Originally posted by: Rithu0203
@Bold: Means the writers are trying to say that Kunal and Mauli had this gap/space before Nandini came into picture??
Even if it's so, now at this point Kunal must be knowing what is that gap or space between him and Mauli right? coz, he himself telling that Nandini didn't come in between them, until unless there is a gap between husband and wife. So what's that thing created the gap between them?? Is it Mauli not spending enough time with him? or is it Mauli not always dependent on Kunal? or not giving him the feel that he is most wanted? etc..😕
Yes, he said that there might be a gap or a space between them for him to move away from M. See, Nandini did not intentionally enticed Kunal right? She developed feelings and she kept it to herself. Kunal himself got attracted or attached to Nandini. For him to develop those feelings, there should have been a gap right, a space in his heart, something that Mauli did not fulfill, something that was missing in their relationship. IMO, i think it was his savior, protective instinct that he has and his need to protect Nandini turned into care and then something much more. A need to take care. With Mauli he did not have that.
Some men do have that and I have seen strong career women acting like damsel in distress at home just because they want to be taken care of and the men want to take care of their women. Its not ego, just a basic need of a person be it man or woman. Even if we say it started with lust but with time its became much more than that because Nandini kept filling that space and now their relationship is much more than physical. Its more of mutual companionship and understanding. In the past days, Cvs have been showing that to us, the contrast of what it was, what its now for K and M and what it is for K and N,
The right thing to do would have been to keep those feelings locked and continue with the marriage, find out why he is feeling the pull and take measures to negate them, try to rekindle the spark in the marriage, and if that was not possible then just sacrifice for the greater good or separate from Mauli before starting the relationship with Nandini. Instead of stopping himself from feeling, he should have analyzed why he is feeling and what is lacking in his marriage for him to feel this way for another woman. They were married for 7 years and if he was happy for so long, he should have taken the time to understand why he is drifting away towards Nandini. If at that time he would have done that and try to bridge it, things would have been very different but he was on a mission and now even if he tries he cannot bridge. Most importantly he does not want to.
I think at confession itself he knew and had accepted that it was too late for Mauli and him.
Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago
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