Sorry for the late update, today was beautiful episode the ending & precap made me emotionalđ, I felt it was turning point in the life both the Protagonist (Guddan) & Antagonist (Durga) So this is a special post with Analysis Observations, all of the readers, views are welcome to voice their negative and positive thoughts.
News BulletinMay 2nd Har aur Jeet Turning Point
- Beautiful Akshan Scene, Guddan & Lakshmi equally rocked and proved Soch of Saas-Bahu Dosti right
- Today Guddan Akshat Jindal Har ke Jeet Gayi
- Aur Durga Kishore Jindal Jeet ke Bhi Hari.
- Love Lakshmi Vardan Jindal she was good in confrontation scene with her Jethani Durga Kishore Jindal and the way she showed her Mirror of Truth.
- AJ taking Guddans hands in his, and asking her to remove her mistake wall.
Written Update
- Everyone including AJ clap for Guddanâs dance performance.
- Dadi gives her 10 points
- Bua said Round 1 winner is Durga and Round 2 winner is Guddan, Round 3 will be final round that will declare the last person standing and dancing winners. She gives both the team 5 minutes for break
Akshan Room Break
- Lakshmi brings snacks for Guddan
- Guddan and Lakshmi hi-five each other regarding her dancing well.
- AJ comes there, interrupts them saying Guddan didnt have her confidence and she didnt believe in herself.
- Akshan shares an eyelock forgetting that their Bahu is there, who lowers her gaze from the couple.
- With her throat she interrupts them, AJ is like he was caught stealing đ
Durgaâs Room Break
- Bua threatens Durga openly saying AJ has full faith and trust on her, dont make her win. If Durga makes her loose she will add Bitterness in her life, break her relationship with Kishore Jindal who will never look back in her direction.
- Bua leaves Durga is shocked
Dance Competition
- Before and during the dance Durga Jindal is very nervous and scared of losing while Guddan is dancing smiling with confidence and AJ is proud of her and smiles seeing her dance.
- Guddan slips and falls Durga is declared winner
- Bua tells Guddan to accept that I have won and I am right where your Soch is Wrong.
- Guddan tell Bua you have won, tells Durga you dont have to be in fear when since you won. Hearing her words Durga and Dadi look at each other. AJ is observing and listening to his wife.
Akshan Room Confrontation & Truth
- Dadi and Lakshmi encourage Guddan that you did your best, and your Loss doesn't matter if you hadnât sipped you could have won.
- AJ comes entering the room, confronts Guddan why did she purposely slip and fall.
- He tells look at my eyes Guddan and speak the truth..
- Guddan tells AJ, Laxmi Bahu and Dadi the truth, how she overheard Bua threatening Durga about breaking Durgaâs & Kishoreâs relationship, then Durga was scared of losing her husband.
- That's, why she lost, how can I let a Friend drown, a Friend doesn't, let another Friend drown. In a way my Soch wonđ
- Dadi, Lakshmi, AJ feel proud of her, and Guddan has tears of happiness in her eyes. AJ leaves without saying anything to his wife.
- Dadi tells Guddan that every household should have a Guddan who thinks that Saas-Bahu can run a household with Friendship.
Durgaâs Room
- Durga and Saru are there celebrating her Jeet,Saru says I am happy that you won and showed Guddan her Aukkad
- Saru taunts adds salts to her wound because of Guddanâs habit of falling down, saved your Husband, Jethji, if she didnt fall you could have lost.
- Durga ask her do you I won because Guddan felt and I couldnât win on my own.
- Saru says Yes
- Lakshmi comes says you should think same since its the reality.Saasuma didnt fall by her mistake but purposely, so you can win.
- Lakshmi told Durga that your victory has been given to you as Gift in form of Charity from my Saasuma so your relationship with Kishore Bhaiya doesnt break.
