The married man who cheats

First i once read men cheat because they can. They have found the opportunity, a willing partner and have calculated that they wont get caught. Even if cheating men claim they got carried away, at some point they have calculated the risks and rewards and made the decision.

2) they are liars. Chances are they are lying to the married woman about their wife. They are not goibg to say i have a good wife. She sacrifices for me or takes care of me. They will say my wife doesnt understand me. She has problems. I dont love her. Understand if you are the other woman he is lying to you. I assume no woman has such low self esteem that she will spread herself for a happily married man.

3) he is still having sex, unprotected with his wife. She isnt jumping him or demanding it. He is. If he says hes not, dear other woman he is lying

4)he wants his cake and will eat it too. Most cheaters do not leave their wives and family. About 10% of cheaters do. These are men who have been looking for the right time to exit. Whether or not he tells the other woman she is the love of his life. Hes lying. He once said that to his wife. Relationships and marriages starting in an ema have about 7%, 7 ou of a 100, of being successful. This is because that quality the cheater had that drove him to cheat with you will not disappear once he is with you. Take a good look at him. Hes still the lying conniving sneaky rat you found so tiltilating.

5) hes bored. Hes going through a life changing event (no job or new jo, illness, new child, death, etc). He has no coping skills. This is how he deals with the pressure of life. This is what he will do when the two of you are in your love den. He will flee and cheat when things go bad. Its how he deals

6) it has NOTHING to do with you dear other woman. You are not special. No you are not radha krishna. You are convenient. If someone with your qualities come along, it would have been her. You have no great love. You have the lust we all feel when a romance starts. Yours is a little more exciting because your affair is illicit. That sexual lust will fade. Now your prize is your cheater

7)he is a taker, not a giver. He takes love not give it. He looks OUTWARDS for his happiness. He is incapable of being happy by himself. He expects you to make him happy and when you cant he will look elsewhere. Be careful of those who are so shallow and devoid of depth that they look to others for happiness. They take love not give it. Users

8) they cannot be trusted. But as the other woman u already kno this. They have no boundaries. They adhere to no committment. Such a person is capable of anything.

Last, love is God. It should not be descecrated on the altar of lust. Anything devoid of virtue or self sacrifice is not love. It is not divine. It is not sanctioned by God or any rule such as karma. U will damage yourself. U cannot touch shit and come out clean

And finally EVERY woman or man deserves to be the ONLY one. If u chose to share a man you are no good to your core and lack any self love.