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Posted: 6 years ago
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Good evening /morning girls !!!
Hope all of you are well. I watched yesterday's and today's episodes. But didn't feel like saying anything yesterday.

Are the writers going for the "chichora" Kunal? 👎🏼Eww... He grossed me out yesterday, with his nonsense- saree, saree drape, rain, apsara and fixated on some stupid ear rings🤢. Mauli, poor girl😭 Can't believe she is forced to live through the same nonsense yet again. Mein pyar aur dosti ke vishwas ka patti bandh li 😲 Dear girl! This is what betrayal makes you feel, LIKE CRAP, like they are somehow inferior, somehow they instigated the whole nonsense, if only I am better, if only I am more vigilant, if only I had time, if only, IF ONLY😭🤢. This can be endless, unfortunately. Fact of the matter is , the straying guy is disloyal, has a roving eye for superficial beauty, the woman was cunning, manipulative, ungrateful who masked all these qualities as somebody who needs constant care and coddling all the time. Like hell, Mauli has nothing to do with that vulgarity they both embarked upon. It is heartbreaking to watch her pain and hurt. But, hopefully after all of this, she will flush the guy and her " what could've been " out of her system for good.

Today's episode, Mauli is literally walking on egg shells. Stupid, superficial Kunal's nonsense continues to be unbearable😡 Hugging his daughter, nor the name of his fragile wife, didn't evoke any memories. But, the saree, jhumkas and the DRAPE of the saree were very clear in his vision😡👎🏼 Eww... grossing me out again. I don't know if any woman/girl can live or cohabit with a guy like this. His whole baby talk, and the name selected for the baby is all emesis provoking. I wish they showed that Mauli almost threw up listening to this😈. I don't know how Mauli or Ishaan held it all in, I myself had a visceral reaction listening and watching that. Ewww... can't say this enough today🤢

I didn't like Mauli's outburst today, blaming Ishaan if he was planning to give Kunal a shock while she and everybody else is trying to get Kunal's memory back. I understand, that she is going through a lot, having to live through Kunal's obsessions and being a fake object of his fantasies, and having to put up with his skin crawling nonsense about him having a child with Mauli😭It is grossing me out just writing this. She needed an outlet and she felt comfortable enough with Ishaan to vent and unload on him😭SHE OWES HIM BIG TIME. Personally, I didn't appreciate this fact nor the fact that she didn't reach out to him and apologize. She reprimanded him as if he was a paid service who didn't follow some kind of instructions👎🏼 Not acceptable. Even with all her angst, she has no right to shoot the messenger😡who is doing the needful. Wrong target par shoot kar li, just because she is mad👎🏼

I didn't find anything wrong with Ishaan's emotional outburst or his simmering anger and hurt which the actor portrayed phenomenally well👍🏼. He didn't trust himself to say anything or sooo hurt by the accusation that he couldn't bring himself to say anything. He needed space for himself and Mauli too. If Mauli doesn't make this right by Ishaan, tomorrow, my guns will be blazing on her

I am disappointed with dida today👎🏼. For being an oldie, she was always very reasonable. But today, a selfish grandmother who cares for her grandson who abandoned her had surfaced and I didn't like that. I hope she doesn't wish for Ishaan to just take care of the kids, fill in the blank as a care taker while Kunal gets better and then disappear from their lives. Her kismat- wale lines are very distasteful. Dida, if the fragile other woman was alive, this kismat would have gone for a toss😡NO,NO, Kunal and Mauli are not connected by kismat💔, they are only connected through Mishti as her divorced parents and nothing else😳.

A word about Ishaan. This guy is no way connected to that Malhotra family, he had no obligation towards them, nor did he have to take care of Pari, nor did he have to part with Mauli for the sake of this drama. He is doing this just for that child, Pari and no one else, like he said. Because, a child is hurting and no matter how the parents have wronged his loved one, he didn't want his judgement be clouded by the parents when it came to the child and her misery. YOU NEED A VERY BIG HEART TO BE ABLE TO DO THIS👏❤️👍🏼 It is not like he is having fun doing this. I hope everybody in the Malhotra household remembers this fact, and uphold this jewel⭐️. I simply didn't like Mauli's or dida's unspoken attitude towards him today😲 May be dida forgot that he was the pillar of support for that household while Kunal was MIA, enjoying, pampering, protecting his fragile wife leaving his disabled grandmother without any care in the world, for 6 long years. I hope they don't see him as a use and throw option😡😡

Mauli owes him big time. This is all I can say. I am ANNOYED with a capital A😡. I can't take her matter of fact attitude when it comes to him.

