Originally posted by: FruitToasty
I don't like these labels, don't label or generalize people, I don't like when someone says I am talking against Nandini because she's a woman, if Nandini being a woman was factor for me, why would I support Mauli? Isn't Mauli a woman? Most of the people who blame Nandini don't blame her for seducing Kunal, they don't blame her because they care about Kunal or Rajdeep, they blame her for what she has done to Mauli and Mauli is also a woman, how difficult is it to understand? How is it sexism? If people chose Kunal, a man to support they would have opposed both Nandini and Mauli because both are women, thats as easy as that but most of us who are labeled sexist and what not support Mauli
Nandini herself is flag bearer of sexism, she is submissive, she needs a man to survive, she will backstab her own friend to get a man, am I supposed to love her for being what I don't want women to be? In contrast Mauli is all about today's woman, she is strong, even if women are not financially stable they should not be submissive, they should not tolerate abuse of years and cry at drop of a hat, it's not easy to get out of an abusive marriage but it doesn't mean you shouldn't even try, I don't have an ounce of respect for Nandini, she is not what I want to be or want to see.
My expectations from Nandini is not because she's a woman, I do have expectations from men as well, I don't understand why everything has to be differentiated, why people use issues like feminism to suit a particular narrative? Anyway, I have expectations from Nandini because in all this she knows the pain of a broken relationship, she knows what mauli is going through because when she was there, it was Mauli who helped her, my anger against her comes from the fact that Mauli told Nandini, in easiest possible way that she's empty inside, but what did Nandini do? She didn't even think to inform Mauli or Dida about Kunal's whereabouts, she took him home, when he started ignoring her, she says "Kunal kheer ko na nahi kahenge", that's it, the sugar in her kheer is binding Kunal to her, why do people want me to praise her? Respect is earned, I won't respect her because she's a woman that's against feminism and extremely sexist.
I don't agree that posts are not made against Kunal, wasn't he bashed for changing password? He had one line and post was made on that one line, you can check the title "Let me explain" or "I can explain" last night he had an accident, what should we write about that? Wasn't Kunal bashed the most when he fell for Nandini? Post topics are made to discuss the episode, Kunal's single dialogue is taken to criticize him, just don't turn it into men VS women, I understand people want to support Nandini but Mauli is a woman too and I am choosing Mauli over Nandini