I dont want to stay with you!!

I guess , now its clear why they changed the leads characters so much !! They wanted to bring in this "I don't want to stay with you." Somehow I am not able to accept this behavior of Naina or Sameer. People who have stayed apart and still managed to pull on their relationship with same passion and intensity wont they cherish their each others presence.

During the start of HM track when Sameer threw a towel on the chair , Naina gave him a look , questioning him of his action. So a girl who couldn't tolerate that act cant dirty the house so much.

When it comes to keeping the house clean , a lot ppl I saw felt Naina was selfish and Sameer did have a point. I can understand Sameer's POV as its a 90s show but my dear friends, we are living in 2019. The house is used by both of them. Did Sameer not see the house dirty? He could have also shown some initiative to keep it clean and there by she would have joined him and helped him.

The point that when we are together its ok but in front of others we need to have an image. That statement my friends is absolutely wrong. When it comes to behavior and class we always should be who we are. If he wants to be classy then it has to start from home and with in. So he was wrong there and guided her wrongly.

Don't clean the house when guests come...clean it every day and each member including kids are responsible for it. It has to be tutored. So for me Sameer is equally responsible for a messy house. The problem is in our age old society ppl feel cleanliness is the responsibility of a woman. NOPE it is everyone's responsibility.

Now wrt conflict. I hope Sameer stops Naina and both sit and talk , find a solution with a calm mind that would help their relationship. If they are showing otherwise. Then let me tell you friends...the CVs are actually walking back on the characters that they had build till date.

I don't understand why CVs are messing up with the core characters of the leads because I am getting confused with the approach that they are taking and sadly is not a very smooth enjoyable ride.

These are my thoughts...do share yours.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I guess , now its clear why they changed the leads characters so much !! They wanted to bring in this "I don't want to stay with you." Somehow I am not able to accept this behavior of Naina or Sameer. People who have stayed apart and still managed to pull on their relationship with same passion and intensity wont they cherish their each others presence.

During the start of HM track when Sameer threw a towel on the chair , Naina gave him a look , questioning him of his action. So a girl who couldn't tolerate that act cant dirty the house so much.

When it comes to keeping the house clean , a lot ppl I saw felt Naina was selfish and Sameer did have a point. I can understand Sameer's POV as its a 90s show but my dear friends, we are living in 2019. The house is used by both of them. Did Sameer not see the house dirty? He could have also shown some initiative to keep it clean and there by she would have joined him and helped him.

The point that when we are together its ok but in front of others we need to have an image. That statement my friends is absolutely wrong. When it comes to behavior and class we always should be who we are. If he wants to be classy then it has to start from home and with in. So he was wrong there and guided her wrongly.

Don't clean the house when guests come...clean it every day and each member including kids are responsible for it. It has to be tutored. So for me Sameer is equally responsible for a messy house. The problem is in our age old society ppl feel cleanliness is the responsibility of a woman. NOPE it is everyone's responsibility.

Now wrt conflict. I hope Sameer stops Naina and both sit and talk , find a solution with a calm mind that would help their relationship. If they are showing otherwise. Then let me tell you friends...the CVs are actually walking back on the characters that they had build till date.

I don't understand why CVs are messing up with the core characters of the leads because I am getting confused with the approach that they are taking and sadly is not a very smooth enjoyable ride.

These are my thoughts...do share yours.

Originally posted by: toshibelekar

She is not going anywhere just going to another room down. 😆😆 there was a spoiler. 😆

So, we need not worry, precap misleading. 😊

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Originally posted by: USwamy

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Oh there was a spoiler to this? Missed it then. That will be funny then. 😆That's what one more forum member commented on another thread. Hope it's true coz I don't want Sameer running after her always.

Honestly I wouldn't mind Sameer running behind her , in a marriage there is no place for ego. When two ppl have a relationship one will be the adamant one and the other will be a lil subtle. There is no written rule that the man has to be the adamant one..:) Its ok...Zid har wakt apnon se karte hain. If you see a kid always shows that adamancy with mom more than anyone else because deep down in his /her heart there is this feeling no matter what mom is not going to misjudge us. Relationship between husband and wife is also very close knit one , there is no question of winning or loosing...if husband looses then wife also looses , its the same way the other way around...because they are ONE UNIT. This part is beautifully said during the initial track when they went to watch movie at Kamya's house. I guess the VO before that episode. Of course the VO during all those episodes had too many beautiful statements.

Well If Naina is shown as the adamant one, its ok...Sameer will have his set of needs and adamancies ...what matters is they should be able to accept each other's nonsense... 😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I guess , now its clear why they changed the leads characters so much !! They wanted to bring in this "I don't want to stay with you." Somehow I am not able to accept this behavior of Naina or Sameer. People who have stayed apart and still managed to pull on their relationship with same passion and intensity wont they cherish their each others presence.

During the start of HM track when Sameer threw a towel on the chair , Naina gave him a look , questioning him of his action. So a girl who couldn't tolerate that act cant dirty the house so much.

When it comes to keeping the house clean , a lot ppl I saw felt Naina was selfish and Sameer did have a point. I can understand Sameer's POV as its a 90s show but my dear friends, we are living in 2019. The house is used by both of them. Did Sameer not see the house dirty? He could have also shown some initiative to keep it clean and there by she would have joined him and helped him.

