Was naina wrong or vishaka wrong

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Was it a mistake what naina did by telling sameer that vishaka and Mami ji were talking bad about her and her family even though she knows that sameer is hot tempered guy and will not sit quiet.

Vishaka thinks even before marriage naina is creating rifts between her and her son.

Will this worsen the situation and create more differences between naina and vishaka

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Actually the situation is wrong. Looking at the situation naina ko batana nahi chahiye tha. She wasn't going to tell sameer. But Sam insisted that's why she told him. So she in not at fault. Any mother will think this chugalkhori. So vishakha is also not wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Both were not wrong...beech main Sameer ka sandwich..😆😆😆
I loved Vishakhas acting yesterday..and also Sameer and nainas nok jhok..about food drink clothes jewellery and what not..this is typically what happens in an Indian Shaadi...love shuv gets all thrown out of the window and you start bickering over all silly things😃

It was a well written episode yesterday..kudos to writers👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Isn't Vishakha the one who is trying to stop the wedding? She and Mami are calling her all kinds of names like jhalli, lalchi, middle class, and are taunting their family.. They are the ones who are trying to make Sameer leave Naina and today she says Naina is creating rift between Mom and Son.
Here I would say in a way Sameer was at fault because he blurted out what Naina shared with him in confidence. Naina shared upon Sameer's insistence and to,d him to just leave the matter but angry Sameer blurted it out.

Vishakha's anger was more due to the fact that they got caught. The Evil 4 in Maheshwari House are unable to digest the fact that the engagement is happening.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Both were right in their places ...she told sameer as he insisted and sh was behaving like typical saas .
Sameer didnt say anythinf till then they again started that ring drama ,degraded her
So he blurted all in anger and lately in the room he tried to convinced vishakha but right now she is not in senses and taking everything in a wrong way

I think,naina shuld do some effort for mending their relation
The more sameer to take the side of naina,the more vishakha will start hating naina.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nobody. Sameer get his angry behavior from vishaka.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: soniadutta

Both were right in their places ...she told sameer as he insisted and sh was behaving like typical saas .

Sameer didnt say anythinf till then they again started that ring drama ,degraded her
So he blurted all in anger and lately in the room he tried to convinced vishakha but right now she is not in senses and taking everything in a wrong way

I think,naina shuld do some effort for mending their relation
The more sameer to take the side of naina,the more vishakha will start hating naina.





But, they are going to be life partners. If he doesn't take her side even if she is correct and truthful then what should he do. Vishaka is becoming more insecure.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deepaananf



But, they are going to be life partners. If he doesn't take her side even if she is correct and truthful then what should he do. Vishaka is becoming more insecure.

He has already trying to take side of her many times and even behaving rude with family but its not helping at all .

But its now naina turn to do things alright between them and sameer always being her side
He never left her alone for suffering .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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According to me both Sameer and Naina are handling things much wiser that adults especially Maheswaris. For Vishakha it is pure ego and insecurities that is making her do all these things. Sameer was doing something that Somani never did in their entire life. Questioning his mother for misbehavior towards his wife. This is something that every wife will wish from their husband.

Vishakha knew very well that Naina understands, love and care Sameer much more they she. So she fears that if this marriage happens then she may completely lose whatever remaining position she holds in Sameer's life. To avoid that she wants to fill his mind with all negativity related to Naina and her family.

Vishakha always had conditional love towards Sameer. Today also she is doing the same thing. If he is not wearing outfit of her choice then she and none of the family members will come for the engagement ceremony.

This clearly shows that richness and age is not at all a factor for maturity, politeness and civility.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Vishakha was correct to phone Naina and speak her mind. Now both Naina and Sameer should think before reacting to gossip. Naina overheard a conversation not meant for her, she should thus not have repeated it to Sameer. Sameer forced Naina to indicate what was troubling her. He should thus not have confronted Vishakha about her private conversation with Mamiji.

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