- I made a mistake in considering you two Chorni & Dayan my friends
in my Saasuma Saath, I realized the true meaning of Friendship
She says Congratulation for Jeet, and the juice was very sweet.
Akshan Scene
- Guddan confronts her Pati AJ for ignoring her and not speaking to her. Which he replies, do me, asks her for her hand she gives. AJ takes Guddan hand in hand, to her Mistake Wall, says Guddan as your Friend and Husband I want us together to remove your past wall from the root because Guddan "Tumse Sab Ho Payega" because you are Mrs. Guddan Aksaht Jindal
Precap Dosti vs Strictness Ruling is still on, but Akshan together removing the chits from Guddans Mistake Wall. Akshan scenes
My Analysis Turning Point
I. Fallen, Har & Jeet Declaration
Guddan Akshat Jindal purposely fell down on the circle soher stepson Kishore and Durga Bahus marriage is save. Durga is standing up andfacing the sky.
Irony is the person who is Standing Up Durga Jindal once aAdarsh Bahu, will not be able to get back up on her on feet with out the helpof her Saasuma, Her Devrani Lakshmi or maybe her Husband. In her ego DurgaKishore Jindal is forgetting the circle of Life, that in this world we are allStudent- learner and the biggest Teacher is Time. As human being no one is perfect so its okay for everyone to make mistakes and learn up from it. Her head isheld up high, but she knows that what her Karaam is, she wont be able to makeit. She is Almighty Sarvgun Sampan person, she is reaching for the stars but forgettingthat her feet should be always on the ground. In front of her ego she is forgetting her roots, her culture, her Maryada, her family and her Asools fromAdarsh Bahu she has fallen become a Villian. For Durga Kishore Jindal her Jindal Surname Name, Fame & Wealth, Her Ego, Her Arrogance, Her Respect, Her Perspective (whether wrong) come before her Husband, Her Marriage & Her Mayaka & Saasural Family.
For Durga Kishore Jindal, today the declaration of her Jeet has actually become the starting point of her Down Fall.
While the person who has fallen down Saasuma, she can confidently get back up on her feet without feeling humiliated, sorry for herself because she is grounded person in life before and after her marriage, and she will always stay grounded. Even though Guddan did fall, she has the support of her Saasuma, her Dadi, the mother figure in her life that is her friend, the person who gave her affection after her Father,
For Guddan Akshat Jindal, today the declaration of her Har has actually made her stronger, confident that she has taken the right decision, because to her Win or Lose doesnt matter Family, Its Happiness & Its Respects always comes first.
II. Circle of LIfe: Balancing Generations
This picture says a thousand words. This is life in whether it's Mayaka or Sasural, the Lady of the House- Here Guddan Akshat Jindal, has to balance herself with both the Younger (3 Bahus)and Older Generation (Bua, Dadi) in order to run her house. As a Lady of the House, Guddan has to learn to understand the perspective of both Generations, in her husband AJ guidance she is doing so. Even though all three of the ladies are different in their Saasural all three of them were new Bahu, they were learning to adapt to the Sanskar, Culture and Rules of their Sasural with or without the shelter of their Saasuma.
Guddan holding Durga Jindal her Bahu's hand indicates she is going to reteach and show Durga back to the right path, what should matter in her life instead of her Arrogance & Jindal Surname: her Husband his happiness and his Family.
Guddan holding Bua hand: she is going to teach her time has come to adapt to the Badlav that Saas-Bahu can be friends and together they can run the house, by splitting the house responsibilities equally.
Guddan learning: She is going to have to learn to speak up and voice her opinion and not remain quiet, and not be intimidated by her Bahus age or their deeds. She has to treat them as her equal.
III. When Loser are Winners: Pillars and Strenght. Guddan Akshat Jindal knew by purposefully losing she is right because of she saved her Bahu-Stepsons marriage. Before her own happiness, her family's happiness comes first. She remembered her husband word that she has to remove the root thinking. Her action of losing proved that her thinking is wrong because A Friend Doesn't Let a Sinking Friend Drown. Even though she was a Loser, Guddan Akshat Jindal has so remorse, she had tears of happiness and pride for her decision, her head was held high.