The point that when we are together its ok but in front of others we need to have an image. That statement my friends is absolutely wrong. When it comes to behavior and class we always should be who we are. If he wants to be classy then it has to start from home and with in. So he was wrong there and guided her wrongly.

Don't clean the house when guests come...clean it every day and each member including kids are responsible for it. It has to be tutored. So for me Sameer is equally responsible for a messy house. The problem is in our age old society ppl feel cleanliness is the responsibility of a woman. NOPE it is everyone's responsibility.

Now wrt conflict. I hope Sameer stops Naina and both sit and talk , find a solution with a calm mind that would help their relationship. If they are showing otherwise. Then let me tell you friends...the CVs are actually walking back on the characters that they had build till date.

I don't understand why CVs are messing up with the core characters of the leads because I am getting confused with the approach that they are taking and sadly is not a very smooth enjoyable ride.

These are my thoughts...do share yours.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Honestly I wouldn't mind Sameer running behind her , in a marriage there is no place for ego. When two ppl have a relationship one will be the adamant one and the other will be a lil subtle. There is no written rule that the man has to be the adamant one..:) Its ok...Zid har wakt apnon se karte hain. If you see a kid always shows that adamancy with mom more than anyone else because deep down in his /her heart there is this feeling no matter what mom is not going to misjudge us. Relationship between husband and wife is also very close knit one , there is no question of winning or loosing...if husband looses then wife also looses , its the same way the other way around...because they are ONE UNIT. This part is beautifully said during the initial track when they went to watch movie at Kamya's house. I guess the VO before that episode. Of course the VO during all those episodes had too many beautiful statements.

Well If Naina is shown as the adamant one, its ok...Sameer will have his set of needs and adamancies ...what matters is they should be able to accept each other's nonsense... 😆

Hey Ashu i agree with ur post half heartedly not cos i hve my own set of beliefs but the way my major gripe lies is with HOW NAINA is coming across in all tis...The attitude tat" I CNT BE WRONG " is wat is not going well down with many...All r perfectly human n one can go rong n commit mistakes. ...theres no doubt on it...one learn from their xperiences n correct it...But time n again Naina nvr admits to it nor learns from it ...n on top she wants her hubby to understand n accomodate her mindset n shortcomings even if she might stand at fault... but when it comes to him , she wont do the same...!! Not an ounce of guilt or an audacity to atleast regret on her actions or even on harsh words... ...n if tats not done the LADY VO speaks with a tinge of arrogance n pride...This cycle or chain of repetition in her behaviour has been adding to many like me who isnt able to connect with Naina who is coming across someone who is cold n insensitive to everyone around...

I agree that fault was both. But over the past few tracks don't u feel that naina or her vo is never shown any regret for anything done wrong by her.It's the amount of arrogance which is thrown at us is disturbing me in the character naina that she is always right.Sameer vo is always sorry but what about her.I always loved her character but from breakup track there is some disconnect. Also always she is angry or cribbing or running away.Sameer too had been changed for the drama like always complaining.somehow it's now irritating to watch them now

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

I agree that fault was both. But over the past few tracks don't u feel that naina or her vo is never shown any regret for anything done wrong by her.It's the amount of arrogance which is thrown at us is disturbing me in the character naina that she is always right.Sameer vo is always sorry but what about her.I always loved her character but from breakup track there is some disconnect. Also always she is angry or cribbing or running away.Sameer too had been changed for the drama like always complaining.somehow it's now irritating to watch them now

It's strictly my pov and agnst writers.We can express what we feel .

Dialogues , VO and everything sounds so new to me. In fact the show itself is getting into a non recognizable mode...the class that this show had in terms of script , characters , dialogues , frames , lighting are all gone...this show was a piece of art ...now that's not the case, its so evident that the writing is done with out much study or research. Well CVs don't seem to have a problem what do we say???

Originally posted by: mehraan

Hey Ashu i agree with ur post half heartedly not cos i hve my own set of beliefs but the way my major gripe lies is with HOW NAINA is coming across in all tis...The attitude tat" I CNT BE WRONG " is wat is not going well down with many...All r perfectly human n one can go rong n commit mistakes. ...theres no doubt on it...one learn from their xperiences n correct it...But time n again Naina nvr admits to it nor learns from it ...n on top she wants her hubby to understand n accomodate her mindset n shortcomings even if she might stand at fault... but when it comes to him , she wont do the same...!! Not an ounce of guilt or an audacity to atleast regret on her actions or even on harsh words... ...n if tats not done the LADY VO speaks with a tinge of arrogance n pride...This cycle or chain of repetition in her behaviour has been adding to many like me who isnt able to connect with Naina who is coming across someone who is cold n insensitive to everyone around...

On the contrary Sam is still somewhere around ...he is still trying,adjusting n making peace with it...His efforts are visible n so his VO who regrets even at a drop of a hat...

Im jus angry with the way Naina is ruined for me n tis has been goin on since the breakup track...i always had tat luv for tat 16 yr old gal who was hopelessly n madly in luv n wud go to any xtent to be with her lover...I dnt see tat streak..n im hugely disappointed !

I hve penned down so mny earlier posts of mine on her selfless love ...n rite now i see a complete opposite of a character that i dont recognise with!..Sorry dear, i m ranting my anger out here but kya karey ur one of the old members in the forum whom i hve been easily able to connect, communicate n shared my feelings with regards to show n love for the characters for the last 2 yrs...I guess u wud understand how deeply tis has impacted me!