+/- episode for me. Watch it only to see Ishaan's anger and hurt😳 and the actor's delivery of this emotion👍🏼. Nothing else is worth anything for me today.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I guess I am the only one who is ok with ishaali fights.Guys it will only develop their relationship.

Kinal how annoying he is 😡


Dida typical dadi of a pota

Radhika is the only one who truly cared for mauli and even thinks of Ishaan.For a moment she thought about the marriage.She is feeling bad her own son broke his marriage.
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KM ❤️ is Excellent to Make the Scene Worth More Along With His Character 😛 like his Previous Character 😛 waiting impatiently long time to See this from Him 👏 That's Phenomenal his Outburst without holding anything in Heart his Heart always In his Actions 👏 Can't Measures It's Highness ⭐️ ...My Rudra is Back Aww it's again the Same Rage 😭 explaining Wat he going through and Wat matters that time is more Imp to both sides ⭐️ I. e the Lil kid health only matters to make such steps which he taken which he feel his own duty 👏 ...this is Beauty ...AdShuk ❤️ nailed ..

mauhaan becoming too close too open to each other Strength ❤️ ...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mili9

Good evening /morning girls !!!

Hope all of you are well. I watched yesterday's and today's episodes. But didn't feel like saying anything yesterday.

Are the writers going for the "chichora" Kunal? 👎🏼Eww... He grossed me out yesterday, with his nonsense- saree, saree drape, rain, apsara and fixated on some stupid ear rings🤢. Mauli, poor girl😭 Can't believe she is forced to live through the same nonsense yet again. Mein pyar aur dosti ke vishwas ka patti bandh li 😲 Dear girl! This is what betrayal makes you feel, LIKE CRAP, like they are somehow inferior, somehow they instigated the whole nonsense, if only I am better, if only I am more vigilant, if only I had time, if only, IF ONLY😭🤢. This can be endless, unfortunately. Fact of the matter is , the straying guy is disloyal, has a roving eye for superficial beauty, the woman was cunning, manipulative, ungrateful who masked all these qualities as somebody who needs constant care and coddling all the time. Like hell, Mauli has nothing to do with that vulgarity they both embarked upon. It is heartbreaking to watch her pain and hurt. But, hopefully after all of this, she will flush the guy and her " what could've been " out of her system for good.

Today's episode, Mauli is literally walking on egg shells. Stupid, superficial Kunal's nonsense continues to be unbearable😡 Hugging his daughter, nor the name of his fragile wife, didn't evoke any memories. But, the saree, jhumkas and the DRAPE of the saree were very clear in his vision😡👎🏼 Eww... grossing me out again. I don't know if any woman/girl can live or cohabit with a guy like this. His whole baby talk, and the name selected for the baby is all emesis provoking. I wish they showed that Mauli almost threw up listening to this😈. I don't know how Mauli or Ishaan held it all in, I myself had a visceral reaction listening and watching that. Ewww... can't say this enough today🤢

I didn't like Mauli's outburst today, blaming Ishaan if he was planning to give Kunal a shock while she and everybody else is trying to get Kunal's memory back. I understand, that she is going through a lot, having to live through Kunal's obsessions and being a fake object of his fantasies, and having to put up with his skin crawling nonsense about him having a child with Mauli😭It is grossing me out just writing this. She needed an outlet and she felt comfortable enough with Ishaan to vent and unload on him😭SHE OWES HIM BIG TIME. Personally, I didn't appreciate this fact nor the fact that she didn't reach out to him and apologize. She reprimanded him as if he was a paid service who didn't follow some kind of instructions👎🏼 Not acceptable. Even with all her angst, she has no right to shoot the messenger😡who is doing the needful. Wrong target par shoot kar li, just because she is mad👎🏼

