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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I don't like these labels, don't label or generalize people, I don't like when someone says I am talking against Nandini because she's a woman, if Nandini being a woman was factor for me, why would I support Mauli? Isn't Mauli a woman? Most of the people who blame Nandini don't blame her for seducing Kunal, they don't blame her because they care about Kunal or Rajdeep, they blame her for what she has done to Mauli and Mauli is also a woman, how difficult is it to understand? How is it sexism? If people chose Kunal, a man to support they would have opposed both Nandini and Mauli because both are women, thats as easy as that but most of us who are labeled sexist and what not support Mauli

Nandini herself is flag bearer of sexism, she is submissive, she needs a man to survive, she will backstab her own friend to get a man, am I supposed to love her for being what I don't want women to be? In contrast Mauli is all about today's woman, she is strong, even if women are not financially stable they should not be submissive, they should not tolerate abuse of years and cry at drop of a hat, it's not easy to get out of an abusive marriage but it doesn't mean you shouldn't even try, I don't have an ounce of respect for Nandini, she is not what I want to be or want to see.

My expectations from Nandini is not because she's a woman, I do have expectations from men as well, I don't understand why everything has to be differentiated, why people use issues like feminism to suit a particular narrative? Anyway, I have expectations from Nandini because in all this she knows the pain of a broken relationship, she knows what mauli is going through because when she was there, it was Mauli who helped her, my anger against her comes from the fact that Mauli told Nandini, in easiest possible way that she's empty inside, but what did Nandini do? She didn't even think to inform Mauli or Dida about Kunal's whereabouts, she took him home, when he started ignoring her, she says "Kunal kheer ko na nahi kahenge", that's it, the sugar in her kheer is binding Kunal to her, why do people want me to praise her? Respect is earned, I won't respect her because she's a woman that's against feminism and extremely sexist.

I don't agree that posts are not made against Kunal, wasn't he bashed for changing password? He had one line and post was made on that one line, you can check the title "Let me explain" or "I can explain" last night he had an accident, what should we write about that? Wasn't Kunal bashed the most when he fell for Nandini? Post topics are made to discuss the episode, Kunal's single dialogue is taken to criticize him, just don't turn it into men VS women, I understand people want to support Nandini but Mauli is a woman too and I am choosing Mauli over Nandini




This trend is Selective Feminism where women themselves play the woman card to justify their actions. Since when did sleeping around means woman empowerment. Real woman empowerment is being strong, independent, honest, kind & refusing to take bull shit. Mauli & Kunal's mom are true feminists in this story. In fact I loved how in the whole confrontation with Kunal Mauli not once dragged Nandini's name. All her quests were like How could u do this do me? How could you cheat me, betray my trust. She blamed only Kunal. In Mauli's eyes both her husband & her friend are EQUALLY responsible. She dint tell Nandini how dare u seduce my hubby. She only said how could u break my trust. This is 1 of the main reason y audience love Mauli. Her integrity shines thru. Even in this most difficult time of her life she still gave the clinic key to Kunal. Believe me in her shoes I wouldnt b so magnanimous. She dint create a scene in public area. She cried in the bathroom in private. Not crying buckets & vibrating bef ppl 2 get sympathy. To Mauli even her pain is something private & she is dignified even in her heart break. Even while scolding Nandini she never used any bad words. Again I w'd ve used the most colorful words in her position. I w'd slapped Kunal. Even when faced with such a colossal betrayal she is still caring. She dint barge into the hospital & create a scene. Mauli is the shining example of true feminism 👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

This silsila of posts on nandini hv not started after revelation it started on when they were in secret affair.Revelation was shown last week and shaming posts on nandini started from day 1 of affair She was shamed for deceiving maulidhe which she deserved of course .Everyone from this forum was shaming nandini including me that is other thing I made posts on both.I can find you all posts even before their physical relationship all with abusive words for nandini and ppl sparing kunal saying that they hv no expectation from him.Why no expectations from him .he is committed one here so why let him go.Does kunal regretting or being guilty is going to change anything .he is being guilty becoz he lost everything in this affair whereas nandini has nothing to loose except she lost mauli which I don't think she considered her frnd .She is wrong no doubt .Kunal is still confused what he want in his life he messed the life of two women for his harmones still he is better human than nandini just becoz he is showing some guilt.Where was his guilt when nandini in restaurant told him they r doing wrong at that time he said he will tell mauli.he started whole affair and pole here are s**t shaming nandini as if she seduced him.If nandini is pathetic do is Kunal .Guilt or no guilt is not going to change the fact both hv committed sin because what they did can't be undone.

