Aaliyah - Classic case of disrespecting parents

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

Aaliyah - she is a classic case of how to berate your parents and put down their dignity in front of others always.

How does she expect her in-laws to respect her parents when she herself keeps insulting them and shutting them up in front of her in-laws ?

Mani and Shagun had always stood up for her , fought for her but Aaliyah has never respected it.

I agree that Both the parent has always behaved in a hyper way but it's a girls duty to explain the parents as well as in - laws properly and not berate the other for one publically.

Aaliyah has failed terribly in it. She has always shut Mani's mouth and supported the Bhalla's in all their decisions be it accepting lil Adi or getting Roshini into the house.

Bhalla never had to do anything as Aaliyah herself fought from their side leaving nothing for the parents to speak further.

Even today she put Mani down. I agree that Mani was hastening the process of marriage and she was irritated with all this Rohan and marriage thing but she reacted when Ishita asked Mani to stay away from Aaliyah as she is their daughter now and they - Mani and Shagun don't need to interfere in her life which was a very wrong statement.

Parents always have first right on their child and they would never think wrong about their kid. Asking them to give up rights was wrong and Aaliyah should have pulled Ishita on that statement and also politely asked Mani to give her some time . That would have been the most proper way.

She should have looked at the pride look on IshRa's face when she took their side and berated Mani . A girl should give a chance to their in-laws to give That expression when they fight for them with strangers and not by berating their own parents

Aaliyah filled me.with disgust today.

Edited by abhilasha_dream - 7 years ago

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Posted: 7 years ago

I do agree with what you're saying but at the same time, they are making decisions for her like she's a child and cannot make her own decisions.

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

I agree with all that but supporting your in laws when they ask your parents to back off is not right.

Her screaming tone comes out only in front of Mani and Shagun . Why did she not scream at Bhallas and Ishita for crushing her emotions during Rossini's time ? It's always the parents who faces the brunt. I so wish along with Ishita , ShagMani also becomes parent of their own child and then start neglecting Aaliyah. She will then realize their worth

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Posted: 7 years ago

Lets make this as fun?

What if instead this ADI was their son and Aliya was bahu of Shani and naginmaa.

What happened yesterday and before , same ditto..

Then..Aliya shouting at ishra...but talking nicely with Shagmani as their are her parents in law..

Then what is your take on?

Aliya is right,

Aliya is taking time not to rush, ishra are correct..there have made blunders so taking time would help rather then rushing.

Aliya is right, Shagmani never ever helped her even needed..ex..her gambling..Mani gave money to shut .told her to stop...what further action did the great papa and mama do .nothing

It was Ishita who took incentive...it was ishra and adiya faced trouble..Ishita was blamed..did great couple had to say anything in cleaing..no...

Just like Ballal , Mani us centric...but Mani is always Shani with nagin on side..

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: sreeu12345
Lets make this as fun?
What if instead this ADI was their son and Aliya was bahu of Shani and naginmaa.

What happened yesterday and before , same ditto..

Then..Aliya shouting at ishra...but talking nicely with Shagmani as their are her parents in law..

Then what is your take on?

Aliya is right,
Aliya is taking time not to rush, ishra are correct..there have made blunders so taking time would help rather then rushing.

Aliya is right, Shagmani never ever helped her even needed..ex..her gambling..Mani gave money to shut .told her to stop...what further action did the great papa and mama do .nothing

It was Ishita who took incentive...it was ishra and adiya faced trouble..Ishita was blamed..did great couple had to say anything in cleaing..no...

Just like Ballal , Mani us centric...but Mani is always Shani with nagin on side..

My take would have been the same if it was Adi or anybody else.

I have made statements even when Ruhi, Adi or Pihu have disrespected IshRa as parents.

Mani might have taken rash desicions but if I look at it from Aaliyah's side , she was not an easy child to deal with herself.

Moreover they did very petty things which could be solved like Shagun flaring up at Raman for behaving badly with Aaliyah, etc.

When on the other hand Bhallas had been cruel with Aaliyah. By saying that she is like daughter they have never considered her feelings into consideration much be it - inviting her parents for Bhalla ji's birthday party, inviting Shagun and then publicaly shaming her, not taking Aaliyah's feelings while pampering Roshini etc.

In fact when Aaliyah faced the biggest problem in her life - Adi's extra-marital affair . IshRa did not look into it much and took Adi's words whereas it was Shagun's efforts that paid up. Adi came into open full fledged and all his misdeeds were revealed.

Coming down to her gambling addiction, Ishita did exactly what Mani did - gave money to borrowers and asked Aaliyah to stop all this act. The difference being Aaliyah did not pay heed to Mani's words but listened to Ishita's words.

And yes ! Mani is hastening up and even I don't agree to his steps but there is a way to say things rather than react specially at the word where Ishita slammed them and asked them to back off as parents.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: sreeu12345
Lets make this as fun?
What if instead this ADI was their son and Aliya was bahu of Shani and naginmaa.

What happened yesterday and before , same ditto..

Then..Aliya shouting at ishra...but talking nicely with Shagmani as their are her parents in law..

Then what is your take on?

Aliya is right,
Aliya is taking time not to rush, ishra are correct..there have made blunders so taking time would help rather then rushing.

Aliya is right, Shagmani never ever helped her even needed..ex..her gambling..Mani gave money to shut .told her to stop...what further action did the great papa and mama do .nothing

It was Ishita who took incentive...it was ishra and adiya faced trouble..Ishita was blamed..did great couple had to say anything in cleaing..no...

Just like Ballal , Mani us centric...but Mani is always Shani with nagin on side..

Completely agree. Mani and Shagun did nothing to help Aaliya when she was in trouble with gambling and truthfully, the Bhalla's have supported Aaliya as well.

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Aaliyah - Classic case of disrespecting parents

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