Zindagi barbaad

In yesterdays episode, naeem bi said , meeta is the same woman who destroyed your life. But in reality babita ki zindagi barbaadi ki shuruaat toh uske parents ne ki by getting her married at such an young age, instead of educating her. Second time it was by her in laws, who never encouraged their son to take along his wife. Thirdly it was by ashok who brought meeta home and denied babita her rights. Then why a woman always blames the other woman? I hope babita realizes this. Though meeta has her share of mistake. Why is it that only she has to feel guilty and others go scot free especially that ashok and family. 😕

Sabse badi galti ashok ki hai par meeta ki bhi hai. Meeta ko Babita ko phone karke sab batana chahiye tha jab meeta ko ashok ke barme pata chala tab. Khurana family se zyada galti meeta ki hai. At least khurana(except of course) family ne apne partner ko dhoka to nahi diya Aur nahi married kisike sath affair kiya. Meeta ko jab pata chala uske baad bhi wo ashok ke sath hai.Meeta uniform ke color select karne ki waqt kaise smile karke bol rahi thi I like blue color of bafadari, Babita ke samne ye bolna zaruri tha kya ?

Originally posted by: Annie_13

Sabse badi galti ashok ki hai par meeta ki bhi hai. Meeta ko Babita ko phone karke sab batana chahiye tha jab meeta ko ashok ke barme pata chala tab. Khurana family se zyada galti meeta ki hai. At least khurana(except of course) family ne apne partner ko dhoka to nahi diya Aur nahi married kisike sath affair kiya. Meeta ko jab pata chala uske baad bhi wo ashok ke sath hai.Meeta uniform ke color select karne ki waqt kaise smile karke bol rahi thi I like blue color of bafadari, Babita ke samne ye bolna zaruri tha kya ?

i know even meeta is involved. But she is not the only reason for babitaas present situation. Babita has given 17 years of her crucial life to her inlaws. Her Mil Immediately forgot babitas sacrifice and supported khoon ka rishta. Also remember babitas lawyer. He had asked babita how are her inlaws. When babita replies positively the lawyer immedialtey asked her, then why arent they here with you?

India has been a patriarchial society for centuries. While there have been revolutionary women even in 1700s and 1800s , perhaps even earlier, not all women had the strength of Ahilya bai Holkar or Rani Rashmoni. Most women ...when women were not even allowed education...just gave in to the servitude of men as if it was something they are born for. Even in 21st century, this mindset is not completely gone. It exists. Some beliefs like pati parmeshwar hota hai, parents are always right, elders can do no wrong, children are always either bad or Shravan kumar...these beliefs should change...otherwise it will take another century to bring about real change. Beeji like women exist. It is sad but true. I am so angry ...I mean first she took away the stree dhan.Now she does not even care how Babita and Mini are making both ends meet. All she does is have crocodile tears.

I agree to you on one point that it's the woman who is always blamed. It is very convenient for our society that we live in. Harsh truth.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

I find the creatives of this serial a bit indecisive.

They do not know whether they should go the modern way - showing Babita to be independent , strong, and free of social taboos

or

show her as a traditional meek woman - afraid to break relationships.

May be,they are showing Babita in a transitional period hence all the ons and offs .

Getting involved with a married man is definitely not a good thing. she can be blamed for ruining her own life. She's not a victim character at all. she inflicted all that trouble upon herself. She broke relations with her parents for a misogynistic cheater, That's crazy!

What's worse...being forced to stay in a relationship with a married man who you love (and who loves you) because you have no choice, or staying in a relationship with a man who leaves you 1 month after your wedding for seventeen years because you have no choice?

Meena and Babes are suffering the same situation but from different sides of the fence. Both of them have been let down by society, societal expectations, their families and Ashok.