Upper Left Corner: As a Lady of House, when her husband is away from her work, Guddan has two support system her Lakshmi Bahu and Her Saasuma Dadi, she is the center of them, she has to keep the perspective, likes and dislikes of both the Ladies in her mind while handling her house. AJ is observing and listening to the conservation between his Wife, His Bahu and His Mum. He will not unnecessarily step into the Kitchen Politics, unless he feels something is wrong because he trusts the capability of his Wife in running their House with equality, Respect, Truth, and with full Responsibility.
Upper Right Corner: AJ stepped into the room, to question the mistake of his wife. He crossed the threshold between His Lakshmi Bahu and His Mother and became the center of his Wife. No matter what responsibilities Guddan has towards her Mother-in-law or Children Son & Bahus. Akshat Jindal as her husband is her number 1 priority in her life like she is to him. He has the Haq as her Pati to get answers of her actions that cause her Fall and makes her the Looser, he has the right to question chocies made in their family and house. When AJ enters the room he makes a square with his WIfe, Mother and Bahu. Indicating Guddan with AJ, Dadi and Lakshmi Bahus are pillars of strength in the Jindal Family, providing the support for the walls of Jindal Family Members, who can leave in the assurance that there is a shelter, food, love, respect and guidance when they are on the wrong path.
Center: AJ becomes the center of Guddan's world and she is facing him. For Guddan its AJ, then his Mom and then her Dil. If you look careful AJ Guddan Dadi, Dadi Guddan AJ, Gudan AJ Dadi, all make a Triangle and Lakshmi is outside the triangle because its not her place as the 3rd generation Bahu to interfer between her elders. Even though Lakshmi is with her Elders, she is giving them space to discuss while listening to their conversation, she is in her Maryada. As Bahu Lakshmi duty is to understand the Rules & Regulations of her In laws Saas-Sasur, while listening to them and following their path for being a better person in life.
For Dadi center of her world equally is her Elder Son her Lalla, & Daughter like Bahu Guddan then the interest her GrandBahu Lakshmi.
For AJ he gives equal love and respect to his mum and Guddan, after the 7 Vachans he will not be a fool to listen to his Bahus before listening and consulting with his wife and mum.
For Lakshmi its Dadi because she gave her Love & Respect, then Sasuma cum Dost, and Her Father-in-law Akshat Jindal who she respects.
IV: Dosti Wala Saas-Bahu
Guddan doesnt need to have her Jindal Saab present with her all the time because in his absence she has two ladies who love and respect her as Equal, like she does to them. By having both her Saas and Bahu with her she knows that she can move with time because she learned to manage Past Dadi, and Future Lakshmi with her in the present.
V: Durga Jindal Jeet Ke Bi Hari. Please understand I am not glorifying her, or have fallen in love with her. I am just showing the various shades of her.
Top Left: Bua telling Durga the reality that she has teh capability of throwing her out of the house, and snatching her Husband & Jindal Surname. I loved how Bua gave her warning of removing the ground from her feet. đđ Bua as Elder of House, Being her Dadi Bua Saas just showed Dayan her Aukkad. It gave me sach a Sukoon in my eyes and heart.
Top Center: Durga's eyes were filled with shock when she heard Bua's word. She has been married to her husband for 5+ years, the Jindal name can be taken away from her. The irony is Karama Bites Back Painfully without Guiltđ She tried countless time to break the marriage of her In-Law, forgetting her Maryada as Bahu. She did it twice before the Engagement & During the Sangeet.
Top Right: After Bua left, Durga had to use the support of the bed, because her legs: the pillar of us which helps us stand was not supporting her.
