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Posted: 6 years ago
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No matter what the logic, nobody would ever want to stay with a rapist/molester, even if he is about to die. This show just highlights that a woman should forget everything and still try to save a rapist. I am officially done with this stupid show!! Time for a show that actually steps up for women. Clearly not happening in this decade no matter how progressive we get

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Totally agreed with you...am out too..limits of acceptance has been crossed.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Seriously Asmita being a cop was saying Ridoy was nice and all n they r to be blamed like seriously dude has been always obsessive lover who got to a point where he was attempting rape...her justifying this act was really below the belt.. I really don't know how these people do this ..I was liking past two episodes and now back with another flop episode.. these guys are consistent with that..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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How’s a cop even thinking that this dude needs to be saved. She could have him arrested instantly but nah they’re gonna save him or whatever so he can do it again 😡

I think the makers have lost interest. Maybe they wanna end the show. This show has had More negative tracks than positive ones. And why is Ridoy more important than the leads?! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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Posted: 6 years ago
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True asmita is acting weird yet again. If she had any self respect she must pack her bags and leave majumdar house and send divorce notice for forcning her to consumate.

But lets think of it from law point of view. A husband can go to court to disolve marraige if consumation does not happen. No marraige will last long if husband or wife does not want consumation. In a patriachial society like India no husband will wait for wife permission to consumate. Majority are arranged marraiges, even than no husband will wait for wife to get comfortable or love him to consumate. Permission is not a required thing in Indian society for an husband or wife to consumate, you are legally wedded that is assumed that husband has rights on wife. Although law amy state anything but reality in society is very different. A womans parents will not accept her back in their house if she comes back saying husband is forcing to consumate marraige. If a woman approves to marraige it means shes ready to consumate with her husband. These are all reality of society. Thats what majumdars are also saying asmita married ridoy why shes not allowing him to touch her? or consumate with her? How can ridoy wanting to consumate with asmita be called abuse as hes her husband?

Even court may not believe asmita no if she says he tried to force her so shantanu fought him and he fell off roof. Everyone will think this is asimta and shantanu two lovers ploy to finish husband thats what everyone will think including court too.

Asmita married ridoy of own will, she asked to marry not ridoy first of all. She said she will follow marraige unlike before and take care of ridoy etc to Nivi. She was not forced by anyone into marraige. So asmita will be criminal in court eyes now not ridoy. Because no one saw ridoy force himself on asmita.

As per viewers Ridoy may be rapist. But ask anyone whose elderly or diff gen than they may say asmita is at fault not ridoy. She forced him to go extreme. And such things have society approal, a husband can forc himself on wife in india or asia society. No one thinks its wrong. Thats reality of society. Thats why majumdars and society shall support ridoy not asmita/shan

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think marriage gives license to consummate without permission of the wife.If a husband forces himself over wife without her consent that's marital rape..that's sexual abuse..yes unfortunately Indian laws doesn't consider marital rape as criminal act but it can fall into domestic abuse.. n emotional abuse as well..

Whether lawful or not as a woman I think Asmita's character should have shown Atleast some self respect. Even though she thinks Ridoy did that under the influence of alcohol, he is still dangerous for her .. and any self respecting woman would never go back to such person .I don't understand the regressive mindset of the show.

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