....from the story and this " unconditional" love deal between sissys... Agreed, I am a doubting Thomas, just about any and everything that happens around me. I watched last two episodes late last night, when I was dead tired and had a lot on my mind. I didn't know what was bothering me, but I for one didn't get the warm fuzzies that the forum was referring to after yesterday's episode. May be life really is all rosy, but I am not able to see it that way, it could just be ME🤔. Let me try to explain......
Before I go any further, one word on Monday's episode. This time, I took a 180 deg turn on Ruhaan😔. Poor guy, I was very harsh on him. But after that episode, I think I understand where he is coming from. I am glad he is not backing out because he is the ultimate " saga bhai" and "saga beta". I would have rejected it outright anyway💔But, because he didn't quite understand the depth of Mishti's feelings towards him, what would really become of their relationship, he assumed there is no future to it. So instead of staying and torturing himself seeing her getting married and in turn disturbing her with his presence, as she goes about the rituals, he felt that he should disappear into oblivion and suffer in solitude. I guess, I have to give it to the writers for writing male leads such as the ever dazzling superstar like Ishaan⭐️and now Ruhaan, considerate, sensitive, responsible guys who pause to think about the women in their lives, their difficulties, their trials and tribulations and try to make their lives a tad bit easier👏This is how I am going to reconcile with Ruhaan's character.
OK, now coming to the difficult part. I was morose as I watched the histrionics of yesterday's sister's conversation. Girls, I want to present a slightly different perspective. Look at the situation on hand, a girl is crying her eyes out, a sister FINALLY realizes that there may be something more than " pre-wedding jitters" which she conveniently labelled it as and asks her to be happy, if the impending wedding is making her feel this way, she better back out and that she would support her. That is it in the nutshell. A very generic, non committal advice. Yahaan, unconditional love kahaan se aa gayi? Isn't this a sane advice any of us would give to any of our friends or acquaintances? I want to make a reference to Promila of season 1, she erupts on the divine husband as he pesters her to tell him where Mauli is before her engagement. She tells him off by saying, finally Mauli is getting the happiness she deserves and that she won't let the divinity to spoil anything for her. Do we call that " unconditional love" ? Is the current scenario much more mahaan than the scenario I am referring to? A household help with common sense is wanting with all her heart, a kind woman get her share of happiness and that if need be she will stand as a hurdle between the divine husband and Mauli's happiness. 👏Doesn't that sentiment carry a lot more weight than what was just portrayed? In fact, any of the people who knew Mishti should have been able to give this kind of equivocal advice to her, even her doodhwala if he knows that this crying, docile girl is not the real her. I simply don't understand why Radhika was trying to guilt trip Mishti, and asks her to consider Veer's family, their happiness, their family dog's reputation INSTEAD of worrying about what is eating her grand daughter alive😡Here is her grand daughter bawling away and she was using an accusatory tone towards her. What the hell !😡Do you really need to have unconditional love for a person to give this advice or can you just be a non-judgemental person giving sane and objective advice for anybody in that condition? I can see myself giving the same advice to my young secretary if she were ever in that position. I don't know why I started this. Yes, I feel that the writers are simply highlighting Pari for one and only reason, to say " Look Pari had done this ( NOT in my mind ) to Mishti and will Mishti reciprocate now in kind ". I do not appreciate this one bit😡I smell something fishy here 😔in how that episode was highlighted.
My example of unconditional love is that of dida and Radhika who had forgiven Kunal with all their heart, no questions asked, without even a proper apology and wished for his happiness. I am not faulting them, but if you think about it, he really punched these two ladies ( leave Mauli ) in the gut and left them for his own happiness. Had Mauli not taken them under her wing, imagine what their plight would have been, an elderly woman and a disabled elderly grandmother who would have had to fend for themselves😭. They didn't even remember his criminal behavior towards them and wished for his happiness alone.
As far as the triangle goes, I am dead against 🤢the triangle between Ruhaan, Mishti and sissy. That would be the worst👎🏼. My hope is that Ruhaan is the only one who comes to know of this, I don't know how, and impresses on Pari that yeh na mumkin hain😳Ewww..... any other scenario is going to be nausea provoking for me. Ruhaan, as I see him doesn't mince words👍🏼, my kinda guy, but unlike me, always keeps the big picture in mind, sensitive but direct and so he can let the sissy know directly. Sissy, just like she expressed her helplessness about her lack of love towards Arnav, can also understand that Kya karein, love nahin hain toh nahin hain and leave it at that. After all she is not an adolescent even though they are making her act as one. I can't tolerate anymore unnecessary cry-fest from her. I am sorry, I am a mean person, I don't see her crying as her becharapan/innocence/ innate goodness, I am hella irritated, honestly speaking👎🏼. If Mishti tries to pull any stunts on Ruhaan, then, my guns will be pointing on her, Oh God, that would be unbearable. But from all the statements each sister is making about their own respective conditions, I am hopeful they will spare Ruhaan from all the " you first -no you first" drama😡I will be hopping mad otherwise. Please writers, keep the show decent and relatable as it is going so far now😳.
Can't wait for Veer to be told😈in plain language. Please put me out of my misery, writers , at least today. I am done with this guy😃
Thanks for bearing with my eccentric writings😊Not sure if at least some of you understood what I am trying to sayLater........
