One more revelation of Sameer's childhood

Frankly speaking

During the Delhi track Khados Dadi mentioned once that the condition of Vishakh's marriage with Somani was that Sameer will never live with them .

Originally posted by: Nikkie_1

During the Delhi track Khados Dadi mentioned once that the condition of Vishakh's marriage with Somani was that Sameer will never live with them .

But now Somani is creating a problem for Vishakha just because she wants to attend her son's wedding rituals this is just too much. I mean zyada se zyada 2-3 days me sare rituals khatam ho jate and she would have returned.

Originally posted by: suhaaana

So this was not a marriage for convenience..

It was kind of depriving Sameer of his mother's love having already lost his father...

They revealed they did this so she can give 100% to Rohan..as otherwise she will be torn between sakka aur sautela...
Pure selfish act..thats all...
Thats why sameer never liked somani and also had this grief against vishakha for abadoning him..howevere whenever she showers the smallest amount of love..he can't stop forgetting his grief and love her back...

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

They revealed they did this so she can give 100% to Rohan..as otherwise she will be torn between sakka aur sautela...
Pure selfish act..thats all...
Thats why sameer never liked somani and also had this grief against vishakha for abadoning him..howevere whenever she showers the smallest amount of love..he can't stop forgetting his grief and love her back...

This is why no matter how much love she is giving Sameer right now, I cant seem to melt for her. I melt for Sameer because that boy is finally getting something he has been deprived off his entire life. But I dont think Vishaka will ever be able to redeem herself for me as a viewer. She knew this was the condition and still wanted to marry Somani. She knew she would be abandoning her son and still went with it for her happiness. Yes she has the right to do so but if she really loved Sameer she would have understood the life of loneliness she would be subjecting Sameer to.

Originally posted by: IamIbe

This is why no matter how much love she is giving Sameer right now, I cant seem to melt for her. I melt for Sameer because that boy is finally getting something he has been deprived off his entire life. But I dont think Vishaka will ever be able to redeem herself for me as a viewer. She knew this was the condition and still wanted to marry Somani. She knew she would be abandoning her son and still went with it for her happiness. Yes she has the right to do so but if she really loved Sameer she would have understood the life of loneliness she would be subjecting Sameer to.

And then years later when Sameer decided to marry Naina for his own happiness she constantly disapproved and insulted and tried to stop the match. You see the hypocrisy here?

But atleast she had sense enough to come for her son's wedding because she was his only living relation. Thank god for that. But honestly, Vishaka's love for her son will never be selfless and unconditional like a mother's should be.

Originally posted by: Nikkie_1

You have written exactly what I feel about Vishakha.

that is the only reason I am unable to warm up to her or ever trust her in any situation.

I have always felt that how can a Mother marry even after knowing the condition before. I would have understood somehow if Vish was from a poor background and did not have means to raise her son.

But she had a stable life without marriage as well.

Originally posted by: IamIbe

This is why no matter how much love she is giving Sameer right now, I cant seem to melt for her. I melt for Sameer because that boy is finally getting something he has been deprived off his entire life. But I dont think Vishaka will ever be able to redeem herself for me as a viewer. She knew this was the condition and still wanted to marry Somani. She knew she would be abandoning her son and still went with it for her happiness. Yes she has the right to do so but if she really loved Sameer she would have understood the life of loneliness she would be subjecting Sameer to.

And then years later when Sameer decided to marry Naina for his own happiness she constantly disapproved and insulted and tried to stop the match. You see the hypocrisy here?

But atleast she had sense enough to come for her son's wedding because she was his only living relation. Thank god for that. But honestly, Vishaka's love for her son will never be selfless and unconditional like a mother's should be.

Same here. I am a mother myself and cannot imagine abandoning just to remarry .She has no respect in that somani housr too .See how easily somani saying to his mother that he is leaving her.She was financially secure too .She is lucky that sameer as a son still loves her and had grown up to be a fine man because of nanu and latter naina of course.

Originally posted by: IamIbe

This is why no matter how much love she is giving Sameer right now, I cant seem to melt for her. I melt for Sameer because that boy is finally getting something he has been deprived off his entire life. But I dont think Vishaka will ever be able to redeem herself for me as a viewer. She knew this was the condition and still wanted to marry Somani. She knew she would be abandoning her son and still went with it for her happiness. Yes she has the right to do so but if she really loved Sameer she would have understood the life of loneliness she would be subjecting Sameer to.

And then years later when Sameer decided to marry Naina for his own happiness she constantly disapproved and insulted and tried to stop the match. You see the hypocrisy here?

But atleast she had sense enough to come for her son's wedding because she was his only living relation. Thank god for that. But honestly, Vishaka's love for her son will never be selfless and unconditional like a mother's should be.

I totally feel the same like you...
But I wonder if there are things unknown to us..
Ho sakta hai this condition they came up with when all arrangements where done it was not posisble to back out..pehle hi dusri shaadi and now this...
Nanu must have thought that vishaka will flnd a balance in coming to meet sameer and her house...
Whatever it is...vishakha should have spoken up...if she can accept rohan why couldn't somani accept sameer..agar Rohan bin maan ka beta hai toh sameer ne bhi baap khoya hai...
They should have united to give both the boys the part they where deprived from..here rohan got it all and sameer even lost the one he had