I didn't find anything wrong with Ishaan's emotional outburst or his simmering anger and hurt which the actor portrayed phenomenally well👍🏼. He didn't trust himself to say anything or sooo hurt by the accusation that he couldn't bring himself to say anything. He needed space for himself and Mauli too. If Mauli doesn't make this right by Ishaan, tomorrow, my guns will be blazing on her

I am disappointed with dida today👎🏼. For being an oldie, she was always very reasonable. But today, a selfish grandmother who cares for her grandson who abandoned her had surfaced and I didn't like that. I hope she doesn't wish for Ishaan to just take care of the kids, fill in the blank as a care taker while Kunal gets better and then disappear from their lives. Her kismat- wale lines are very distasteful. Dida, if the fragile other woman was alive, this kismat would have gone for a toss😡NO,NO, Kunal and Mauli are not connected by kismat💔, they are only connected through Mishti as her divorced parents and nothing else😳.

A word about Ishaan. This guy is no way connected to that Malhotra family, he had no obligation towards them, nor did he have to take care of Pari, nor did he have to part with Mauli for the sake of this drama. He is doing this just for that child, Pari and no one else, like he said. Because, a child is hurting and no matter how the parents have wronged his loved one, he didn't want his judgement be clouded by the parents when it came to the child and her misery. YOU NEED A VERY BIG HEART TO BE ABLE TO DO THIS👏❤️👍🏼 It is not like he is having fun doing this. I hope everybody in the Malhotra household remembers this fact, and uphold this jewel⭐️. I simply didn't like Mauli's or dida's unspoken attitude towards him today😲 May be dida forgot that he was the pillar of support for that household while Kunal was MIA, enjoying, pampering, protecting his fragile wife leaving his disabled grandmother without any care in the world, for 6 long years. I hope they don't see him as a use and throw option😡😡

Mauli owes him big time. This is all I can say. I am ANNOYED with a capital A😡. I can't take her matter of fact attitude when it comes to him.

+/- episode for me. Watch it only to see Ishaan's anger and hurt😳 and the actor's delivery of this emotion👍🏼. Nothing else is worth anything for me today.



I love your whole review and agree with everything except the fight. Here's why.

Mauli did start out yelling at Ishaan and taking out her frustrations with the whole baby talk on to Ishaan, saying that had he not brought the girls, the baby talk wouldn't have happened. This isn't true, because even before the girls walked in, Kunal was eating pakora's and looking up baby names. So it isn't Ishaan or the girls faults that his hormones have gone mad. But that being said, Mauli wasn't there for the pakora scene. But anyways.

Mauli clearly took out her frustrations first, and started yelling first and Ishaan only got mad, after he was getting yelled at, and it was more self defense. So at this point I am leaning towards it being Mauli's fault.

BUT...and here is when the tides changed for me, right when Mauli was telling Ishaan how hard it is for her..he kind of cut her off and said it is hard for him too. I agree, it is. It must be. I am not undermining his feelings. But can he truly compare his jealousy and pain to what she is going through? No. He cannot. She had a rough day with the sari thing already and then the baby talk. She has to guard herself physically at all times. She has to re-live everything she went through. What Ishaan is going through sucks, but it pales in comparison to what Mauli is going through.

And then Ishaan completely lost any support from my side, when he told Mauli at the end that perhaps she had forgotten why they are doing this, but he still remembers they are doing it for Pari. LIKE WHAT?!?! It sounded almost accusatory. Like she is enjoying spending time with her ex. It was his jealousy speaking, but def. a low blow.

And even then, Mauli felt bad - The minute Ishaan started talking about and conveying his feelings, Mauli felt bad. Not once during that convo. did Ishaan feel bad.

Then the next morning, after Mauli told Ishaan NOT to bring the kids, he still did. Again, not a smart move, considering what will happen tomorrow. Yet STILL Mauli felt bad and tried to stop him.

So, for me, it's Ishaan that owes an apology. A.) For his snide remark at the end B.) For not listening to Mauli say how much she has to endure, and instead cutting her off C.) Because Mauli does have it way worse than Ishaan D.) Because Mauli at least was shown to feel bad twice and Ishaan hasn't felt bad as of yet

Even in Friday's episode, which is supposed to be the morning of today's episode. Mauli was the one who apologized to Ishaan and manaoed him. So that makes 3x Mauli has done it (either fully apologized and/or felt bad/tried to apologize) and 0 times Ishaan has done it.

