marrying multiple men .Seeing RS previous work I will be shocked if the story goes ekat’s way

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Posted: 6 years ago
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i get what you are saying hence why i think it wont go there. I'll wait until Mishti agrees. I'm still waiting to see this play out

I have much faith in Rajan Shahi than in Ekta Kapoor

there's a reason Nanu saw/noticed Abir panicking while Mishti was inside and i have a feeling Kuhu is going to snap soon if once more Kunal asks for help which i'm pretty sure is going to happen. The dumb parties(Kunal and Mishti) need a wake up call

Edited by meen123 - 6 years ago

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