Bottom Left: After Bua was saying they won, Durga was smirking and smiling at her Sasuma
Bottom Center: Love how her smile was wiped from her face when Guddan Sasuma told her You dont have to be scared, you have won.
Top: I love how her eyes got big, the smile was wiped from her face after listening to her Devrani Lakshmi's words.
Bottom Right: her eyes are red after hearing the harsh reality words of her Devrani Lakshmi who she once thought was her subordinate. She was verbally slapped and it hurt her black heart, her ego, her shooked her. Loved how at the end, even she was Winner, her head was bowed down in defeat because she deep down inside her black heart and cunning mind
VI: Lakshmi Jindal found her Voice
With the right Guidance and Love from her Saasuma Guddan AKshat Jindal, Lakshmi Vardaan Jindal has found her pillar of strength, respect, equality, and love she was missing. She entered Durga's room with full confidence like she owned that place. She told Durga the bitter reality that her Victory was the result of the Gift given their Saasuma Guddan AKshat Jindal in Charity in order to save her Bahu & Sons relationship. Lakshmi Jindal was proud to have found a friend in her Saasuma who treats her with Respect, Love, Understands her and doesnt overshadow her or her Confidence. Her smile said it all, how much Guddan Sasuma means to her. Today the equation had a turning point from 3 Bahus, Durga lost self-confidence & her Sister Devrani who she treated like a Subronitated & Slave, while Saru was a bystander, but she was smiling and smirking through her Lakshmi Di's talk because she knows that its the truth. I love unlike Durga, neither Saru or Lakshmi need to yell or scream to make their voice heard. In the picture, you can see that even though Durga won she has no one behind her back to support her. Eventually, the middle picture is indicating that somewhere down the line Saru Bahu will also join her Lakshmi Di.
Like a strong wind, Lakshmi entered both Saru & Durga was surprised and shocked to see her confidence.
VII Together Removing the Root
With the starting fall of Durga Jindal, one of her planted root is going to be removed that she herself placed in her Saasuma-Sasur Balcony, her Saasuma's Mistake Wall. In her Ego, Arrogance & Revenge Mode to show Guddan that she is incapable of handling the responsibility of Jindal Bhavan, not being Saas, Bahu or Patni. Durga Jindal forgetting humanity brought Guddan Wall of Mistakes to lower her Confidence and alway reminded her Mistakes that Guddan Tumse Na Ho Payega. Also to always remind Guddan that she is incapable of being the Perfect wife for Perfect Akshat Jindal who hates Mistake and People who Makes Mistake.
Guddan Gupta, new bride Guddan Akshat Jindal entered the house expecting nothing in return because her way was wrong. But with time, her patience, her love, her care, her learning and accepting mistakes, the guidance and words of her Husband who eventually became her Backbone and Pillar of Strenght. Slowly with each passing time, Guddan proved to her husband Akshat Jindal indirectly with her Work- Her Karma, and never giving up she is indeed capable of being the Perfect Saas, Perfect Wife and Perfect Bahu.
As a husband Akshat Jindal is proud to have Mrs. Gudan Akshat Jindal in his life and home.
Balcony: is the place that was home to Guddan for approximately + or - 5 months, this is the place where he let her stay as his wife. Together asking her hands in his, taking her hand towards their room, entering the balcony, showing her the Mistake wall that made her shed tears and discourage her, demotivated and decreased her confidence. AJ told her Guddan Tumse Sab Ho Payega and its time to let go of your Past & together remove it from its root because you are capable Mrs. Guddan Aksaht Jindal.
Akshat Jindal told his Friend & Wife, you no longer need to live in your past, of not having Confidence because you are no longer Guddan Gupta the girl who made mistakes and was incapable but slowly you have become a Mature, Sensible Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jinald who is strong and can handle both relationship and her responsibilities well. Akshat Jindal is doing the same thing that Guddan did to him by taking him out of his 15 years guilt.
Tomorrow will be the conclusion and new beginning in both AKshan Chapter.