Ishaan is just jealous, it sucks. I get it. But the pain of betrayal is like unbiasedly way worse.

The girl already has so much on her plate. Having to put up with Kunal and his nakhra's, going to clinic, being away from her daughter, being away from Ishaan, the whole sari/baby convo., the whole hotel incident, having to relive memories of the whole betrayal and getting more details of KuNan than she bargained for, matlab, so much on her plate. Let's now pile manao-ing Ishaan. I don't think that is fair at all.
Edited by ritzbitz786 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I feel bad for Ishaan... Mauli, Radhika
, Dida..they just take him for granted. The guy is crazy abt Mauli and is doing her a favour by taking care of the kids. Mauli never for a moment paused to think abt the misery Ishaan may be going thru to see his lady love staying with the ex-husband who thinks he is her husband.

She is also going then her own sort of hell, but taking the frustration out on Ishaan was really not fair.
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Ritzy, Ritzy, 🤗different people, different points of view, my friend 😉. Totally respect your point of view. Let me clarify mine. Here goes:
We know what Mauli is going through, like every little thing she is going through😭. We lived with her through her destruction and living through that again with her in stark detail, skin crawling detail, like we would never want to live through. So we know what she is going through.

Let us now focus on Ishaan. Poor guy doesn't know much, other than she was divorced, has a child and her in laws are her family until recently. It is only recently he came to know that the cheating happened with her own supposed " best friend". He understood that is a very low blow for anybody, much, much worse than any garden-variety cheating/EMA.

Mauli never confided in him as to what she is going through. Mona in Prettywoman's post about Feb 4 episode, pretty much summarized very beautifully. Mauli holds Ishaan at a distance when it comes to confiding in him. Yes, she did say that it was a " torture", but he certainly didn't know anything about the hotel disaster she went through. I am not blaming her for not telling him, it could be because of utter disgust or may be she didn't want to make him more uncomfortable than he already is. He doesn't know anything about the saree, jhumka, food and her understanding of how the whole EMA unfolded and how big of a blow that is. He doesn't know anything about the guy pestering her about children😡All he saw and heard is Kunal proclaiming her to be his wife and that he is planning to have children with her. That ought to make any guy / girl ( Ishaan and Mauli ) disgusted and uncomfortable to say the least . Added to that , I don't blame the guy if he is also jealous and insecure.

Now add to this, Mauli's outburst about why he brought the children and if he is trying to shock Kunal while everybody is trying so hard to make him better is going to rub him the wrong way. He is going to get defensive. Because, he really doesn't know where she is coming from, other than that she is ACCUSING HIM OF ENDANGERING KUNAL by bringing the children and not trusting his judgement. It came across to me as if she is blaming a paid service of going against a written contract👎🏼When you trusted the guy to take care of the kids, shouldn't you trust his judgement as well for the safety and well-being of the kids? He is not a matron taking care of the kids without any responsibility.

Now coming to his " you are forgetting all of this living with Kunal" . I didn't see it as him accusing her that she was having fun with Kunal. But rather, that alleviating Pari's misery and well being are the primary end point, secondary end point is Kunal's memory and health ( for Pari's sake ONLY ). When her remarks hinted at " shocking Kunal" and endangering him, that angered him and so he came back with his justification that he didn't forget that the bigger picture is Pari and her well being and he did what he did for that. May be living with Kunal and forever embroiled in whatever is going on with him, she has forgotten that Pari's emotional health is why they are doing all this. AND IT IS NOT EASY FOR HIM either.

Not sure why he took them back again. I truly didn't pay attention, as I assumed it was a for a follow up with Kunal as they planned the day before. Let me give you a simpler example on why I am faulting Mauli here. Let us say, I had a tough day at work, and somebody annoyed me to no end, I come home and get mad at husband for not feeding the kiddo properly. I expect him to defend himself for unfairly accusing him of not being a good enough parent. When I understand where he is coming from ( that I am attacking his parental skills ), it becomes my responsibility to apologize and tell him the background of what is going on with me. So, this is why I expect Mauli to apologize, let him know what is happening with her and the chichora guy, so he understands where she is coming from. Here, she is attacking him of being an irresponsible person, which is not her intention🤢. Trying to speak/ say sorry when somebody comes to your doorstep, NEVER A GOOD THING 👎🏼seems like an after thought to me. If you are trying to apologize, like dil se, you might need to follow them around and pester till they actually hear you out.

