change of stance for sameer

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Posted: 6 years ago
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in previous episode, sameer was like never come back to him and lets get separated forever but when chachaji came he was like naina hamesha ready rahti hai ghar aur use chhodne ke liye, ek raat aur beeti, munna ko bolta hai ki ise naina ke yahan jana hai nahi to naina devi ban jayegi, mind it ppl-dar returns. wo waise bhi wahan jata par ego mein chachaji ke naam par aa gaya. bhukkhad ladki dekhne ke naam par thusa aur yahan lunch khane aa gaya, aur hamari ladki devdaasi ban kar kuch kha pi nahi rahi.
ab aaya egoist sameer ka dialogue ki apna naatak khatm kar ke khud wapis aa jana, yahan maara sameer ne apne dialogue se palti-gusse mein bol to diya kabhi mat aana par tension hai ki kahin naina kabhi nahi aayi to, isliye giving option by himself, ki wo nahi aayega par khud aa jana,
aur ab precap mein ganga jamuna baha raha hai.
this reminds me of that drama time fight-jb ego ise jhhukne nhi de raha tha ki chaud mein bol to aaya ki tum mere pass aaogi but bechain tha naina se baat kiye bina.
I love this kind of jhagda. It happens in all relationships. aur insaan jb apne ego se aage pyar ko rakhta hai, tab hi wo pyar successful hota hai, nahi to honeymoon period ke baad to break up banta hai.
P. S. There was a phase in my relationship when we used to have breakup patchup almost everyday that whenever i used to tell my frnds ki mera breakup ho gaya hai, they used to laugh at me😆😆😆, so telling out of personal experience .

par mudda ye hai ki sameer ka dialogue usi ki tarah confused hai, naina bhi chahiye, ego bhi chahiye.
but its difficult to understand a man like him. he is more complicated than a girl, isliye to use hamare serial ki bahu bola jata hai. kahan to wo itna understanding hai ki ghar ka kaam bhi kar de, naina ka periods mein itna dhyan rakhe, naina ke liye use itna kuch sunaya gaya, sab sun liya,jab naina first time dhamki di to bheekh maang kar use rok liya, but ab naina ke aage ego, matlab drama ke naam par kuch bhi

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Samer is charctwr pahle se hi aisa tha ,usko defeat hona pasand nahi tha
Jab bi Vishkha usko rohan ke saath compare karti thi woh bahut chidta tha,Bcos usko lagta hai ki her baat pe usko neeche dikhaya jaa raha hai
Bcos bachpan se hi usko yeh nahi sikhya gaya
Kuch paane ke liye mehnat karni padti hai
Sab asani se nahi milta hai
He is an intelligent boy but nanu ke alawa sahi ne guidance nahi kiya

Usko hamesha se laga nanu ka business hai aur usko tension lene ki jarorat nahi
But he never thought in his life that his own peoples whom he trusted would cheated him .
Ab naa toh Vishkha hai ,naa nanu

Aur yeh saari frustration woh naina pe utarta hai
Usko lagta hai ,bina bole woh sab samja jaaye

Jab jab woh naina ke paas jaata hai ,sief mama ki baatein uske dimaag mai gumti hai

Yeh ego nahi frustration hai mostly
Gussa hai

He only needs to calm his mind an share his problem with naina .

Uske andar bahut dard bhara hai ..jo nikalana bahut jarori hai
Edited by soniadutta - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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He extremely complicated yet very simple to understand
His mind his still occupied by those evil mama and devang once the reality will shook him that what he has done and what life has done with him .. He is gonna regret very hard
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have already said this but I would like to repeat...Sameer to me felt like the most complex,layered ,mysterious,yet easiest to understand character.
Usse bas thoda sa pyar chahiye tha joh usse kabhi nahi mili in his growing up years...Auur jab Naina bina kahe usse samajhne lagi toh usse laga ki Naina usse samajhti hai...
Shaadi ke baad bhi usse yehi laga tha ki Naina usse pehle ki tarah samjhegi...Par Naina ka topper dimaag auur wife-wala dimaag dono chhuti pe the...Bechara ek kiss ke liye kitni mehnat karni padi...
Usse kabhi koi guide karne wala nahi tha.Auur Nanaji ke baad usse kabhi kisine sahi galat ki parakh nahi karayi.Kans mama and mami apni faide ke liye usse business se durr rakha and kuch na seekhaya,Bas hamesha yehi bola ke maze karo...
Problem ab yeh hui ke usse zindagi ne dubara ek bahut badi chot mari hai...Toh usse hamesha ki tarah yehi laga ki Naina samjhegi...But phir Naina ka usse yeh yaad dilana ki sab usse chhod jaate hain uske darr ko dubara jaga diya hai...

Atleast Naina had some family in CC and Preeti,but Sameer ke paas toh koi bhi nahi hai...
Its not ego its his deep-seated insecurity of being abandoned and his craving for being loved...
Edited by RangnRia - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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i feel the same too that sameer is complicated yet easy to understand. right now hes been cheated, hurt, betrayed, when one goes through that at such an young age after having lost so much so early in life n still has to face some mre betrayal n loose one goes mad. frustrated angry upset. words r not enough. he lost his nanu, then seperated from mom, his evil relatives cheated him n took his property company n money when hes so young n has to learn so much still when hes just taking baby steps then imagine what state of mind he will be in. every man like sameer wants to have a good life, give good life to his wife and children. if u remember in college track before their break up he tells naina about his grand plans in life about college, business n marriage etc. everything is going against him. n he had fought against everything n everyone to marry her. but shes not understanding him either. its difficult to share all this. had she given him little space, time and patience like before n not jumped the guns with her taunts and arguments he would have come around n shared.
but she went on n on even when he said am too upset leave me alone i may say something bad, he warned her. but she dint pay heed instaed she wanted her way around she was like i did so much ur not responding n on top u share whatever u feel i wont mind n he spoke in anger only that theyr alag aajse etc. ppl speak crap in anger she should not have continued it n controlled herself she extended it by holding his collar etc. what he did was very very wrong. both slapping each other is wrong. but their relationship is beyond all this. coz she has slapped him twice before once witha reason n once for no reason. n he too has slapped her once. they r equals according to them so slap maynot be an issue to them although at present thats the bone of contention between the two as of now which is not letting them let their ego go by n get back which is what they actually want.
n thats what happens in real life too. ppl guy or a gal react this way maybe athe degree may vary.am speaking from personal experience too. my story is so much similar to theirs.husband lost his mom at 17, father and stepmom cheated at 21. put him out of home n we were engaged. the years that followed we both struggled. our relationship struggled. so i know samaina though fictional r representing two real ppl so the protrayal is going to be as real n realistic it can get.

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