Why are we all questioning others opinion on the characters? If one feels Kunal should be equally criticized then create post as simple as that. But questioning why you expect from this character and that character is totally differs the purpose of forum. Every one are free to have opinions so no one needs to be told how to react to character and how many post should be made about a character. Leave others space to express how they feel about the show.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Anahi

@saazhumsafars - nobody is stopping you from talking about sexism. nobody can actually! but saying that everyone is doing that and few are not is something that making me write this post.. also, ihave mentioned several reasons for which nandini is bashed more than kunal.. i dont want to repeat those.. its not man vs woman..

when i look at mauli's mother , i feel sorry for mauli.. her mother is the best example of people you are talking about... i am proud of mauli for the person she is.. growing up in such family where your mother is the biggest enemy of yours is not easy.. i can defend mauli by saying her mother has taught this to her or she is also a child who is been grown up in a patriarchal society just like nandini. but no i wont use that excuse.. she simply didnt mean that.. it was an emotional outburst and mockery .. she knows kunal and nandini both are wrong amd it is a fact for her..

Mauli is the perfect example of taking positive things even in worst of situation. She could have easily had the same mentality of her mother but she choosed to be not like her. That's what strong character is all about. Taking your own decisions and choosing to be better human.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34
@vlhs12993 - indeed mauli is a strong character and is setting a good example for all women watching her.. and i agree if people want to bash kunal then they can go ahead.. i am sure if that is worth discussing people will discuss that too..
i am like going round and round in circles saying simple things in different ways. anyway. its nice to hear different views.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#35
I think it's an excuse; her fans can't stand us bashing her. Not gonna stop me. So they put up these spurious posts looking to what? I dunno. It's not like I am going to side with a homewrecker. the woman card is an excuse to stop the conversation on this board because if people were really looking, they'd see EVERYONE hates Kunal; at least Nandani still has supporters😉😉

What else can be the explanation? I mean who can sanely say anything about the beliefs or values of posters in real life? It's nonsensical. So, I think they want to just stop the discussion. I mean I like Rajdeep; you don't see me complaining about posts bashing him. I laugh because he deserves it. he's a bad guy and people should bash him.









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Posted: 6 years ago
#36
This place is funny
They keep tab on number of post made on kunal and Nandini. Not to forget eagerly waiting for the moment when Mauli makes a mistake and they get a chance to trash her.

But who asked them not to make posts on kunal? Is there password on 'New post' option for them? Or their warning level is high and they are not allowed to click on 'New post'? In any case, not our fault.

This asking clarification and justfication is just bullshit.

First tried to play victim card like give our Nandini free pass on the base of her abusive past, later tried to make it look like kunal is the one who is taking advantage of little nannu, then tried to divert attention towards non existing mental illnesses, at last tried level best to put blame on Mauli with her non existing faults. Now, 'women card' is new in market, let's see how long it lasts.

They have problem with actors getting targeted who are public figure but there's no issue when they declare us- 'the members' with f**king mentality who are behind someone because of gender? Best part is most of us belong to same gender. *Slow claps*

Now a days episodes are all about Rondu nandu. Kunal is either sleeping or totally confused. He's a joker who started this entire lust leela, but he himself has no idea how to take it forward. So he has nothing to say, jab uske pas kehne ko kuch nahi, then what to talk about him?

Other side Nandini is acting like pagli. She herself is legally married with someone but in her non existing brain she has fixed that she's wife of her ex friend's legal husband. Then she makes kheer on abnormal occasion. She is proud of her beshrmi that she fell in love with a married man and became home wrecker for her bestie. She doesn't understand after this revealation everyone needs some space, keep texting , calling and forcing herself on kunal. Everyone wish to see more confrontation between kunal-mauli, but they keep showing pagalpanti of sati nandu. Then you can't expect people to talk about an apple when focus is on orange.

This is not normal cheating case, it's worst betrayal case. Mauli pulled her out of hell, in return she intentionally kicked same Mauli in same hell. Same Mauli who saved her from asshole like Rajdeep. Nandini knows she owes her entire life to Mauli but still she continued her hormonal imbalance activities and not to forger, she is super proud of her beshrmi. And still people feel she is getting targeted JUST because of her gender when she is doing nothing. 😆


You know in this case, more than cheating, ehsaanfaramoshi is making people bash Nandini more, not her gender.


