I once against someone when you pray to God would god wipe away all your troubles. They said they prayed to god to give them the strength to see them through their troubles.
When Saloni was praying in the temple when she was breaking her vows. She asked Mata to give her the strength to continue to break her vows.
Don't get me wrong I believe Saloni should have told her family about Jiji, that's her fault, she's not perfect - this self-sacrificing behaviour. Imagine Why would you trust Jiji to hold up her end of the bargain to give her the child. Saloni was applying her standards to Jiji. Everybody who was looking at the serial knew Jiji was not going to give her the child (that's reality) I don't blame God for that - that's Saloni's bad judgement.
During Saloni's bad behaviour she was praying to continue while Nahar was praying to get his old Saloni. Quite opposing wishes. How did Nahar reacted? Did he follow her? Did he investigated? He did nothing.
Kveri - Everybody wants to believe Kaveri will change. They consistently give her chances is that God's fault. No, that's good people trying to be too good. Of course again we all know she got of easy. Who blame Narpat - Samar and his mother. If Kaveri was exposed would that have taken away what Samar and Ambika had done to Narpat. Remember the scene when the family was invited to go to Kakasa party. Everyone looking at that show would say don't go you have no relationship with that family - Narpat agrees with Kaveri and they went. Again a family that can't see her character. Again God help those who help themselves.
I also agree the serial should show people helping to come up with solutions to solve their problem with God's strength.
We have a saying in Trinidad God is slow but sure.
I looked at the scene with Nahar praying by Ganesh when Saloni could have lost the baby. When all else fail in reality we turn to God.
Despite you might think my defense I only watch one show SP. That's because of NS. Some of the show you mention I don't like because of alot of your reasons. One particular show you mention you like I dislike due to the same got of easy due to the idiotic family. If SP did not turn the way it's going I also will stop watching.