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Antara123

@Antara123

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

The other man/woman need not be bad or un-empathetic. Love happens in the wrong places sometimes. They are unforgivable but they happen. I don't look down upon the other person usually, I like how they portray it in movies and on TV, in the sense not support it, but how they show human behaviour when it happens. It's condemnable but true enough.

However, this show is different in the sense I am not able to relate to the portrayal at all. The characters contradict themselves so much and so not realistically and humanly that it doesn't seem natural or understandable. I am not able to relate at all .

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Padmajaan

@Padmajaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Even I like to watch realistic stuff, which leaves you in splits. 12 year old me would see things as black & white but 22 year old me just can't ignore the grey part of the world which happens to exist to much greater depth than simple black & white. Grey is the area that is practical while black-white is the ideal like utopia-dystopia where utopia is impossible while dystopia is easy to transcend to.

One of the reasons I began to watch this show because I wanted to see how a man like Kunal would fall for Nandini & how and why a marriage like that of Kunal-Mauli would fall. I wanted to see the complex fight a sensible character like Nandini would put when she is torn between a friend like Mauli & her desire to belong to a man like Kunal. I wanted to see a fight Kunal would put. I thought I would get to see two emotionally grey characters.

And the show disappointed me big time. This is not a show I had imagined, it's a mess by all means. The characters here are on extremes. And the damage now has been done that no attempt to show them as grey would work now.

P.S- What miracles are you talking about?

About being on the same page as you.😃

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

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Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

About being on the same page as you.😃

I have always been on this page with regards to this show, but then makers screwed with the story that screwed with my head too. 😆

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441597

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Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: aeyyychalll
Yes!!! The other man/woman is always the wrong person according to me. irrespective of the situation the other person is, falling in love with a married person is off limits. Even if you fall in love there are many ways to avoid your juzzbaaat 🤪

You cannot control who you fall for.

Going for the married person is disgusting/OK based on circumstances.

But it's not that the other person is always a bad human being.

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 7 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You cannot control who you fall for.

Going for the married person is disgusting/OK based on circumstances.

But it's not that the other person is always a bad human being.

Good andbad/ right or wrong are relative terms . which depends on the pov.Which depends on what we will do or think when in similar situation . Nandini is getting maximum bashing because audience relate to mauli the most. If i were nandini i will probably never do what she did ..but where is the goodness in her ? How do you say that she is a good person ? I can see something good in kunal also , in the beginning . Not for being a. Wonderful husband to mauli but for his views , his approach to life ..have we seen anything goodfromnandinis side ?

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Mehr

@mehr05

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Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Having an Extra marital affair is not something done out of the blue.

Only those involved in it can understand why they risk all for their love.

No marriage is perfect. The institution of marriage itself is becoming obsolete.(at least, here, in my country)...

People marry for various reason apart love...family obligations, infatuation, biological clock ticking, societal pressure, parents pressure, or the funniest one i've cone across recently...to feel how is it to be a bride😆

Such person who married for any reason n feels trapped in such kind of commitment where he/she can't bring himself or herself any ounce of happiness, what should he/she do? Easy to say come clean n divorce, but the spouse can find divorce tag to heavy to bear...n the procedure of divorce too costly.

What abt an unhappy married man who after years of struggling in an unsuccessful union, finds true love n THE woman who is like his soulmate? He wants to come out of that marriage but again, pressure from family, from the wife who refuses to part, punish the guy for loving someone else by sticking to him so that he neither can leave nor oust her out bkoz of kids, involved?

N the other woman, well, like someone pointed out above, no one loves the tag "mistress" n no selfrespecting woman would like to share her man. It doesn't make her an ill person if she fell in love with a married man. Love is indeed a pure emotion. N if the man loves her equally, how long can a single woman resist? It depends on how much emotionally she's involved. She'll grow possessive n sooner or later, demand rights. Rights that she knows she'll get only if someone else would be deprived of them. Its no easy thing to live an EMA.

Each n everyone suffer.

The wife for losing him.

The man for sailing in two boats. Stuck to a wife he fell out of love n from being away day n night from his love.

The other woman for living in a hell, a secret life, most of the time, not of her choice.