Edited by White..Magic - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: White..Magic

This place is funny

They keep tab on number of post made on kunal and Nandini. Not to forget eagerly waiting for the moment when Mauli makes a mistake and they get a chance to trash her.

But who asked them not to make posts on kunal? Is there password on 'New post' option for them? Or their warning level is high and they are not allowed to click on 'New post'? In any case, not our fault.

This asking clarification and justfication is just bullshit.

First tried to play victim card like give our Nandini free pass on the base of her abusive past, later tried to make it look like kunal is the one who is taking advantage of little nannu, then tried to divert attention towards non existing mental illnesses, at last tried level best to put blame on Mauli with her non existing faults. Now, 'women card' is new in market, let's see how long it lasts.

They have problem with actors getting targeted who are public figure but there's no issue when they declare us- 'the members' with f**king mentality who are behind someone because of gender? Best part is most of us belong to same gender. *Slow claps*

Now a days episodes are all about Rondu nandu. Kunal is either sleeping or totally confused. He's a joker who started this entire lust leela, but he himself has no idea how to take it forward. So he has nothing to say, jab uske pas kehne ko kuch nahi, then what to talk about him?

Other side Nandini is acting like pagli. She herself is legally married with someone but in her non existing brain she has fixed that she's wife of her ex friend's legal husband. Then she makes kheer on abnormal occasion. She is proud of her beshrmi that she fell in love with a married man and became home wrecker for her bestie. She doesn't understand after this revealation everyone needs some space, keep texting , calling and forcing herself on kunal. Everyone wish to see more confrontation between kunal-mauli, but they keep showing pagalpanti of sati nandu. Then you can't expect people to talk about an apple when focus is on orange.

This is not normal cheating case, it's worst betrayal case. Mauli pulled her out of hell, in return she intentionally kicked same Mauli in same hell. Same Mauli who saved her from asshole like Rajdeep. Nandini knows she owes her entire life to Mauli but still she continued her hormonal imbalance activities and not to forger, she is super proud of her beshrmi. And still people feel she is getting targeted JUST because of her gender when she is doing nothing. 😆


You know in this case, more than cheating, ehsaanfaramoshi is making people bash Nandini more, not her gender.



@bold. The revulsion for the character of Nandini is well explained by you.
Dont know why it is thought of as gender problem. 😕



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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: White..Magic

This place is funny

They keep tab on number of post made on kunal and Nandini. Not to forget eagerly waiting for the moment when Mauli makes a mistake and they get a chance to trash her.

But who asked them not to make posts on kunal? Is there password on 'New post' option for them? Or their warning level is high and they are not allowed to click on 'New post'? In any case, not our fault.

This asking clarification and justfication is just bullshit.

First tried to play victim card like give our Nandini free pass on the base of her abusive past, later tried to make it look like kunal is the one who is taking advantage of little nannu, then tried to divert attention towards non existing mental illnesses, at last tried level best to put blame on Mauli with her non existing faults. Now, 'women card' is new in market, let's see how long it lasts.

They have problem with actors getting targeted who are public figure but there's no issue when they declare us- 'the members' with f**king mentality who are behind someone because of gender? Best part is most of us belong to same gender. *Slow claps*

Now a days episodes are all about Rondu nandu. Kunal is either sleeping or totally confused. He's a joker who started this entire lust leela, but he himself has no idea how to take it forward. So he has nothing to say, jab uske pas kehne ko kuch nahi, then what to talk about him?

Other side Nandini is acting like pagli. She herself is legally married with someone but in her non existing brain she has fixed that she's wife of her ex friend's legal husband. Then she makes kheer on abnormal occasion. She is proud of her beshrmi that she fell in love with a married man and became home wrecker for her bestie. She doesn't understand after this revealation everyone needs some space, keep texting , calling and forcing herself on kunal. Everyone wish to see more confrontation between kunal-mauli, but they keep showing pagalpanti of sati nandu. Then you can't expect people to talk about an apple when focus is on orange.

This is not normal cheating case, it's worst betrayal case. Mauli pulled her out of hell, in return she intentionally kicked same Mauli in same hell. Same Mauli who saved her from asshole like Rajdeep. Nandini knows she owes her entire life to Mauli but still she continued her hormonal imbalance activities and not to forger, she is super proud of her beshrmi. And still people feel she is getting targeted JUST because of her gender when she is doing nothing.
😆


You know in this case, more than cheating, ehsaanfaramoshi is making people bash Nandini more, not her gender.





Exactly
Liking Nandini no matter how she hurts people around her is feminism or sexism? Loving people for their gender

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