One thing I would like to stress. Mauli might feel obligated to help Pari, Radhika and dida, however low that obligation might be. But Ishaan has no responsibility, no obligation towards anybody to do any of what he is doing. He is related to that family only through Mauli and Mishti. He IS DOING EVERYTHING OUT OF THE GOODNESS OF HIS HEART. By extension, he is doing this for Mauli and Pari. In the process, he is putting himself through a wringer😭. I wouldn't underestimate what he is going through in the process.

Wow !!! Spoke too much. Even, I am tired of my own lecture😃. Anyway, this is what I see in this fight.
Edited by mili9 - 6 years ago
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@mili 🤗 😳 Brilliantly Placed Thoughts on Ishaan ⭐️ Star with Diamond Heart ❤️ ...
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@Mili, fam, don't worry, I feel you. Was just adding my two cents.

Even now, I get it, Mauli straight up displaced (psychological defense mechanism) her anger on to Ishaan. That's why I think in the beginning she was at fault, but later on, it was def. him.

And come tomorrow, when the KuNan thing happens (the apartment stunt the kids pull), Mauli will definitely say "told you so."

Also I agree that Ishaan, without having any relation to the Malhotra's is helping them out, which is amazing. Again, not undermining his jealousy or his caring nature or anything. But that within itself doesn't mean that he's always right or will be right. Like the fact that he's a gem, or that he has a heart of gold, and he's helping people not even related to him, etc. isn't an excuse for his anger.

At the end of the day, I do hope that Mauli isn't the only one who apologizes. I hope that Ishaan does too.

And finally I agree, that Mauli should give him more detail, as to what's going on. Instead of vague statements like it's "torture" for her, or that she's having a hard time. We don't know her intentions for doing this. Like Mona said it's because she's keeping him at a distance OR like you said it's because she doesn't want him to feel worse than he already does. But whatever the reason is, even though her statements are vague, at least she is expressing what she's going through.

Like if my fiance (or even a friend or family member) told me they were feeling bad without giving a reason/more detail, just them telling me they are feeling bad, would be reason enough for me to be more empathetic/sympathetic towards them.

Plus, Ishaan knows at least that Mauli got cheated on with Kunal. Just with that one huge detail, again, he should know how much pain it all causes her.

Again, just my two cents. Definitely thinks it needs to be a two sided apology. I would honestly be disappointed if it weren't.
Edited by ritzbitz786 - 6 years ago
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@Ritz 😳 don't worry Dear 😛 Ishaan ❤️ apologize Surely before Mauli 😉 his outburst is over and he always introspect Wat he doing and done 😛 is Favourable or not 👏 The Traces /Shades of Rudra in Ishaan leading me to think wat his next step might be 😛 A Honest Apology for a Moment of Reaction he had in flow 😛 which melt Mauli further more to have him for herself 😳 😛 ..

he need to see Wat Mauli going through too that he never seen 😛 She need to allow more of herself too ishaan Space to avoid further understanding issues 😛 ..

MauHaan ❤️ Love Deepens By More Upcomings 👍🏼 ..
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Originally posted by: vinnas

@Ritz 😳 don't worry Dear 😛 Ishaan ❤️ apologize Surely before Mauli 😉 his outburst is over and he always introspect Wat he doing and done 😛 is Favourable or not 👏 The Traces /Shades of Rudra in Ishaan leading me to think wat his next step might be 😛 A Honest Apology for a Moment of Reaction he had in flow 😛 which melt Mauli further more to have him for herself 😳 😛 ..

he need to see Wat Mauli going through too that he never seen 😛 She need to allow more of herself too ishaan Space to avoid further understanding issues 😛 ..

MauHaan ❤️ Love Deepens By More Upcomings 👍🏼 ..



That is true Vinnas!

In fact, maybe they will be in a long hug, and Mauli will be crying on his shoulder and they will both be saying sorry to one another, and Ishaan will then kiss Mauli on the forehead and then...

Kunal will see them and karma will be served 😆
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