Mishti and Pari

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Ardhanarishwara

@Ardhanarishwara

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

I have been seeing comments like what pain mishti has suffered, its pari who suffered the most so she should be the one who is most affected by everything etc since sometime.

What I want to say is human psychology is not as simple as that.. The psychological effect of mental traumas are not just dependent on the intensity of the pain, it depends on various other factors like tolerability of the person, past history and all... 2 people undergoing the same mental trauma will not react the same way.. Some people loose the mental balance even with small incidents while others will tolerate multiples more severe mental traumas well.

Pari and mishti both were exposed to subjects like infedility at a very young age.. But how much it has affected both, it will differ.. From what have I seen so far I think Pari has dealt with it all in a better way while mishti is totally f**ked up.

I feel bad for both the girls.. They are suffering without any fault of theirs.

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sreenidhi kannan

@sreelovesindia

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Posted: 6 years ago

Nice post! 👏

Btw, they need not sympathise with mishti ' S pain, but all I don't get is, why do they compare the pains they had?

One cannot compare two individuals who entirely had different circumstances in their life.

But blame ITV for this attitude. All they show in these years is that, the girl who suffers so much pain turns out to be the female lead...

Both Pari and mishti had suffered in their childhood. Both carry pain in their hearts... And, both girls equally deserve happiness... It's not a race that who suffered so much pain deserves a cup or something!

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Nushrat

@Nush_Rat

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Posted: 6 years ago

Great post!!!

I agree with your points completely. It's not about a war between Pari or Mishti. On the surface, I still believe Pari had to bear more because no matter how she wants to see it, or how hard Radhika and Mishti may have tried in the past, the fact is she is the product of love of two people who had wronged everyone related to them. And society and people like Sweety may have rubbed it on her face over and over again. Yet, I would say she has dealt with the situations far better than Mishti.

Although she was raised in a complete family, the incidents that have taken place even before her birth has shaken the poor girl to her core. And unfortunately, she didn't have Mauli or Ishaan's support in her growing years, so she grew up with a one dimensional vision and concealed every feeling within her.

As Radhika had said last episode that she made it her priority that none of Mishti or Pari feels less loved, I guess she tried to protect them from the bad memory. But unfortunately it had the exact opposite effect as both the sisters hid their insecurity deep within & put on a mask of happiness.

I just hope Mishti has an honest conversation with Radhika very soon.

She is trying to eradicate every single factor that had led to MauNal separation but unfortunately, Nandini did all these things for Rajdeep but even that couldn't save her marriage. Rajdeep was a monster - no doubt there. But there isn't any hard and fast rule on how to sustain a relationship. Rajdeep didn't value a wife who was completely dedicated to him, Kunal couldn't or I'd say didn't find it necessary to fight his attraction when he also had a loving wife and then there was Ishaan who stood against society and married a DIVORCE WITH A DAUGHTER. It's completely dependent on the person involved.

By trying to push Ruhan away, she is actually getting drawn towards him. I hope in the future episodes her sister and family members help her through her problem.

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@Starlight2826

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara
I have been seeing comments like what pain mishti has suffered, its pari who suffered the most so she should be the one who is most affected by everything etc since sometime.
What I want to say is human psychology is not as simple as that.. The psychological effect of mental traumas are not just dependent on the intensity of the pain, it depends on various other factors like tolerability of the person, past history and all... 2 people undergoing the same mental trauma will not react the same way.. Some people loose the mental balance even with small incidents while others will tolerate multiples more severe mental traumas well.
Pari and mishti both were exposed to subjects like infedility at a very young age.. But how much it has affected both, it will differ.. From what have I seen so far I think Pari has dealt with it all in a better way while mishti is totally f**ked up.
I feel bad for both the girls.. They are suffering without any fault of theirs.

Although both girls have suffered ...some issues do differ for both. Pari never felt unwanted or was abandoned by her parent like mishty was. Mishty knows the pain of not having her father ..she knows the feeling of being unwanted and abandoned by her father ...her first 6 years of her life was without a father, Ishaan only became her father in the true sense when Mauli married him. Although pari lost both her parents ..it was due to death..not due to them abandoning her out of their own free will. Pari has not lived with a mom who was cheated. She did not live with the aftermath of Ema,l.her parents were in love and happy ..her father never left her mom for another woman ,.whereas mishty had a broken depressed mom for six years of her life ...she saw the pain and suffering Mauli went through ...she lived with it. And sadly mishty is totally messed up because of this . Pari although she has issues ..is more stable and in tune with herself and I think happier. Mishty has a distorted view of marriage ,.she is willing to lose her whole identity and be at veer and his family's beck and call 24 hours a day ,.because this is her version of what is required to have a happy stable marriage..Mishty really needs help badly to Become a strong fulfilled happy woman...

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raaya

@raaya

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Posted: 6 years ago

Both the girls are scarred for life. Only difference is mishthi still can be vocal about it but Pari can't coz she knows her parents were at fault. Mishthi ko mom and popsie ka pyar Mila but Pari ko sirf dad ka. And I m not saying Kunal and Nandini kingalti nahi thi but Pari ko hamesha unki galtion k lie judge Kia jaega.